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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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How ridiculous. What does her profile photos have to do with her explaining (yet again), that your limited experience with a few submissives is not representative of all submissive women?

It's too bad you did not like my post. You have two choices. Ignore it or insult it or debate it. I would prefer you answer why my post is wrong.

Now in response to you, I have found that being a submissive is liberating to the woman and they celebrate that state with their profile and with the right Dom they are not seeking to go to dinner as they could have done that on POF and that is regardless of what women feel they need to say in a public forum. It's the truth based on years of experience with many submissive women. You can be the exception and that does not bother me in the least bit but that does not make you something special over the women who are otherwise and they are the majority on the other side.

1. Ignore it.
2. Insult it.
3. Debate it.

Who knew?

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Your problem is that you only see your way as being true of others and you do not speak for all submissives or Doms for that matter.

I find your posts are designed not to be helpful, but to constantly promote your own relationship.

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I find your posts are designed not to be helpful,

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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things still follow the good old fashioned rules of dating that you already are acquainted with. Adding BDSM doesn't make it any different.

See my answer to that above. While star got to know me very well before moving into a long term relationship, neither she or others followed "the old fashioned rules for dating" when meeting for the first time. I did meet Star over dinner and we were fully vanilla that night because she lost her babysitter, but that is not the rule with submissives and Doms when first meeting. I assure you, and even star was in "don't take me out to dinner but pull my hair and make me a woman" mode on the next date. It's the way it really is.

That has everything to do with the type of women you are personally attracted to.
Most women have a different sense of personal boundaries than the women who respond to you that way, and we don't want our hair (either literally or figuratively) pulled on the first or second dates.
Just because your personal mileage varies, does not make it the norm.

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Since the rules on necro threads have changed, I'm sure we could shed quite a bit of light on peoples "one true wayism's". You never know who might have a STARing role in personal drama hell on these boards.

Jus sayin
Exiled

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


Since the rules on necro threads have changed, I'm sure we could shed quite a bit of light on peoples "one true wayism's". You never know who might have a STARing role in personal drama hell on these boards.

Jus sayin
Exiled

If I had more time available, I'd do an edited 'best off' compilation.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

I am not the only one who does it, most doms with experience have chimed in with the very same macho, perhaps more macho, than I write with but it might come with the years of being a Dom

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


Since the rules on necro threads have changed, I'm sure we could shed quite a bit of light on peoples "one true wayism's". You never know who might have a STARing role in personal drama hell on these boards.

Jus sayin
Exiled

If I had more time available, I'd do an edited 'best off' compilation.

HOLY SHIT!!! I'll hold a fund raiser to make that happen!

Jus sayin

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

I am not the only one who does it, most doms with experience have chimed in with the very same macho, perhaps more macho, than I write with but it might come with the years of being a Dom

Not that I think you'll hear, understand, or mind this, but FYI:

It's not the macho that's the issue per say... as you note, that's a rather common occurrence, and while sometimes met with scoff, it's rarely met with contempt -as your posts frequently are.

It's the paragraph long soliloquies about the the shape of her legs, methods of your play and what she wears when going in such details does nothing but distract from the topic at hand that people consider pompous, self-promoting, and offensive. Where to you to stick to the actual topic at hand, and answer to questions without the need for content over-the-top floral embellishments nobody gives a shit about, your posts wouldn't be met with half the mockery they are now.

Not that anybody minds you going on and on about what she's wearing, and how play went and such... it's just that you seem to find the need to insert those types of monologues whenever you have the chance, regardless of whether or not appropriate, making every single person on this forum view you as an insecure little man seeking to self-promote the fading glory of a relationship that only ever truly existed in his own head, in an attempt to hold on to a fantasy of how he wishes his life might have been... Weather that's accurate or not, I do not know, but that IS how your insistence of injecting romance novel type soft-core pornography in every post you see an opening for it comes across.

Take that information as you will...

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If I had more time available, I'd do an edited 'best off' compilation.

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Weather that's accurate or not, I do not know, but that IS how your insistence of injecting romance-novel type soft-core pornography in every post you see an opening for it comes across.

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ORIGINAL: Blueswordsman

tendermercies17,

It's Three days since you talked with your Master. If he has not contacted you consider offering yourself. Example "Master tendermercies17 is ready to serve upon command." If he answers or don't, you have your answer.

I read your profile. FYI The attributes of a perfect woman ... She is deaf, dumb, oversexed and owns a liquor store.

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No. It's NOT the way it really is.
Please don't speak for female submissives until you become one.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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No. It's NOT the way it really is.
Please don't speak for female submissives until you become one.

Let's examine if this is a reasonable suggestion. After all, how many submissive women do you know so intimately that you know what they do on their first meeting. I'll answer for you, exactly one. Only yourself. Whereas the Doms know more than one, sometimes many more than one in this manner and know more what they do than you could ever. So, suggesting I don't know how submissive women act and you do is a lost argument from the word go.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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Weather that's accurate or not, I do not know, but that IS how your insistence of injecting romance-novel type soft-core pornography in every post you see an opening for it comes across.

At times I do embellish with some details of past experience. I enjoy it. I think others do this also about past experiences and even relationships. However, I will keep that in mind. Thanks.

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No. It's NOT the way it really is.
Please don't speak for female submissives until you become one.

Let's examine if this is a reasonable suggestion. After all, how many submissive women do you know so intimately that you know what they do on their first meeting. I'll answer for you, exactly one. Only yourself. Whereas the Doms know more than one, sometimes many more than one in this manner and know more what they do than you could ever. So, suggesting I don't know how submissive women act and you do is a lost argument from the word go.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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No. It's NOT the way it really is.
Please don't speak for female submissives until you become one.

Let's examine if this is a reasonable suggestion. After all, how many submissive women do you know so intimately that you know what they do on their first meeting. I'll answer for you, exactly one. Only yourself. Whereas the Doms know more than one, sometimes many more than one in this manner and know more what they do than you could ever. So, suggesting I don't know how submissive women act and you do is a lost argument from the word go.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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No. It's NOT the way it really is.
Please don't speak for female submissives until you become one.

Let's examine if this is a reasonable suggestion. After all, how many submissive women do you know so intimately that you know what they do on their first meeting. I'll answer for you, exactly one. Only yourself. Whereas the Doms know more than one, sometimes many more than one in this manner and know more what they do than you could ever. So, suggesting I don't know how submissive women act and you do is a lost argument from the word go.

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ORIGINAL: MisterP61

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ORIGINAL: Blueswordsman

tendermercies17,

It's Three days since you talked with your Master. If he has not contacted you consider offering yourself. Example "Master tendermercies17 is ready to serve upon command." If he answers or don't, you have your answer.

I read your profile. FYI The attributes of a perfect woman ... She is deaf, dumb, oversexed and owns a liquor store.

I am really trying to understand why none of the regulars here like you. You are so personable and likable (and please feel free to read that with as much sarcasm as you can muster).