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 What personal experience, knowledge, information, skills that I earned first hand is mine.  It is mine to share, mine to keep and that is my right, regardless of any one and or many demand it.  (My words where what you quoted)...
 
 
The proof that you have indeed "attacked" me as a person is evident and you published it openly. 
 
You write; "...Hugs,

As usual, your grasp of things is shallow at best.  I did not attack the way gorians do things, nor their right to do them.  I just mocked their self-proclaimed ownership of things like being the only warriors/brave/noble/what have you. 

I poke fun at those who take themselves too seriously and I think you are their queen on CM.  I have pointed out where I believe you are wrong, pompous, even idiotic, but I have never attacked you as a person.  Your posts are chock full of “the one true way” crap and I point that out.  You constantly make claims of “how it was done” that are at best myopic and at worst brazen bs and I point that out.

In a thread where you spoke of your vast experience dealing with groups I asked you the size of those groups before which you lectured and it turns out you were talking about groups with 15 members of which only a handful (as if 15 isn’t a handful already) showed up to your lectures.  Upon this vast molehill of experience you create a CD with your wisdom.

If I laugh and poke fun at that claim it doesn’t mean I am attacking you.  If I said you were a doo doo head, that would be attacking you.  If I said the better part of you dribbled down your mother’s leg, that would be attacking you but I have not and would not stoop to that level.

Remember, it wasn’t I that in a thread about high protocol offered the tidbit of wisdom to reheat TV dinners and put them on real plates and serve them to unsuspecting guests as part of your formal dinner idea.

As for being unkind, you have no idea how kind to you I have been,

Most sincerely,
Michael

 
I shall not see your attempt to sway from the use of "poking fun, mockery and other words" to decrease the impact of the associated words of ridicule, disrespect, distain to which seems openly to be your intent, as it is directed to those on CM.
 
Justifying your behavior, through mockery of the amount of individuals in established support and education groups, would be similar in disrespecting minorities.  Conveniently,
you omitted the percentage of attending.  Justifying your behavior through mocking the fact that I save my written works to a CD-Rom, to which you have never seen, read and such--just shows so much.  I'm not the first person to save things to a disk and Vi Johnson was glad to take it.  And, for the placing a TV dinner onto a different plate, is not all that different from what chefs do behind the scenes at some of the high end hotels.  And, for someone who does not do well in cooking, it was a suggested option--not a command.
 
As to being kind to me-- I appreciate the effort and will look forward to more improvements and broader reach towards one and all.  Intended or not, no person deserves to feel like 'road kill' after reading your words, thus I petition the compassionate side of your nature, to consider those of a kind and gentle nature.
 
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs
 
 
 
 

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I offer my advice up as hard won PERSONAL experience; you wrap yourself in the various cloaks of "old days" bullshit.  I smelled it the first time you posted but you hadn't really laid yourself out where I could expose your game.