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RE: What is your safe word? - 7/23/2014 1:43:30 PM   
RockaRolla


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Status: offline 		I've yet to come across a need for safewords. "Stop that" is sufficient for me, and cnc/much of the heavier types of play aren't really my thing.

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RE: What is your safe word? - 7/23/2014 4:04:31 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: Lady16Lily

I'm interested in seeing what all of My fellow Dom/mes make Their subbie/slaves say. I make Mine say "Banana." Lol! subs/slaves are welcome to post as well.


Mine's "Mxyzptlk"

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RE: What is your safe word? - 7/23/2014 5:30:08 PM   
RockaRolla


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lady16Lily

I'm interested in seeing what all of My fellow Dom/mes make Their subbie/slaves say. I make Mine say "Banana." Lol! subs/slaves are welcome to post as well.


Mine's "Mxyzptlk"

Is it odd that I pictured a bottom shouting "SAFEWORD FORMERLY KNOWN AS PRINCE"?

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/18/2014 11:31:30 AM   
clicktoreboot


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Status: offline 		My safe word is actually a phrase; "Sorry, but even if your really are an insanely hot 22 year old domme/submissive that wants to do things with me that will blow my mind so totally that I bleed from the ears, I'm broke and can't give you all my money."

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/18/2014 11:44:57 AM   
thompsonx


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Status: offline 		ORIGINAL: MercTech

Persimmon

I find them so detestable that it totally gets me out of the zone.

That is because you have not tasted the fuyu variety. When still quite firm they are sweet and jucy as a peach. The ones that have to soften are just icky.

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/18/2014 1:19:16 PM   
shiftyw


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If I'm gagged I hum Yankee doodle.

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/18/2014 1:53:32 PM   
littleladybug


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Status: offline 		When I get to know someone, I find saying "if you continue to do that, I will kick you in the nuts" works quite well.

Until then, I've always been a fan of the safe word...for me, it's been a phrase that I can remember. With one Dom, we had "New York" and "Yankees"...the "safe" and "stop" words that was an easy to remember phrase.

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/18/2014 1:59:33 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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I just summon my manhood, from bottom to top, and I scream like a little girl "I'm calling the cops!"

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/18/2014 2:12:40 PM   
IrishMist


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simple and to the point

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/18/2014 9:43:40 PM   
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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/18/2014 10:28:29 PM   
stef


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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/19/2014 12:21:26 AM   
sloguy02246


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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/19/2014 12:49:28 AM   
DerangedUnit


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

stop

simple and to the point


weird we have the same safe word....


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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/19/2014 12:19:50 PM   
SqueakyFinger


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Because it reminds me of: Video

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/19/2014 1:31:54 PM   
CreativeDominant


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Status: offline 		I have them use a simple phrase..."should I be seeing my past life?"

That'll pretty much get my attention.

< Message edited by CreativeDominant -- 9/19/2014 1:32:49 PM >

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/21/2014 7:04:18 PM   
Misspuppygirl


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From: Pennsylvania, USA
Status: offline 		Red= stop completely, end scene
Yellow= stop temporarily, talk about the problem, negotiate a fix
Green= Slow down please, not as hard please

When bound/ gagged, hand signals/ banging, moaning

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/22/2014 1:51:50 AM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		When I hear "holy shit, you stabbed me" I pretty much consider that a safe word even though we don't use them. True story. I ended up stapling her back together.

She was lifting her leg as I was reaching down with the knife to slap her inner calf with the blade . . . I was prodding her along to get ob the cross faster. It was an accident... 4 stitches (staples).



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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/22/2014 2:24:37 AM   
subrosaDom


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quote:

ORIGINAL: thompsonx

ORIGINAL: MercTech

Persimmon

I find them so detestable that it totally gets me out of the zone.

That is because you have not tasted the fuyu variety. When still quite firm they are sweet and jucy as a peach. The ones that have to soften are just icky.



I suggest you switch your safeword to Durian. Because however detestable you find a Persimmon, they are heaven compared to the olfactory emissions from a Durian.

< Message edited by subrosaDom -- 9/22/2014 2:48:05 AM >

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/22/2014 5:20:54 AM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		Almost every top I have ever played with has used the red, yellow green system. Personally I have always thought it a bit silly but they are the boss in the scene and they make the rules. The one time things were not going well and I had to stop the scene, I didn't use it at all. I simply turned to my ex and said I don't think this is working, we need to stop for a while and amazingly enough she understood what I meant without mention of any colors. Now maybe I don't go into subspace like others but I can't think of a time I was ever playing that I couldn't have simply said what I was thinking without use of a code word.

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RE: What is your safe word? - 9/22/2014 5:31:28 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Misspuppygirl

Red= stop completely, end scene
Yellow= stop temporarily, talk about the problem, negotiate a fix
Green= Slow down please, not as hard please

When bound/ gagged, hand signals/ banging, moaning



I have always been told green means things are going great, keep doing what your doing or please Maam may I have another. Of course I have found telling her she hits like a girl has the same effect. At least as far as getting her to hit harder.

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