directiveerror
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ORIGINAL: zushi In my normal life I'm a proud, intelligent, confident and strong-willed woman. However, in private with my partner I am submissive and with patience he taught me to accept this role... I can be pretty stubborn. I need to be reminded constantly of my position. I was taught to accept collar and leash so he can train me - I struggled a lot but finally accepted these tools for my obedience training. I'm doing more or less progress... Basic positions and commandos like: sit, heel, down, as well as walking on a leash is working fine. The problem is, I need more (different?) training to deepen my submission. I was given the task to figure out new techniques that help me to find my way to obedience. Does anyone have experience with strong-willed women and how to get rid of the last reluctance to completely submit? Any help and ideas are appreciated... you want to be something different than you are? i am the same, strong-willed... but not at all argumentative. assertive.... in a calm way. and i never back down from something i believe is right... but completely open to suggestion on all other topics. this sort of middle ground came from what started as a rambunctious little creature that would sooner tear you limb from limb than take a knee. sure i was impulsive but older me admires that and when i see someone who wants to deny who they naturally are all i can think is... why? it is possible to control someone like me... but no dom i've had has ever managed, and it took years of refusing against anything that that was my "natural place" as i had been raised to believe to come to realize that i would much rather be alone than belong to anyone but myself. so i have this to say: you 'want' to be more submissive for someone else. you are asking a forum how you can be more submissive for someone else.... obviously you are already there. "the first step is acceptance".... you actually want to change yourself for someone else, i dont see how you could possibly do a better job at serving someone else than that.... doing things without speaking first, that comes with time, not questioning anything, time.... and if you want that.... than you are already on the path.
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