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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 5/29/2014 8:11:35 PM

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First - I cannot say anything about your Master as I do not know either of you.
Speaking about my practices, as a sign of her submission between us, I have her maintain shaving anything rooted below the nose. That is my personal preference, but I phrase it as a sign of her submission ... something she does because she has given me her submission.

The only exception that I have done was to command her NOT to shave her pubes when she willingly violated my instructions. Within a few days, she was very sorry and begging to be permitted to shave. The hair she had not had for sometime seriously bothered her. I kept her begging for relief for a week before shaving her myself.
The bonus was fewer discipline problems after that.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 5/30/2014 9:40:31 PM

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My idiot skin cannot handle shaving or waxing, and laser was a painful waste of money that left burns.

I just trim super close using this. It's pretty awesome, and the foil lets me go super smooth.

As far as preferences, he loves smooth, but was put off by the long recovery from shaving/waxing, so I'm forbidden from further salon trips. :3 He will, on occasion, suggest a landing strip or something, but it's usually up to me.

I'm going to dye it a stupid color and see what he thinks about that.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 6/7/2014 5:35:43 AM

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To shave or not to shave…

So here is a question I am posing to all the masters (and subs) out there. My master changes his mind about my pussy being shaved on a regular basis. Sometimes he requires a smooth pussy. Other times he forbids me to shave for a few weeks straight.

I know most people have preferences one way or another.

I know I have given him my body to do with as he pleases….so is this just one example of that? Or am I reading too much into the hair vs. no hair thing… Has anyone else ever used this as a method of dominance?

Any thoughts???

...so is this an example of that?

I think you know, you very bad girl!

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 6/8/2014 12:40:38 AM

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How expensive was the laser hair removal?

I have CRAZY sensitive skin (see my post on another website you're on for gross TMI details).
NOTHING is working for me, accept following my gyno's instructions of, leave well enough alone. I hate it. I prefer all smooth and so does my man.
BUT my man also prefers me to not have razor burn, rashes or yeast infections.

I've been looking into laser hair removal...but its so expensive and results seems really varied.

She had all her pubes removed and either she was graced with no hair on her ass or they removed those too. I never asked. Maybe she will chime in and answer that one.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 6/8/2014 9:12:15 AM

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If I had a master/mistress I would do as I was told if they wanted me shaved I would do it(if I could not reach because I am a BBW) I would offer my pussy to them and let them shave me bare. I am a sub and willing to please to make them happy!! What I prefer would not matter as long as they are happy with me

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 6/13/2014 7:38:58 PM

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Laser hair removal only works on dark hairs. If you are blondish it won't work. Yes I had my ass lasered also. I have fair skin but not terribly sensitive. Had a tiny bit of redness. Only said ouch once but I'm a maso so for others it prob hurts more. They will offer ice and can put on a gel or cream after. It takes about 6-8 visits Abt 6 weeks apart to be completely finished. I paid a grand.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 6/15/2014 3:47:21 PM

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I have been considering having laser hair removal for awhile. If you don't mind my asking, are the results as smooth and clean as those of the actresses in porn? If so, do these results occur after the time intervals you described in your post? Is there additional maintenance you do at home, i.e. having to shave any individual hair that pops up, or are you left completely bare of all hair growing back? Do you go back to salon at later intervals for touch-ups or maintenance? Sorry for all the questions, but I would appreciate the info you could provide from your own experience. I do understand that individual results may vary. Thank you in advance.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 6/15/2014 9:10:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: devyL

To shave or not to shave…

So here is a question I am posing to all the masters (and subs) out there. My master changes his mind about my pussy being shaved on a regular basis. Sometimes he requires a smooth pussy. Other times he forbids me to shave for a few weeks straight.

I know most people have preferences one way or another.

I know I have given him my body to do with as he pleases….so is this just one example of that? Or am I reading too much into the hair vs. no hair thing… Has anyone else ever used this as a method of dominance?

Any thoughts???

You're kidding me....seriously?

You're asking whether or not you should shave your nether regions?

Shave it if you're a chic....no one will be upset if....you're a chic and....you shave it.

Bald is beautiful.

If you're a guy...shave it. No one will be upset if you don't.

If you don't, are you a dentist? If not, shave it.

No chic wants to floss while giving you a blow job.

You think that just because you like it smooooooth....that she wouldn't?

Get a clue.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 6/18/2014 9:33:41 AM

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As a dom I would say do what the dom asks. If you are that opposed move on to a different relationship if not be quiet and obey. Is it worth stopping a relationship over? That is the major question here that is unasked. If not then do what he asks and smile and love him for telling you what to do.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/1/2014 6:36:31 AM

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I knew a guy who didn't want his woman to shave anything because he was insecure and didn't want her to feel attractive.

When you're furry and he wants you to shave again.. have him shave you and use his tongue to check for stubble.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/5/2014 2:42:46 PM

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Yeah seems to me he keeps asking you to change as a dominant thing. I don't do hair removal, but that aside, I wouldn't be keen on your situation solely due to the skin irritation/expense/time factor that I'm not sure men who don't do hair removal understand?

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/7/2014 3:48:14 PM

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Laser hair removal only works on dark hairs. If you are blondish it won't work. Yes I had my ass lasered also. I have fair skin but not terribly sensitive. Had a tiny bit of redness. Only said ouch once but I'm a maso so for others it prob hurts more. They will offer ice and can put on a gel or cream after. It takes about 6-8 visits Abt 6 weeks apart to be completely finished. I paid a grand.

^^ Thanks.
I've asked my gyno and she said "I'd really recommend you do not go this route with your history of easy yeast infections, this could make that much worse..."
So for now I'm just trimming =/ We will see what I end up deciding...

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/7/2014 3:49:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: devyL

To shave or not to shave…

So here is a question I am posing to all the masters (and subs) out there. My master changes his mind about my pussy being shaved on a regular basis. Sometimes he requires a smooth pussy. Other times he forbids me to shave for a few weeks straight.

I know most people have preferences one way or another.

I know I have given him my body to do with as he pleases….so is this just one example of that? Or am I reading too much into the hair vs. no hair thing… Has anyone else ever used this as a method of dominance?

Any thoughts???

I just wanna know how the fuck long it took for someone to put all that shit on your lips.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/8/2014 3:17:55 AM

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The question is double.
A) Does the framework within which your Master and you practice the BDSM lifestyle included you giving up control on those bodily aspects (and from what I read in your main question the answer is yes) or not.
If so the answer to the first part is YES, he can, you relinquished control over that. If it was negotiated out (woman in a vanilla relationship that consult a Dominant or Trainer without the knowledge of their partner often do negotiate such things out for obvious reasons), then NO.

B) As for the mind changing. Well as long as you shaved the traditional way hair grows back. With laser it is quite final. I am all for shaved but not at all for laser.
The shaving/hair itself can be used in/as play (amongst others in humiliation play, House discipline and signalling/ranking if you are in a poly-house).
Making the sub/slave trimming it or shaving it daily (you check with a cotton if it has been well done) can be part of discipline.

Your Master for sure knows if he uses the shaving in one of the above scenario's or just as part an erotic experience.
The beauty of the thing is that you don't need to know, and actually that you, holding the submissive role, should/could draw a deeper sub-experience from it by not knowing and complying with the orders without questioning.

Actually if you like to be shaved all the time the moments that he forbids you to shave should be the stronger ones because they allow you to give more up of yourself (feel the power exchange better) to please your Master/Dom which for a sub is the top of the agenda.
Another thing you need not to think about, another area in which you need not to make decisions and isn't that what 99% of the sub tell us that floats their boat.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/20/2014 8:18:40 PM

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So many people, some even with much experience demand a shaved pussy and see it as just a matter of personal choice; especially your Master's. However the fact is that vaginal hair is there for a reason and it is about good health. Vaginal hair keeps bad bacteria away from your vagina. Its function is much like eyelashes. If a woman is clean and attentive to her hygiene, there should be no problem with vaginal hair. This is true for men as well. I often wonder if a Master, who says 'Yuck" about his sub's vaginal hair and would understand a sub who said 'Yuck" to swallowing his cum? I guess in the end, a god Master will choose his sub's well being before his own yuck. But who knows?

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/21/2014 5:51:18 AM

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So many people, some even with much experience demand a shaved pussy and see it as just a matter of personal choice; especially your Master's. However the fact is that vaginal hair is there for a reason and it is about good health. Vaginal hair keeps bad bacteria away from your vagina. Its function is much like eyelashes. If a woman is clean and attentive to her hygiene, there should be no problem with vaginal hair. This is true for men as well. I often wonder if a Master, who says 'Yuck" about his sub's vaginal hair and would understand a sub who said 'Yuck" to swallowing his cum? I guess in the end, a god Master will choose his sub's well being before his own yuck. But who knows?

The only problem I have with vaginal hair on me is I hate it and I'm glad Master doesn't like vaginal hair. If he did like it and wanted me to grow it back, I would do it for him but I wouldn't be too happy about it. I like bare mainly because everything sexual feels so much better to me, more sensitivity with no hair cushioning and coming between whatever is touching my skin whether it's tongue, fingers, toys, his dick, my own hands or whatever other tools he uses on me. I've been going bare since I was in my late teens (I'm now in my 50s) and I never had any kind of vaginal infections. I've been going to the gyno every year faithfully since I was 18, have had 3 different gynos in all those years and not one ever told me it's unsafe or unhealthy for the vagina not having pubic hair.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/21/2014 7:20:25 AM

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Well, it depends on the girl.

Generally, I prefer the natural look, but as my girl has very light growth, I sort of get the best of both worlds.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/24/2014 9:57:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: devyL

To shave or not to shave…

So here is a question I am posing to all the masters (and subs) out there. My master changes his mind about my pussy being shaved on a regular basis. Sometimes he requires a smooth pussy. Other times he forbids me to shave for a few weeks straight.

I know most people have preferences one way or another.

I know I have given him my body to do with as he pleases….so is this just one example of that? Or am I reading too much into the hair vs. no hair thing… Has anyone else ever used this as a method of dominance?

Any thoughts???

I wouldn't worry about it too much. It sounds like your master likes both, but changes his mind once in a while. And yes, if your body is his then just view it as that.
But, if this does bug then just bring it up to your master.

As far as myself, I prefer shaved or waxed

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/24/2014 10:05:07 PM

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@Bondalee1 - I'm going to have to comment on this. Vaginal hair, like all hair, is meant to protect an animal from the elements. Since we have worn close fitting clothes for, oh, a few thousand years - and likewise, men and women have been shaving for about that long as well - the whole "oh it's so much better for your health" point is moot. If you like being hairy, great - but don't use the "it's better for your personal health and hygiene" line. It's bogus. Pubic hair = better well being? You might wanna run that by a few health professionals/OB/Gyns before you make claims like that. It's a personal preference. Period.

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RE: To Shave or Not to Shave.... - 7/25/2014 4:27:48 PM

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I 100% concur. No health or even personal hygiene aspect.

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