dollparts85
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Seriously, edema is a big deal with all sorts of implications, and being big enough to have edema is also an issue for which you should see a dietician. Look, my weight has always been fairly steady, even with being hypothyroid and earlier eating disorders, the only time my weight really jumped up dramatically, was after cancer surgery, due to losing an ovary my hormones freaked out and I started retaining fluids. I'm willing to bet that a lot of your weight is really just retained fluids and a pretty fucked up metabolism. I suffered and starved myself for months and couldn't shift anything before I dared to speak to my OB Gyn, who got to the root of the problem, he told me that I might have to suffer for 2 years until the remaining ovary will produce enough (he was right) but said he can do something about the fluid retention, as that was a problem that could affect my health and heart dramatically. I got a bunch of meds and a very salt restrictive diet and had to actually up my calorie intake but the right calories. Keep on pushing them, I was about your age (actually a bit younger) when the big C and all the shit happened, if you are also suffering from a lack of oestrogen, you will feel down and out, but things can change and will, if you keep pushing. Don't be afraid to ask questions and if you get a no, ask why not. Also if your hormones are out of whack (yeah, such a technical term), it will influence your weight considerably, thyroid problems make it even worse. All of that can be solved, but the main thing is, as long as you keep purging, they can't, you got to stop the purging, get a good support system around you and push, push, push. Take notes when you are speaking to a health professional, if you are speaking to somebody on the phone, write down the name and the date (ask for their name and how to spell it), don't get brushed off. I know my estrogen is low but they can't do anything about that b/c I can't take estrogen. I'm going to be seeing a new ob/gyn in a couple weeks...maybe she will be able to help. I'm really worried about that appointment though b/c my last pap was abnormal. Hopefully this one will be normal.
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