LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: newatdis @ Lady, I know you tried to help yesterday, and thanks. I am confused about the "guy a month ago thing"..she said she found interest on her own, read books etc...I did mention that I have been talking with her for a month or so...and that she just brought up the Master/slave thing a couple days before we met. You "met" her on the net about a month ago, right. (Horrible term, btw. Kind of like the oxymoron of "Facebook friends".) quote:
I understand what you are saying. I Already knew this girl wanted and liked pain as well. She made comments such as "are you strong" "can you flip me around" "I work with animals, I have a high tolerance for pain" Yeah, we'll talk about that. quote:
I have never caused pain during sex intentionally ..I know I hurt her as it is. I did smack her one side until she was red, and I also know I missed her other side, and hit her hip, with force (with the are you strong in mind) I know that hurt. She is 114 lbs. I backed off for that reason even though she said..it didn't hurt, at the time (after her owww) And she made a couple comments during the night that her side hurt. I know what she wanted, and because of things from my childhood she also knows what could end up happening, as she said to me....and I quote...."I am well aware of what I could be starting in you" Ha! I have. But, it was because I wanted to. Not because somebody else had this "ideal" about me. I really don't care that she's 114 lbs. Some of the best masochists that I know are little chicks. The majority of which can take more pain than most males I know. quote:
And yes, I think she will come calling, and if she does I will probably be on here seeking more wisdom. And if she doesn't..I know I f---d up and life goes on. Well, you kind of did f^ck up, but we can make it better. I'd encourage you to do the right thing, especially about the jewelry. Over and above that, this is one of those situations where I would let her make the call. It's ok to be learning. It's ok to be exploring if you are kink compatible or not. You may be a 3 as a sadist and/or a Dominant and she's a 7 as a maso and/or a sub. Believe it or not, all of us kinky folk aren't compatible with each other just because we're kinky. Do you want to learn some stuff here? That really can happen.
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