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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 11:46:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: Capablanca

Also, something important, I know the owner (Eric) probably doesn't want to commit to the change yet because he is likely trying to recover CollarMe either from diplomacy with Tiffany or legal action. But if CollarMe disappears, even temporarily, every second it's down is users being permanently lost and its reputation -- I know there's a lot of snark about this but its reputation is at least better than "site that is going to disappear any day" -- being destroyed. I say he should commit, and then he has more freedom and an upper hand in any potential negotiations. If he does win CollarMe.com back, then he can just have CollarSpace redirect back there, change everything back, and send out a message along with putting a message on the website for a week or so explaining that CM is back and thanking everyone for their cooperation or whatever.

I love what you wrote. A Site going down even for a second though is inherently hurt by it. If anyone has seen "the social network" or owns a domain would know this. This affects your ratings on google's algorithms as well. The cm domain value has probably plummeted according to google. This is how google works. It recognizes everything your domain does good and bad and it is logged into its algorithms FOREVER and if she did the newsletters, advertisingf and SEO she knows this, so this Tiffany woman....anyway, I'll hold my opinions to myself. But after the mod drama, all the immature nonsense that has gone on it is CLEAR the owner left village idiots to micromanage his site while he took a step back, trusted WAY too much, didn't educate himself on site management and this is the result. He should have forseen this crap and acted on it sooner. So what will be will be but it's a shame that the BDSM community has to look like a bunch of ding dongs because of some kindergarten butthurt. I'm just completely turned off and this will definitely not make me want to be a part of any kink "community" anytime soon. I'm so happy I'm an introvert right now.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 12:08:43 PM

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Two people with hopes and dreams.

Ah, but are they livin' the dream?

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 12:08:58 PM

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I read the "Tiffany" message just now and all I can say is "WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!"
What a GD whiner! For fuck's sake, woman, grow a pair already. You should have had a lawyer at your side form Day 1.
So NOW you're all butt-hurt because you got screwed-over by your partner? Welcome to the real world, sweetie.
Yeah, from your side of the story the guy sounds like USDA Prime Asshole, but it's not like there weren't any signs. That is
if we can believe your story.

Best of luck with resolving things - it IS going to cost you money so start bending over now.

BTW: Sorry about your daughter's situation but not terribly professional to drag her into it. I hope she can heal soon.

~Dave

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 12:17:49 PM

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This made me LOL:

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As an example, an advertiser wanted to put up an extremely tasteful ad which showed several young ladies’ perfectly manicured legs and feet. The ad was obviously for the large segment of the BDSM community who have an interest in foot fetishes, but he was “grossed out” by this and insisted that “no one wants to look at womens’ feet.”

Like we all really, Really wanted to look at the wiggling anus?

<Hijack over>

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 12:20:55 PM

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FR
This made me LOL:

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As an example, an advertiser wanted to put up an extremely tasteful ad which showed several young ladies’ perfectly manicured legs and feet. The ad was obviously for the large segment of the BDSM community who have an interest in foot fetishes, but he was “grossed out” by this and insisted that “no one wants to look at womens’ feet.”

Like we all really, Really wanted to look at the wiggling anus?

<Hijack over>

I believe our dear Marc2b lovingly refers to that ad as the ASS MONSTER. Poor fella.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 12:27:23 PM

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Yeah that was one of the things that made me suspicious of Tiffany's side of the story.

CollarMe has never been shy about explicit ads or ads that appeal to every small faction of the BDSM community. And there have been plenty of foot-based ads before (I remember one GIF of a woman stepping on the lens).
So either she is making the story up or (more likely) taking some joke out of context when there were a lot more nuances to the discussion of the ad in question. I consider it very unlikely that the ad was rejected because it was foot-focused.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 12:30:03 PM

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LMAO!!! I have seen that ad and yes, terrifying. The one of girl on girl spanking is pretty awesome however, he should keep that one but the feet ads probably would be MORE popular on a site like this than an attacking anus reminiscent of "Little shop of horrors".
Anyways my advice to the site owner in regards to redirecting not some but ALL members to collarspace is some good old fashioned EMAIL marketing. Even if via bots, send an email newsletter to all members explaining that there has been a change in domains or even "bots" that most dating sites use to lure members, just so people get the idea that collarme is now collarspace. NOTIFICATIONS SHOULD BE DONE ASAP EVEN TO PEOPLE WITH DELETED ACCOUNTS IF POSSIBLE.
And yes, give the site a new facelift. The CM domain isn't worth the amount of money the Tiffany woman is likely going to demand.
FOLLOW MY ADVICE PLEASE. :)

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 12:34:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: legalANALyizer

So, this is my first post here. And the last.

God, I hope so. The rest of what you posted was steaming pile of horseshit. Nice job of projecting all sorts of your own personal nonsense onto someone else's relationship that you know absolutely nothing about.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 12:37:35 PM

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I actually believe that part.

Some people are very squicked by anything to do with feet and I know there was a poster whose avatar violated "community standards" because it was a photo of honey on her feet.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 1:07:51 PM

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PS: He should also sue her for libel, and it's a shame her family may have to pay out a lot of money due to her error. Money that could have been used for medical treatment. He needs to stop handling these people lightly and let the gloves come off at this point.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 1:40:18 PM

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Resident Sadist, no person who has any type of heart does not throw a person over board as the one who has access to the IT side of Collarme. And, that he fired Tiffany as she was having her baby and what with the medical problems makes his as evil as Hitler and any person who sides with the IT guy is as evil as those who aided Hitler in the final solution.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 1:56:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
I get the site fine. I'm using Firefox. The folks who're getting rerouted - what browser are you using?

I.E. 6 (blush) comes thru just fine

using firefox last night and this am got re-routed now I am not....not seeing all the posts either now that I am here

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 1:56:33 PM

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I do not wish to remove posts, but let's not compare people in a situation unknown to anyone not involved to horrible murderers. When we start comparing people to Hitler and anyone that might support them, its getting a bit too personal and going a bit too far.

As easy as it can be to have very strong feelings on what you might believe is happening and is understandable, it's pushing some limits.

Thank you

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 2:02:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

Nope I was wrong. I automatically type in collarchat.com not collarme.com because I don't check that side. The blog does come up on this side if I try to access collarme.

You are right if you go to just collarme.com you get redirected but....collarchat.com you come right here to the boards.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 2:21:03 PM

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Meh. You clearly don't know what you're talking about.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 2:41:09 PM

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This is a side thought, or is it, as I haven't seen much posted on the following;

We have read what Tiffany has said of her daughter's health condition and I was wondering,
if there is an effort being made to put out a type of online virtual 'donation jar' as seen at
convenience stores, banks, and so on when a person is extremely ill the community comes to that persons assistance.

I think first that we have to believe that Tiffany's daughter has faced some serious health issues and that we as humans, would want to respond with assistance to helping Tiffany to offset medical bills.

I just do not know how that would be done so that people can voluntarily give as to how their heart so directs. This has nothing to do with Collarme being taken down or the other things related to kink but relates to our humanity.

Thoughts as to how this could happen or if it has already been suggested or if it is already set up, then wonderful , I would like to know of it.
Thanks,
Tiger

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 2:55:21 PM

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Maybe I'm overly analytical, but I see no proof of any of this. If I were to donate it would need to be documented, not just a woman scorned writing a blog. All I know is she shut down CM the rightful owner reopened it. She slandered him. He hasn't written a nasty contradictory blog post on her. So...

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 3:03:22 PM

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So...

"So...." if Tiffany is lying about this, she can be found out rather quickly as her former partner could so say, as he should know if what she says is true or not.

As she did put this in her blog for all to read, she has to know that being 'fact checked' is as easy as using chop sticks or a fork.

My point is this, if Tiffany's account is correct, then this is about her daughter getting medical care and about humanity and nothing about collarme or the kink sites or that kinksters can or cannot post to forums or pursue their kink as they so like. This is about 'Her Daughter'.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 3:12:40 PM

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I read the "Tiffany" message just now and all I can say is "WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!"
What a GD whiner! For fuck's sake, woman, grow a pair already.

With all the whining and crying you have done in the forums it's incredibly amusing to see you call someone else a whiner.

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RE: CollarMe has gone - 5/24/2014 3:14:53 PM

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But this isn't gofundme.com I'm saddened if it's true but... Until shown proof it's one person's account. If she needs financial help she Is poorly fundraising as someone who does well in that arena she needs to be more strategic if her "poor me" blog posts were a cry for funds.

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