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cindyluvNY -> My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (2/29/2016 8:01:44 PM)

By the way, I'm okay with this except for one small thing.
I love oil popped popcorn. He is trying to get me to switch to air popped popcorn because it's healthier. And he even gives me a website to prove it.

http://www.livestrong.com/article/157609-air-popped-popcorn-vs-oil-popped/

I use Mazola Vegetable Plus! oil to pop my popcorn and it's delicious! I've checked not only the website he provided but after reading everything it does seem that air popped corn is much healthier.

The article claims that air popped contains 0mg of sodium. Oil popped contains 97mg sodium per cup.
However, the oil I use has 0mg of sodium and is cholesterol free. So where is the sodium coming from?
Plus, the oil I use has "Vitamin E 15%"
The oil also contains 1000mg of Omega-3Ala per serving.
I'm sure I could even find another oil that has more benefits.

So wouldn't oil popped popcorn be healthier?




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (2/29/2016 8:03:17 PM)

What does this have to do with "General bdsm"?



AAkasha -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (2/29/2016 8:05:25 PM)

Is your dominant "musclebond" dude?



Greta75 -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (2/29/2016 8:25:39 PM)

Sheesh.

I wouldn't be with a dom who wants to control my eating habits.

But since you choose him, clearly oil popped will have more calories than air popped isn't it?

And vegetable oil in recent years have been getting bad press for trans fat which is worst than saturated fat.




EmmaDilemma -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (2/29/2016 8:34:37 PM)

Maybe he's trying to help you be your best self, healthy and fit?



crumpets -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 12:21:16 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: crumpets

This may better belong in the Health & Safety section than General BDSM, but, I'll take a stab at what you're contemplating...

Here's what you said:

Mazola Vegetable Plus!
  • 0mg of sodium and is cholesterol free
  • "Vitamin E 15%"
  • 1000mg of Omega-3Ala per serving.

    Air popped popcorn:
  • none of that

    Looking at the article, here's what it said:
  • several tablespoons of oil gives popcorn a "richer" taste
  • 1 cup of air-popped popcorn contains 31 calories, 1g of protein, 6g of carbohydrates and 1.2g of fiber.
  • 1 cup of oil-popped popcorn contains 55 calories, 1g of protein, 6g of carbohydrates and 1.1g of fiber (+3g of fat and 97mg of sodium)

    At that point, the article "implies" that to-be-air-popped popcorn is, essentially, different stuff, than to-be-oil-popped popcorn:
  • Air-popped popcorn is made from whole grain, which provides fiber and complex carbohydrates for energy and stamina.
  • Homemade oil-popped corn offers most of the same nutrients with higher fat and sodium

    I would agree with you that it's not obvious where the sodium comes from.
    My only assumption is that they "implied" that the starting point popcorn for to-be-oil-popped popcorn is different stuff than the to-be-air-popped popcorn.

    Seems to me, based on just that, if you can buy the to-be-air-popped popcorn, and you add the 3 grams of oil, you get the "benefits" of the 3 grams of oil without any sodium chloride.

    There's no spontaneous generation of sodium chloride so, if it's not there, it's not there.

    [image]http://images.huffingtonpost.com/2013-12-03-f852633b19114604318da637d6e7bc99.jpg[/image]
    Disclaimer: I haven't eaten popcorn in years, nor have I ever studied the stuff...





    • LadyPact -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 12:36:56 AM)

    What did you sign on for? Did you agree to submit?

    That's probably the answer.



    crazyml -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 1:00:25 AM)


    quote:

    ORIGINAL: cindyluvNY

    By the way, I'm okay with this except for one small thing.


    If in principle you're ok with it, and this is one small thing, then you should obey.




    Commonplace -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 1:09:35 AM)

    Is this 'one small thing' important to you?

    I have small things that to others would be insignificant but to me they were important enough to take a stand against.

    If it was me, I'd forget the popcorn and look at communication.



    Kaliko -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 2:44:48 AM)

    I have a couple of "one small things," myself. So from experience, here's what I suggest.

    When you're making popcorn, just do what you're told. Your approval of his directive is not required.

    And now I'm chuckling to myself over my early morning coffee because I know very well that this is easier said than done. (Go ahead and talk to me about how much I want a pizza - and not a watered down, almond-crusted, takes-two-hours-to-make, Paleo version of pizza. I want the warm, gooey, cheesy dough delivered fresh to my door with no work from me other than picking up the remote and turning on Netflix.) But assuming that there's not some sort of understanding between the two of you that you only have to obey sometimes, then frankly, you don't have to agree with his reasons why.

    This is difficult for me with certain things, as well, so I do understand and I don't say this lightly. I don't believe that a person is just such a wonderful submissive and their dominant is so perfect that they always just obey. That usually works fine until you really do have to change something that you never saw coming and never wanted. That is when you are tested. And this - though it's significant to you, really is a small thing. He's not asking you to risk life and limb. He's telling you to eat your popcorn differently. This is a good time to practice being more open to his direction and discovering whether you really are willing to change something about yourself because he says so.

    My take on this is to embrace the struggle - and the struggle might be months. You might fight him on it, you may have a number of pleading discussions about it. You might even cry over something as seemingly silly as popcorn. But one day, you'll realize that you no longer care about whether there's oil on your popcorn. You'll realize that he was successful in modifying your behavior, even though you initially questioned his reasoning and fought him on it. And that feeling is...well...much better than popcorn. Or pizza. In my opinion, this type of growth - of shedding our own pride and our selfishness - is why we have dominants in our lives in the first place.



    Greta75 -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 2:52:13 AM)

    quote:

    of shedding our own pride and our selfishness - is why we have dominants in our lives in the first place.

    Kaliko, while I think you and Awareness are super cute together! And clearly are very much inlove! You're the Yin to his Yang.

    But this statement makes me feel like puking! Although, no offense to you!

    I guess I am not submissive enough!

    But what bugs me about this, it seems to imply that, only the submissive has to be self-less, but dominants get to be selfish. And I can't agree with that! It's a two way street.




    Kaliko -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 3:28:15 AM)


    quote:

    ORIGINAL: Greta75

    quote:

    of shedding our own pride and our selfishness - is why we have dominants in our lives in the first place.

    Kaliko, while I think you and Awareness are super cute together! And clearly are very much inlove! You're the Yin to his Yang.

    But this statement makes me feel like puking! Although, no offense to you!

    I guess I am not submissive enough!

    But what bugs me about this, it seems to imply that, only the submissive has to be self-less, but dominants get to be selfish. And I can't agree with that! It's a two way street.




    I didn't say that at all. But since you brought it up, whether he "gets to be" anything is just defiance getting in the way.



    WickedsDesire -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 7:21:06 AM)

    Popcorn I know nothing about other than it tastes like cardboard or the complete opposite of cake. Today, dear reader, I have Tesco’s finest chocolate cake and I committed an act of heinous cake heresy by cutting up the slab of circular perfection...8 pieces.

    I smoke (granted lowest 1/10th the tar of a normal cig monoxide nicotine). Why because my mind is bored witless on a good day.

    So chocolate is it good for you or bad for you and whyso. The health articles I read everyday do my nut in...Oh it’s bad for you, it gives you jumbo erections, its good for the heart. Or was that eggs, or oil, lard, olive oil, coffee, chocolate, dark chocolate...reading these health articles are bad for you

    So smoking – hmm even I cannot defend that one and glad I do not live in a city (pollution) death rates are about equal btw so if you smoke and live in a city according to the articles you will die by -1, or something along those lines.

    Crumpets went to bit of a bother, he does that you know too often and usually for a very limited audience and doing that takes a lot of time/effort –so go with his picture/content.

    AAkasha crossed my mind too that :)

    other than that you have just recently broken up with someone and have a new dom
    have you lot tried waiting a few hours or getting cats...tell me this is not an online dom....or an online dom you have verified via phone etc as not being a wankpot with 50 wives and a penchant for intructing malarkey.





    DesFIP -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 11:07:27 AM)

    It's easier to obey than to agree with him.

    However, since what he wants is to make your diet healthier, and you folks are confused by what to do here, the solution is simple.

    Go see a dietitian or nutritionist. Neither of you are experts, so go consult one.



    OsideGirl -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 11:08:05 AM)

    quote:

    ORIGINAL: cindyluvNY

    By the way, I'm okay with this except for one small thing.
    I love oil popped popcorn. He is trying to get me to switch to air popped popcorn because it's healthier. And he even gives me a website to prove it.

    http://www.livestrong.com/article/157609-air-popped-popcorn-vs-oil-popped/

    I use Mazola Vegetable Plus! oil to pop my popcorn and it's delicious! I've checked not only the website he provided but after reading everything it does seem that air popped corn is much healthier.

    The article claims that air popped contains 0mg of sodium. Oil popped contains 97mg sodium per cup.
    However, the oil I use has 0mg of sodium and is cholesterol free. So where is the sodium coming from?
    Plus, the oil I use has "Vitamin E 15%"
    The oil also contains 1000mg of Omega-3Ala per serving.
    I'm sure I could even find another oil that has more benefits.

    So wouldn't oil popped popcorn be healthier?





    Well....

    The idea that fats aren't healthy for us is wrong. In fact, low fat diets are now being tied to Alzheimer's Disease. (And I suspect that they'll tie it to ADD/ADHD as well, in the near future

    Next - Vegetable Oil is not a healthy fat. All you have to do is look at the process to extract those oils. You'd be better off finding a healthy oil to pop the corn. Eating fat or cholesterol does not add fat or cholesterol to your blood stream.

    Next - Popcorn is a high carb food, fats slow down the absorption of carbs which keeps your blood sugar steadier. So, air popped will spike your blood sugar.

    Lastly - Corn is a GMO food - It's healthier to just drop it completely.

    While as much as I love M - I also know that he's not qualified to run my eating program and because of that he wouldn't try to run my eating program.





    Bhruic -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 12:02:35 PM)


    quote:

    ORIGINAL: cindyluvNY



    So wouldn't oil popped popcorn be healthier?




    Perhaps... or maybe you should just stop arguing and do as you are told?



    ThatDizzyChick -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 12:42:22 PM)

    Same answer as on Fet: If you agreed to let him control your diet then do as your told, if not, then tell him to get stuffed.



    theHouseofAvalon -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 1:01:37 PM)

    quote:

    He is trying to get me to switch to air popped popcorn because it's healthier... So wouldn't oil popped popcorn be healthier?


    stay with oil popped because you like it...and Master is trying to get me to stop smoking because it is healthier. He knows submissive women lean on certain habits and may never be able to change these habits because of who we are. He "wants" for my health, just like your guy, but he does not force and neither does yours. They are both good and wise, are they not?

    first girl of Avalon






    captive4ever -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 1:05:25 PM)

    Jeez, for such an irrelevant and off-topic discussion you're really making a meal of this.... (sorry!)

    Why not just do as you're told if You're a sub as You purport to be. If I were in his position, popcorn would be banned, problem solved...



    Spiritedsub2 -> RE: My New Dom Is Trying To Change My Eating Habits (3/1/2016 3:56:08 PM)


    quote:

    ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

    Same answer as on Fet: If you agreed to let him control your diet then do as your told, if not, then tell him to get stuffed.


    This dumbass topic was posted on Fet too? Jesus, give it a rest. Dump the guy and eat your popcorn your way if it's so numbingly important.



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