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Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/5/2014 7:40:28 PM   
quickiemy


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Status: offline 		Have you ever shared your sub with other dom? Does your sub/slave enjoy with it?
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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/5/2014 9:25:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		with a past owner, yes. Did nothing at all for me. Both the Dom/mes liked it.
With current Master, no but I am sure it will happen in the future if he wants it.


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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/5/2014 9:29:40 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Depends what you mean by "share".

Neither one of us have sex outside the primary relationship.

That said, both of us play (spanking, flogging, bondage) outside the primary relationship. Sometimes, we take in a third into a play scene that we share, and I get to top two women, or Tasha gets topped by two Tops.

I have permitted her to perform vanilla tasks for others.

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/5/2014 9:33:18 PM   
quickiemy


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Status: offline 		Thank you for answers. By sharing, I mean giving the slave to another dom and ordering him to obey his new dom for a while, like few days. I am wondering if this means that my dom is bored of me, or he finds it arousing.

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/5/2014 9:40:53 PM   
RaspberryLemon


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Status: offline 		Many people do "share" their submissives, and are into that with their partner.

We're not, though. My Master keeps me to himself and doesn't want to share me. I'm his and only his. And I'm quite happy with that.

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/5/2014 9:55:57 PM   
DaddySatyr


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy

Thank you for answers. By sharing, I mean giving the slave to another dom and ordering him to obey his new dom for a while, like few days. I am wondering if this means that my dom is bored of me, or he finds it arousing.



I have done this; not for a few days but for an evening.

In my case, it's a matter of pride. My lady serves me well and I know she'll serve others well.

I should mention that I am not really into BDSM so there is no impact/violence what-so-ever. She's mine and NO ONE does that kind of stuff to my lady.





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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/5/2014 10:16:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: quickiemy

Thank you for answers. By sharing, I mean giving the slave to another dom and ordering him to obey his new dom for a while, like few days. I am wondering if this means that my dom is bored of me, or he finds it arousing.


Ask him

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 5:06:31 AM   
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I am wondering if this means that my dom is bored of me, or he finds it arousing.


It means that you're endangering yourself by blindly following. Has anyone ever mentioned the phrase "bad boundaries" to you?

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 8:43:23 AM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy

Have you ever shared your sub with other dom? Does your sub/slave enjoy with it?

If you read my profile, right at the beginning it says another Domme is sharing a sub with me/I am sharing him with her. This is an ongoing thing, he spends most of his time w/ her in Alaska and considerably less time with me in Washington. Our sharing him includes vanilla times, play, she prefers a service/no sex dynamic with him & I have a service + sex dynamic with him. He loves it, she's cool with it and I'm cool with it. It works for all three of us. We're all three poly, she has other subs and I'm looking for one more besides him.

Other than that situation, I did have a sub at one time that I shared with another Domme for awhile. HE is the one who first asked me about doing it. He wanted to be shared with someone, she wanted to learn how to do some specific things which are better learned by hands-on & I taught her, and it worked out great for everyone. He loved it, he even joked about being the perfect BDSM training device while living his fantasy of two Dommes at the same time.

Other than that, I've never shared a sub of mine. I think if I ever did again, it would be just for some play and NOT for actual sex. There'd be some good boundaries and rules in place around the sharing if it did happen.

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 1:52:39 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy

Thank you for answers. By sharing, I mean giving the slave to another dom and ordering him to obey his new dom for a while, like few days. I am wondering if this means that my dom is bored of me, or he finds it arousing.

Me?
Nope.

1-I'm a selfish prick
2-I have an aversion to STD's
3-I don't trust people worth piss
4-I'm a misogynistic hypocritical swine. I'd share her with a chica but not a guy. Why you ask? Because I've been to orgies and had threesomes before and ya know what? Chicks ain't that big. I don't find it sexy at all to look up from porking the bitch to see my buddies naked ass 12 inches from my face. Personally I find that a tad unbecoming.
It most def is no turn-on and is pretty much the obverse for me.

As for just giving her to someone else, say for a couple of days or something-ooooh hell no. Nevereverever. Not. I've dealt with chicks who have that happen and unless they tend toward poly (Which only changes everything) it rarely leaves them in a good head space. Usually, from the ones I've seen and talked to, it fucks them up.
To me,it's one of those the reward doesn't even kinda sorta outweigh the risks.

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 5:40:41 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Phew! That's good to know.
(even though I already knew about the man on man. )


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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 5:52:56 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Phew! That's good to know.
(even though I already knew about the man on man. )


I said "give."
Now, if there were to be an equitable exchange...

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 5:59:48 PM   
littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Phew! That's good to know.
(even though I already knew about the man on man. )


I said "give."
Now, if there were to be an equitable exchange...


Why did I know there was a catch?

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 6:12:10 PM   
shiftyw


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Status: offline 		As a sub, I know I would like it (has yet to happen).
Especially if another lady were involved as I am bisexual.

but I'm terrified of stds.
So I would only do this with a clean screening and me being able to see it.

But I'm also wired more for poly than monogamy (although my current relationship is monogamous and has worked out very well...)

But really...
I'd love for science to come through and cure STDs already so I could just be slutty without fear.

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 6:23:35 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: quickiemy

Thank you for answers. By sharing, I mean giving the slave to another dom and ordering him to obey his new dom for a while, like few days. I am wondering if this means that my dom is bored of me, or he finds it arousing.


The question that needs to be asked isn't why a dom would do this, but are you okay with it?

Do you want to be shared or do you want to be monogamous to your dom?


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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 6:35:01 PM   
quickiemy


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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 6:36:38 PM   
quickiemy


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder


quote:

ORIGINAL: quickiemy

Thank you for answers. By sharing, I mean giving the slave to another dom and ordering him to obey his new dom for a while, like few days. I am wondering if this means that my dom is bored of me, or he finds it arousing.


Ask him


I am not allowed to ask questions to my master.

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 6:54:54 PM   
ChaoticIntent


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy

Thank you for answers. By sharing, I mean giving the slave to another dom and ordering him to obey his new dom for a while, like few days. I am wondering if this means that my dom is bored of me, or he finds it arousing.


Ask him


I am not allowed to ask questions to my master.


I bet you are a wonderful and kind person. It really seems like you are based on your few posts, so I hope my perspective finds you well.

I am submissive as well, and let me say that if I had the most beautiful domme ever and she said I could not ask questions. I would LEAVE that relationship in a heart beat. In a relationship where one is not aloud to ask questions screams huge red flags from my perspective. The fact that you are on here asking questions tells me that something about this is not sitting right for you.

Hope your situations does not turn into the analogy of the, frog that sits in the pot over a turned on stove not realizing it's being cook.

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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 7:01:12 PM   
littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy

Thank you for answers. By sharing, I mean giving the slave to another dom and ordering him to obey his new dom for a while, like few days. I am wondering if this means that my dom is bored of me, or he finds it arousing.


Ask him


I am not allowed to ask questions to my master.



eeerr....good luck to ya then! You're gonna need it.


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RE: Sharing a sub with other dom - 3/6/2014 7:04:21 PM   
angelikaJ


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy

Thank you for answers. By sharing, I mean giving the slave to another dom and ordering him to obey his new dom for a while, like few days. I am wondering if this means that my dom is bored of me, or he finds it arousing.


Ask him


I am not allowed to ask questions to my master.


Is being a mind reader a requirement of his?


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