LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant I love and adore women. They're quite special to me, and up to the point we reach the panty ritual, they're never fuck meat. I absolutely adore FemD's, the ones that are certain who they are, like LP (yep, that's me lovin on ya babe). We can enjoy each other in earnest and there is never dick measuring (forgive the analogy, but I'm sure you know what I mean). Exiled Oh, damn. I got loved on and didn't even see it for weeks! Right back at you, hon. Addressing the original, I'm all good with those who say if there is no love, there is no dynamic. However, it doesn't work that way for everybody. I posted on these boards for the entire length of My last dynamic and I've got a good number of posts out there that stated, quite frankly, that it was a service based dynamic and it wasn't love based at all. One of the most memorable (for Me) was a comment that undergroundsea wrote in either 2008 or 2009 after we had met him at SELF when he has said we looked very much "in love" and I told him that his view was off because there was no romantic element included in the dynamic in the slightest. I've probably got a thousand posts out there with the same theme, so if anybody tries to shovel bullshit about how it never happens or nobody's ever seen it, please go back to any prior post that I made on the subject from that five year period and you will see that, absolutely, it exists. (Five years long term enough for y'all? Works for Me either way.) The dynamic that I have now does include a love element and it is not service based. That doesn't imply that there is no service involved. It just means that the love comes first. That's why you guys have seen Me acting like somebody who got the golden ticket out of a Willie Wonka bar for these last few months. Since the sexual aspect came up, I'll address that, too. Personally, I kind of suck at sport fucking. I can, from a certain standpoint, do ok from an ownership rights standpoint or hook it into My sadism. Before anybody even goes there, yes, these are ridiculously selfish and I admit that freely. (Frankly, if I was a male Dominant and copped to that, I'd probably get My head served on a plate.) It is different in My view because of the way I'm wired. Some of which I can't really explain because it's hard to convey the two different states of mind and the responses physically. Edited to add a forgotten 's'.
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