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RE: submissive rights... - 2/16/2015 3:54:30 PM   
Orestes


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I guess this has been beaten to death, but just my $.02...

You have not only the right to say 'no', but also the responsibility. Even more than that, you have the right to say 'yes' - to whoever, for whatever, you want.

I had several promising conversations with a sub in chat and on the phone, and we agreed to meet. From the first moment, we both knew it wasn't a good fit.

She had every right to walk away. In fact, it was better for both of us that we not pursue it further, when it obviously wasn't going to work.

Also, there was not *ever* an expectation of sex at the first meeting. I want to get to know who I am going to bed with, because my standards are high. I would expect anyone I am interested in to also have high standards.


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RE: submissive rights... - 2/28/2015 8:31:56 PM   
HisDarlingDoll


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ET--
i seriously just smiled, like a giddy school girl, at reading your words here... congrats to you on a phenomenal explanation of how a dominant views the submission and servitude of his girl. just phenomenal!!

OP--that "dom" was a dusche--total ignorant asshole looking to take advantage of a newbie. block him, move on... and learn the lesson early to save heartbreak later.

good luck! ;)


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Submission is the greatest treasure you have in WIITWD, and should be guarded like the treasure that it is, and the only people that should ever have access to the vault is the person worthy of guarding that treasure. They must EARN security clearance that will give them access by respecting your limits, boundaries, and rules. Furthermore, to get within ogling distance of your submission, they need to be able to facilitate all of your needs, and accept, perhaps indulge, your wants.

I call submission, Plunder. It is the treasure that I am after, and their are thousands of black hearted pirates out there that are trying to get to it before me. If I earn the trust, acknowledge and respect the limits, boundaries, and rules, can facilitate her needs and have an interest in her wants as something I want to participate in, then I set myself above those other thieving pirates, put myself on deck, and once she opens the vault of submission, that plunder is MINE!!!

I shall polish it, covet it, hoard it, hold it in my lap and love it because it is mine, mine, mine, all MINE!!!! And woe to the snake hearted bastard that tries to take what is mine.

Jus sayin


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