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deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 5:59:42 PM

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Has anybody saw this notification when checking sent messages folder?
Deleted unread,? Some people use this useless option as a way of insulting the sender, so pathetic, because the recipient in fact has read the entire message by hovering the mouse over the message ,but the sender will receive the deleted unread notification , could the option of reading a message without opening it be deactivated from this website so when a recipient delete a message without reading it will be true?.

RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 6:20:53 PM

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Some people use this useless option as a way of insulting the sender, so pathetic,

You really don't know the motivation of a complete stranger. This means that your interpretation is your own bias putting a motivation onto the recipient.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 6:27:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: alpha299

Has anybody saw this notification when checking sent messages folder?
Deleted unread,? Some people use this useless option as a way of insulting the sender, so pathetic, because the recipient in fact has read the entire message by hovering the mouse over the message ,but the sender will receive the deleted unread notification , could the option of reading a message without opening it be deactivated from this website so when a recipient delete a message without reading it will be true?.

Unless it's very short, hovering will only display part of the message. Maybe that was enough.

K.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 6:30:02 PM

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I Just Want People To Be Honest About THEIR Actions, You Can Delete A Message Without Reading It OR Knowing IRS content, So Why Would Some One Read THE Content And Give A Fake Deed Back To The sender, It Is Useless ,And Like I Said Some SCAMMERS Use It As A Way Of INSULTING THE SENDER IF HE OR SHE WON'T FALL INTO THEIR TRAP. IT IS ALL About honesty....

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 6:38:07 PM

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This makes no sense. A scammer is out for money or something else. Deleting unread (or read if that is what you need to believe) serves no purpose. A scammer WANTS your contact. A scammer is out to use you in some way. What would be the point in insulting you? It serves no end.
Now, someone who is truly not interested in you, whether or not they have read your email, is just dumping out trash.
You are placing your own estimation as to why. Perhaps they are just not interested.

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ORIGINAL: alpha299

I Just Want People To Be Honest About THEIR Actions, You Can Delete A Message Without Reading It OR Knowing IRS content, So Why Would Some One Read THE Content And Give A Fake Deed Back To The sender, It Is Useless ,And Like I Said Some SCAMMERS Use It As A Way Of INSULTING THE SENDER IF HE OR SHE WON'T FALL INTO THEIR TRAP. IT IS ALL About honesty....

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 6:39:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: alpha299

I Just Want People To Be Honest About THEIR Actions, You Can Delete A Message Without Reading It OR Knowing IRS content, So Why Would Some One Read THE Content And Give A Fake Deed Back To The sender, It Is Useless ,And Like I Said Some SCAMMERS Use It As A Way Of INSULTING THE SENDER IF HE OR SHE WON'T FALL INTO THEIR TRAP. IT IS ALL About honesty....

Deleted is still deleted, read or unread. Same result either way. No one is purposely sending that message to you, is just gets sent automatically when they delete it. Why bother opening a message when you can read it and see it is crap before you open it? Its just more steps to click through, with no reason to do so other than the possibility of some paranoid dumbass on the other end of that message automatically assuming that someone is intentionally trying to insult them by making sure they get a 'deleted unread' notification. Why are you so worried about whether or not some random stranger that you have never met and never will is trying to insult you?

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 6:45:25 PM

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Dude, this is your issue, not ours.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 6:46:46 PM

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it's amazing what puts (some) peoples panties in a wad

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 6:49:10 PM

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Hey, bro? If it helps any, I do just delete the crap unread. If I don't know the screen name from years ago, I don't even look at it.

See the sig line? I'm serious about that.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 6:49:51 PM

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You are not getting the point , deleted read and deleted unread ARE NOT the same, if you wanna delete my message DON'T read it, if you read it out of curiosity and delete after you can but , why should u let me know you deleted my message after reading it, sending me a message ? removing this option. Won't affect the website functionality. And it will train people to be more honest .
I can delete a message and block the sender , shall the sender receive a notification from the website not the sender . ? All I wish is that option will be deactivated and then everybody is entitled to their actions.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 6:56:54 PM

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You are not getting the point , deleted read and deleted unread ARE NOT the same, if you wanna delete my message DON'T read it, if you read it out of curiosity and delete after you can but , why should u let me know you deleted my message after reading it, sending me a message ? removing this option. Won't affect the website functionality. And it will train people to be more honest .
I can delete a message and block the sender , shall the sender receive a notification from the website not the sender . ? All I wish is that option will be deactivated and then everybody is entitled to their actions.

This isn't an option. Those individuals are not sending you anything at all. The site automatically tags it as deleted read or unread, not the person who deleted it.

Trust me, those people aren't giving you a second thought.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 7:01:38 PM

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Hey Dude. Don't test me. When I said I delete the stuff unread, I mean I delete the stuff unread. If you've got something you want to ask me, you can do it right here on the forum.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 7:02:39 PM

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No, you can not read the entire message by hovering over it, unless the message is very short.

Are you sending very short messages?

And there is a reply inherent to a message that is "deleted unread".
It is unequivocally stating that the recipient is not interested.

Chances are there are some things you could change to increase your chances of getting a positive response.

CMail Help: How to Contact a Dominant Woman
and
Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman

A final tip: you will sometimes be judged based upon what you choose to post here.
Generally speaking, threads and posts that are of the complaining variety are not seen in a favourable light.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 7:04:29 PM

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Osidegirl ,this is an issue to me it has been this way since collarme.com, It Is a suggestion, suggestion that option will be removed from this website ,
Wayward : I know what I'm talking about , it is a message tag yes, have you seen what happened to collarme.com? And I see this website is following the same strategy no change, so in few months this website WILL BE DOWN as a result of miss management, for me I have options and can always hire a prodomme , I am putting a case that concerns every body here and since I see so far you are against my idea I give up fuck so much for it

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 7:09:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: alpha299

Osidegirl ,this is an issue to me it has been this way since collarme.com, It Is a suggestion, suggestion that option will be removed from this website ,
Wayward : I know what I'm talking about , it is a message tag yes, have you seen what happened to collarme.com? And I see this website is following the same strategy no change, so in few months this website WILL BE DOWN as a result of miss management, for me I have options and can always hire a prodomme , I am putting a case that concerns every body here and since I see so far you are against my idea I give up fuck so much for it

Yeah, because message notifications are the issues that everyone is having with this site. Thanks for the clarification.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 7:13:17 PM

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I'm not sure since you can hover your mouse over the message and "" read it "" and see the content of the message , some messages have to be short in order to make sense and clarify things, but with that hovering option removed AH ! IN THIS CASE I WILL BELIEVE YOU, SO WHY READ MY MESSAGE AND DELETE IT AS UNREAD , AM I MAKING SENSE OR NOT , ANY BODY UNDERSTAND?

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 7:13:39 PM

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Osidegirl ,this is an issue to me it has been this way since collarme.com, It Is a suggestion, suggestion that option will be removed from this website ,

1) To 99.9% of us this is a non-issue.

2) Collar Chat and Collar Me are essnentially run as two separate entities. The powers here have nothing to do with the personals side. If you want to make a suggestion then send an email to support rather than bitching on a forum.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 7:15:11 PM

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Osidegirl ,this is an issue to me it has been this way since collarme.com, It Is a suggestion, suggestion that option will be removed from this website ,
Wayward : I know what I'm talking about , it is a message tag yes, have you seen what happened to collarme.com? And I see this website is following the same strategy no change, so in few months this website WILL BE DOWN as a result of miss management, for me I have options and can always hire a prodomme , I am putting a case that concerns every body here and since I see so far you are against my idea I give up fuck so much for it

You are operating on a flawed premise.
This is the same exact website as collarme.com
(Not this side, this has always been collarchat.)

I believe the deleted unread tag has been around since I first joined, over 8 years ago.

Honestly, your writing is so unclear, I don't understand what your specific objections to the automatic deleted unread classification are?
It is not very likely that the site designers are going to change something just because you don't like it.

I find deleted unread to be a very clear way to convey the message that the recipient is not interested.

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 7:19:19 PM

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Angelika you don't know how many people out there don't like this option, regardless the dishonest replies I'm s u r every body sees my point and choose to ignore it even though they all agree

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RE: deleted unread messages - 10/4/2015 7:19:26 PM

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Osidegirl ,this is an issue to me it has been this way since collarme.com, It Is a suggestion, suggestion that option will be removed from this website ,
Wayward : I know what I'm talking about , it is a message tag yes, have you seen what happened to collarme.com? And I see this website is following the same strategy no change, so in few months this website WILL BE DOWN as a result of miss management, for me I have options and can always hire a prodomme , I am putting a case that concerns every body here and since I see so far you are against my idea I give up fuck so much for it

Yes, this is directed to Osidegirl but I'm stepping in anyway. It ticks me off when folks make blatant and wildly incorrect statements about why this site has changed.

Obviously you are clueless about why the original site went down since it was not mismanagement. The owner that started this site as CollarMe is still the owner today.

As an aside, if reading from a tablet or phone there is no mouse over ability to get a message preview, so your assumption that your unread message was read is incorrect. Numerous people no longer even own a desktop any longer.

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