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RE: submissive rights... - 12/20/2014 9:01:05 PM

stef

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Are you really 50 years old?

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/20/2014 9:04:43 PM

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Try reading the replies, honey.

I posted this to see what Doms had to say...not subs, anyway! If I wanted your opinion I would have posted in ask a sub...

Your opinion can be kept to yourself!

You need all the help you can get.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/20/2014 9:05:35 PM

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"i am single and new to this and i am not here to be used by every Dom i meet for the first time and that is why i have this rule for myself."

That's not only your right, for you it sounds like a good idea. Your common sense and rules of thumb you've picked up still apply to kinky dating, some people may tell you otherwise but I hope you'll think long and hard before believing them.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/20/2014 9:24:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Try reading the replies, honey.

I posted this to see what Doms had to say...not subs, anyway! If I wanted your opinion I would have posted in ask a sub...

Your opinion can be kept to yourself!

Anyone can post anywhere, particularly since cross posting is not allowed.

Now if you want to disregard advice from your peers who have already navigated the path to successful, Long-term relationships, be my guest, but it would be a pretty stupid thing to do.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/20/2014 9:36:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Thank you...but SexyRed1 doesn't phase me.

i have researched...a lot! But, i was curious to see what other Dominant males had to say about this.

i, in fact, told this person that he was crazy if he thought i would trust him. He tried to say that i should blindly trust him. i told him i blindly trust noone. He said a true submissive would. i told him a true Dom would not expect that.

Lol

I am glad I don't phase you. Although you getting phased may help.

You don't need me, you have a lot of time to keep making a fool of yourself with many True Doms.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/20/2014 9:38:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Try reading the replies, honey.

I posted this to see what Doms had to say...not subs, anyway! If I wanted your opinion I would have posted in ask a sub...

Your opinion can be kept to yourself!

Btw, anyone of any type can reply to any post in any thread, no matter how stupid it is.

Edited because searching said it first.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/20/2014 9:46:15 PM

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It's a forum and anyone can post in any section they choose.

You may want to ingest what advice has been given to you, whether it is from a man or woman, dominant or submissive. There are years of experience and knowledge here.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/20/2014 9:57:09 PM

Gauge

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quote:

ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Thank you...but SexyRed1 doesn't phase me.

She phases me...

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i have researched...a lot!

Really? If that were the case then I am surprised at your question. I mean, think this one through... there are very few credible books that I can think of that do NOT cover the fact that a submissive has the right to say no.

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But, i was curious to see what other Dominant males had to say about this.

What you will get responding to threads are members of this site of all shapes, sizes, orientations and genders. If you want to hear from male dominants, ignore everyone else... but do so at your own peril because there are people here who actually know what they are doing.

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i, in fact, told this person that he was crazy if he thought i would trust him. He tried to say that i should blindly trust him. i told him i blindly trust noone. He said a true submissive would. i told him a true Dom would not expect that.

So, if a "true" dominant wouldn't expect that, then why are you asking? It baffles me that if you already knew this, you felt compelled to inquire.

The first time someone uses the line: If you were a true __________ you would ________.

Run like hell and don't look back.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/20/2014 9:59:13 PM

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I will phase you whenever you want, Gauge.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/21/2014 2:00:22 AM

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Lol this guy is a joke. Laugh in his face and tell him better luck next time. Honestly, the stuff they try to pull with newbies is just ridiculous!

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/21/2014 9:02:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Try reading the replies, honey.

I posted this to see what Doms had to say...not subs, anyway! If I wanted your opinion I would have posted in ask a sub...

Your opinion can be kept to yourself!

With all due respect, she can post where she wants. We try to look at things holistically here, and look at an interaction instead of simply a single view within it.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/21/2014 9:32:49 AM

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In her defence, as a newcomer it does seem a bit weird for everyone to answer questions when they are asked in a specific section like "Ask a master" etc. I'm not sure why these separate sections even exist because theres no point to them really. Nobody takes a blind bit of notice to who the questions are addressed. Not saying they should care, just that it seems silly to have the 'ask a whoever' bits at all when you get responses from everyone. Unless there's a point I'm not seeing?

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/21/2014 9:45:42 AM

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With this attitude I really hope you continue on with your bad self.. taking advice from any man who claims to be dominant. Really, I wish I was a fly on the wall.

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ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Try reading the replies, honey.

I posted this to see what Doms had to say...not subs, anyway! If I wanted your opinion I would have posted in ask a sub...

Your opinion can be kept to yourself!

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/21/2014 3:52:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Try reading the replies, honey.

I posted this to see what Doms had to say...not subs, anyway! If I wanted your opinion I would have posted in ask a sub...

Your opinion can be kept to yourself!

Bless yer heart. hunny.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/21/2014 5:12:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: SweetForDaddy

In her defence, as a newcomer it does seem a bit weird for everyone to answer questions when they are asked in a specific section like "Ask a master" etc. I'm not sure why these separate sections even exist because theres no point to them really. Nobody takes a blind bit of notice to who the questions are addressed. Not saying they should care, just that it seems silly to have the 'ask a whoever' bits at all when you get responses from everyone. Unless there's a point I'm not seeing?

I see nothing weird about a sub/slave answering a question here or a Dom answering in the sub/slave board. I see the different boards as a place to ask a question about Doms or about subs, not that it's a board only Doms can answer in the "Ask a Master" or only subs/slaves can answer in the "Ask a Sub/slave" board. If someone asks the question "as a Dom, do you like (fill in the blank)", I can answer whether or not my Master likes it.

If all four "Ask a ....." boards were combined into one, the pages would move too fast, posts would get missed and it'd probably end up being a clusterfuck but that's just my

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/21/2014 6:36:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: SweetForDaddy

In her defence, as a newcomer it does seem a bit weird for everyone to answer questions when they are asked in a specific section like "Ask a master" etc. I'm not sure why these separate sections even exist because theres no point to them really. Nobody takes a blind bit of notice to who the questions are addressed. Not saying they should care, just that it seems silly to have the 'ask a whoever' bits at all when you get responses from everyone. Unless there's a point I'm not seeing?

I agree.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/21/2014 7:06:26 PM

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I dunno, I feel like a forum like this with a regular membership that's so small would grind to a halt if people were restricted to forums based on their orientation. The forums would crawl if subs weren't allowed to comment here!

Regardless, OP, you seem like you have this sub rights thing figured out already. I wonder if you were actually looking for advice, or wanted to vent about a bad encounter? Both are valid motives.
Though, I wonder if you'll accept a response from a switch?

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/21/2014 8:14:48 PM

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~FRing it~

All any of us knows about any of the rest of us is what we say in our profiles, what boxes we check, and what we say here in the forum. I could check that I'm a dominant male (Im actually a switch female)...and you honestly wouldn't know the difference, OP. There is no guarantee you are ever getting the thoughts and opinions from your target audience.

Second thing...let's say every self identified dominant male who chimed in here all agreed with the guy you spoke about and they all feel that you should have dropped your panties and fucked him within the first 5 minutes of meeting him. Would you sell out your own morals, ethics, and personal safety just because a bunch of people you don't know and who don't know you said you should have? Not every decision you make in your life should be by consensus of random strangers.

Just my honest opinion anyway. But it's coming from someone who was born with a vagina and is not a completely dominant person. So take from it what you will.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/28/2014 8:00:51 PM

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You absolutely have the right to have that rule. Remember, your safety is important. This lifestyle is similar to vanilla in that things tend to be better as you get to know someone. My two cents is to run from him as fast as you can. My guess is that if dinner went well, you possible could have had sex.

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RE: submissive rights... - 12/28/2014 8:15:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Try reading the replies, honey.

I posted this to see what Doms had to say...not subs, anyway! If I wanted your opinion I would have posted in ask a sub...

Your opinion can be kept to yourself!

She was replying to the original post, that's what we do on the forums. And it really doesn't matter which one you put it in, everyone can reply to any thread they are interested in.

There was nothing in that post to imply you were not really confused and only looking to see what others thought. And she was right, at your age you should know better.

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