Extravagasm
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Joined: 9/22/2004 Status: offline
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Refuse to legitimize this unsavory hissyfit in both directions. Instead replying to the OPs original preference: If you seek a height/weight proportionate sub, they're out there, OP. Some profiles request height/weight proportionate Doms too Lol. Learn to use the advanced word search functions. There's a heck of a lot more difficulty finding non-smokers among the 'adventurous' population than weight issues. Because the adventurous population does not reflect the general population. BUT perhaps what you may really be satisfied seeking, is an overweight sub, whom you can train into shape (like OP's career). They are scarce, but exist. Having a profile on CM and CS longer than the other posters, I've reviewed at least 30 sub female profiles, that actually SUGGEST upfront, they are not opposed to Doms controlling their eating and exercise. 30 isnt a lot in 11 years but many more were out there, simply feeling that such demands were not sub-like. (It's why they come to your commercial business.) Playing the odds, you would be better off, finding BDSM interest, among your fitness colleagues, rather than the other way around. For ethical reasons, go to other clubs and organizations, than ones you are affiliated with. Enroll in yoga classes, go to dance exhibitions, ballet, theater. Or use these as search words on CS. Lol remember no pain, no gain, no complain ;);) Carefully think through, what you want.
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BDSM operates on submission. Not on love, fairness, or convention. The way to a Dom . . is to follow his karma, wallow in his grime, Swim in his heart.© Yeah, fantasy is not reality. That's how it gives direction to the truly gifted.
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