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ORIGINAL: crazyml
I'd say you were borderline creepy

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ORIGINAL: Ilyrium

My question is hard to pose in words but what has always amazed me is that the moment I see any woman's breasts, I just want to hold them in my hands, fondle them, and suckle on them - yet - I doubt many women feel the same way about cocks.

I can't speak for "all men", but, as "on man", the moment I see a short skirt, I want to lift it up, and to give the woman the pleasure of a good licking. I wonder if women feel the same say about a man, say, in shorts (or a kilt?). Somehow I doubt it - but that's what I'm asking.

For men or women (of any ilk), do you have the same (or similar) feelings of wanting to lick and suck (in my case) a woman's breasts and kitty? When I see a nice set of buns, I just want to stick my tongue and make her writhe in pleasure.

What confuses me is whether I'm just weird, or if a lot of others strongly desire to lick another's body where they show it.

This is getting complicated to explain, but, this desire doesn't happen as much if the woman, for example, is in rollers and a house dress running errands at the grocery store.

It happens, to me, when a woman is "dressed up", and, in particular, that usually means a skirt, lipstick, heels, etc. So, for example, to further explain my dilemma, say I went to meet a hypothetical female friend who, say, (for whatever reason) dressed up for the occasion by wearing a miniskirt and a low slung tight blouse and red pumps. Trust me when I tell you, even if she were my best platonic friend, I'd STILL want to hold those boobs in my hands and pleasure them with my mouth, and even if we were BFF, I would STILL think about lifting that skirt and licking her to pleasure her until she screamed, and doing the same to her behind were she to enjoy that.

Of course, if I thought this hypothetical best female friend didn't want it, I would NEVER do it. ... but ... my dilemma is that there is absolutely no way I could stop myself from THINKING about pleasuring her, just by the sight, sound (of her voice and clicking heels, for example), and smell (various scents) of her.

Sorry for the long winded question, but, to try to summarize, do women (and other men) also feel like ripping the clothes off someone dressed sexily in order to pleasure them with their lingual abilities?

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ORIGINAL: Nakhla


I have more than enough self control to have a decent, friendly, and occasionally meaningful first conversation with a man I find exceptionally attractive. None the less, it's mostly just a facade for the keyboard-mashing unintelligible screed of lusty thoughts going on inside. In fact, a big apology goes out to to all men I find sexy ( pretty much all Middle Eastern and most Latin and Indian menfolk ) for the fact that whatever you or I may of said on our first acquaintance, my thoughts were primarily an amphigory of penetrative potentialities.

With repeated exposure I can get used to a guy and feel normally towards him, though.

I've never met a woman with this particular issue, so in short: yeah, it's a guy thing.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I suggest getting to a counselor so he can get laid.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
I guarantee you that 99% of all women like getting appreciative looks

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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
I guarantee you that 99% of all women like getting appreciative looks

I guess I must be the 1% then; I hate that second look that guys give when you've pinged their lady rader. When I'm out and about in public life, I'm just a person going about my day, I don't need to want to know that you saw me and thought of your cock, and any action or behaviour towards that impulse will ick me.

Now, when I'm in a killer dress at a club - then sure, it's nice to feel the heads turn because I'm in sex mode, and I want the recognition.

But if I never get noticed in public for the rest of my life, if will be too soon.

I actually think this belief that women wanted to be appreciated for their appearance by random people in public contributes to the OP's attitude - he thinks of them as things to be looked at first, as people second.

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There is a HUGE difference between an appreciative look and someone leering or staring.

Leering at a girl is positively creepy and usually unwanted.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

What I find disturbing about the OP is not that he stares or fantasizes, since most men do that, but that he tries to validate his strong feelings of wanting to reach out and touch strangers by saying he wants to please them.

OP, I guarantee you that 99% of all women like getting appreciative looks, but would not be pleased at all by your intensive focus on just their looks/attire.

Most of us only care for that obsessive attention from a man we are involved with, not a stranger in a bookstore.

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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
I guarantee you that 99% of all women like getting appreciative looks

I guess I must be the 1% then; I hate that second look that guys give when you've pinged their lady rader. When I'm out and about in public life, I'm just a person going about my day, I don't need to want to know that you saw me and thought of your cock, and any action or behaviour towards that impulse will ick me.

Now, when I'm in a killer dress at a club - then sure, it's nice to feel the heads turn because I'm in sex mode, and I want the recognition.

But if I never get noticed in public for the rest of my life, if will be too soon.

I actually think this belief that women wanted to be appreciated for their appearance by random people in public contributes to the OP's attitude - he thinks of them as things to be looked at first, as people second.

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Ok, your second post has taken you across the border into creepy town!