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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/28/2013 3:13:27 AM   
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njlauren, you are entirely too kind. Thank you.

As to the original, could one scream white knight syndrome louder or the "I'm a better Dom than your Dom" thinly veiled message?

For what it's worth, I don't have to do that sh*t. Unlike the OP, I don't have to attempt to advertise. I just do what I do. In the course of which, I draw certain submissive personalities towards Me. I'm not scraping and crawling trying to pull others by My side. It just happens.

Perhaps, OP, you should not look to others, but rather into yourself. Mastery is found there.


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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/28/2013 5:04:48 AM   
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Ego, narcissism and 'personality disorders' are unproved theories of human behaviour that I do not subscribe to. Not everyone signs up to unscientific psychological theories you know.

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/28/2013 5:16:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle



My modesty can beat up your modesty.



Au contraire, *my* modesty is more vicious than *your* modesty.

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/28/2013 10:09:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt


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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle



My modesty can beat up your modesty.





Au contraire, *my* modesty is more vicious than *your* modesty.



....... quietly places bet on Chatteparfaitt

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/28/2013 10:17:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: littleone14


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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt


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My modesty can beat up your modesty.





Au contraire, *my* modesty is more vicious than *your* modesty.



....... quietly places bet on Chatteparfaitt



I'd like some of that my self. Always bet on a sure thing.

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/28/2013 10:35:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SerWhiteTiger


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I also believe that a narcissist is just as likely to be a submissive as a dominant and so if you are going to warn people, you need to warn everyone and not just the poor vulnerable submissive.


Actually, I agree with Maria. I would say that out in the community (Los Angeles area) I met more submissive women that were candidates for NPD than male Dominants. NPDs thrive on attention and the large number imbalance between men and women in the LA community means that women are pursued, flattered and often given tokens of affection.

It's an ideal environment for someone with NPD and since the majority of diagnoses are women, it would support what I saw.

With male Dominants, what I saw mostly was not narcissism, it was insecurity puffed up by bravado or sociopathic tendencies (emotionally unable to connect and using BDSM as a crutch to hide it).


Surely you mean HPD? Or are you merging them a bit?

I agree that insecure with sociopathic tendencies is more common for the male Dom, but I still see more male Dom NPD than female sub NPD. Lots of female sub HPD and BPD though.


No, I meant what I said "candidates for NPD". Yes, there were plenty of candidates for HPD, as well, but that was not the subject of the thread.

As I stated, this was Los Angeles, which automatically changes your demographic.


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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/28/2013 10:48:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: littleone14


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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt


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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle



My modesty can beat up your modesty.





Au contraire, *my* modesty is more vicious than *your* modesty.



....... quietly places bet on Chatteparfaitt



I'd like some of that my self. Always bet on a sure thing.


That was my reasoning as well.....

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/28/2013 2:40:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt


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My modesty can beat up your modesty.



Au contraire, *my* modesty is more vicious than *your* modesty.


I'd give you precise details about why my modesty is the greatest, most supreme modesty there is or ever could be, but modesty forbids it.

My mother used to tell me that my modesty was spectacular because I had so much to be modest about.

I'd ask how to make those darned smileys pop up where I want them to and how to insert pictures into a post here, but I'm too modest to admit I don't know how.

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/28/2013 2:57:34 PM   
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I'd ask how to make those darned smileys pop up where I want them to and how to insert pictures into a post here, but I'm too modest to admit I don't know how.



whispers to harryvanwinkle - click on "more smileys" to the left....


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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/29/2013 12:58:00 AM   
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Meanwhile I'm guessing someone might have realized there's no free info to mine here for a blog entry masquerading as an "article".

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/29/2013 7:33:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt


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My modesty can beat up your modesty.



Au contraire, *my* modesty is more vicious than *your* modesty.

Proof positive that my modesty need not brag nor boast,thus making my modesty far more modest than yours.

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/29/2013 7:52:04 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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But but, you just boasted about how modest your modesty is.

So there.

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/29/2013 9:59:10 AM   
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quote:


Have you learned to perceive the signs of a narcissist before it is too late?



Yeah.

I was first licensed to diagnosis that crap over 25 years ago.

You're wrong about it being untreatable.

Anything else you'd care to "teach"?

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/29/2013 10:12:04 PM   
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He doesn't want to teach, he wants to mine this thread, for info later to be included in something I doubt very much you will be made privvy to.

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/30/2013 12:26:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: SerWhiteTiger


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: MariaB
I also believe that a narcissist is just as likely to be a submissive as a dominant and so if you are going to warn people, you need to warn everyone and not just the poor vulnerable submissive.


Actually, I agree with Maria. I would say that out in the community (Los Angeles area) I met more submissive women that were candidates for NPD than male Dominants. NPDs thrive on attention and the large number imbalance between men and women in the LA community means that women are pursued, flattered and often given tokens of affection.

It's an ideal environment for someone with NPD and since the majority of diagnoses are women, it would support what I saw.

With male Dominants, what I saw mostly was not narcissism, it was insecurity puffed up by bravado or sociopathic tendencies (emotionally unable to connect and using BDSM as a crutch to hide it).


Surely you mean HPD? Or are you merging them a bit?

I agree that insecure with sociopathic tendencies is more common for the male Dom, but I still see more male Dom NPD than female sub NPD. Lots of female sub HPD and BPD though.


No, I meant what I said "candidates for NPD". Yes, there were plenty of candidates for HPD, as well, but that was not the subject of the thread.

As I stated, this was Los Angeles, which automatically changes your demographic.



Yeah, I realized later that LA would likely draw disproportionate numbers of NPD women.

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/30/2013 12:34:17 AM   
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Yeah, I realized later that LA would likely draw disproportionate numbers of NPD women.

and also BPCD, due to the theatre/film/tv hub of LA, and such folk are more dangerous. PHYSICALLY.

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/30/2013 3:00:22 AM   
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Quite the bunch of modest narcissists.

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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 9/30/2013 11:29:10 PM   
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Oh, I don't think people buying into a thread about such makes them such, anymore than a mother from the 50's, who had a toddler biting people, was a biter gerself if she nibbled the toddler's fingers to discourage the toddler from biting others.

I mean, before posting that, did you look at the OP's profile?

who is basically becoming a "life coach"? with yoga etc.?

the same kind that end up on NPR spruiking books on how THEY have "they way to make thineself better"?

for a mere $19.95, paperback, available at Target's Book section?




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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 10/1/2013 9:21:03 AM   
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RE: Narcissistic Personality Disorder - 10/1/2013 4:17:56 PM   
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Quite the bunch of modest narcissists.


I resemble that remark!

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