UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why would someone do this? (3/16/2016 5:24:03 PM)
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So I ran a short experiment. I made a new female profile: ____________ 25, looking for men, lives in some random US city. Willing to relocate. Random pretty picture of a woman without the face showing. The profile states that she's looking for a new kink relationship after the previous one recently failed. Is into bondage and micromanagement. She also loves doing outdoors stuff, such as hiking and camping, and wants a guy who enjoys those things as well. In closing, the profile asks guys who are more than twice her age, or those who don't live in the US, to not contact her, as she's not interested in them. ______________ The profile was up for exactly 1 hour. In that time our fictitious girl received 51 emails. She replied to every single email with the message: Thanks for your interest, but I'm not interested in talking to you. Have a great day. :-) Now lets break down the messages received... Out of 51 messages: - 28 were from guys age 50 or over - 9 were from guys outside of the US - 46 were from people who sent and obvious copy/paste message, or a message with no content at all - 5 were from guys who, in some way, actually referenced her profile - 2 were from guys who looked like they actually put effort into sending a thoughtful message tailored to her profile - 2 were from women There were also 2 friend requests sent without an email attached, which were not counted towards the message total. So you can see, right off the bat, over 60% of the messages our fake profile received were from men the profile specified she is not interested in. Out of the 16 other messages remaining (some of the guys were both not from the US, as well as over 50) only TWO of them actually had something meaningful to say, which didn't sound like a copy/paste, and which actually gave her something to reply to. Now lets look at how the rejection letters where handled... Out of 51 rejection letters sent: - 14 men (none of the women) sent a reply to the rejection letter Of those 14 replies: - 4 politely thanked for sending a rejection - 6 guys asked for a justification for the rejection - 4 guys sent an abusive response to the rejection Abusive responses received where: "Fuck you too" "u r going to die bitter and alone you stupid cow" "You worthless whore, you don't deserve me, but I will give you one more chance. Apologize immediately for your disrespectful behavior and beg for forgiveness!" "Die in a plane crash you worthless cunt." Of the 6 guys who originally asked for a justification for the rejection: - 2 politely thanks for being informed for the cause of the rejection (always too old or out of the country, items already listed in the profile, none of the guys who actually fitted the profile's exclusions asked for clarification) - 4 argued that the reason for the rejection was wrong, and our fake girl should change her mind She replied to all 4 again, politely, by explaining that she was sorry, but wasn't going to change her mind about her age limit, or about moving outside of the US. - 1 guy left it at that - 3 guys continue to argue (totaling another 11 replies sent to them as they continued to argue) After the continued argument: - 2 of them stopped answering - 1 of them sent an abusive message: "fuck you, I can do better than you anyways" ______________ Now granted, the TWO guys who actually put effort into mailing our fake girl did indeed deserve a polite 'thanks but no thanks' for their effort. (In actuality, if this was a real profile, those two guys probably wouldn't have gotten a rejection letter, but instead an actual continuation of the conversation they attempted to start, because presumably our fake girl would be interested in them.) But the other ones? Seriously, you want me to waste time sending 49 guys an hour rejection letters when I know that about 10% of them are going to respond with abuse, and about 8% of them are going to continue to waste my time by arguing with me about why I rejected them in the first place? When they didn't even bother to put in any time or effort sending me a message to begin with? And that's not counting the time wasted reading the replies from the guys who politely thanked our girl for the rejection... not that there's anything wrong with doing that, but seriously, spending that extra time reading what really amounts to being a useless email, when you're already getting 50 mails per hour isn't exactly productive... Add to that the fact that the guys who argue about being rejected on average do so by sending an addition 5 mails, and now you're completely wasting your time on useless crap. Time that could be spend actually talking to the two guys our girl would actually be interested in... If you claim that I'm coping out by not sending rejection letters, you claim that I'm taking the easy and lazy way out, and am not doing something that I should be doing. Why exactly is it that these 49 guys deserve rejection letters? How is it that they have shown me enough time and effort so that they're somehow due my respect to give some time and effort back to them? Especially considering that in the case of 60% of them the profile already stated it wasn't interested in... if they don't even bother reading the profile before mailing it (or ignore the content after reading it) why on Earth would I be coping out if I ignore their emails? How exactly is it that these men are due a reply? Seriously, you think I'm coping out by not sending rejection letter, except to a very select few? If that's the case, I'll leave you with an excerpt from one of the mails I received in that hour. Please keep in mind that this was NOT the only one of this sort the profile received (there were about 8 I can remember off the top of my head without going back and rereading and counting them all), and that nothing on the profile indicated that the girl is interested in this sort of thing: quote:
Preceded by several more paragraphs of the same... ... You will wear a chain and collar and be used like a breeding bitch in a puppy mill whose tits and uterus is constantly abused by studs. On all fours you will be sodomized, doggie style. You will lick the balls of all males. You may not sit on the furniture. You will sleep chained to the floor because my dog sleeps on the bed and you are not worthy. You will labor and be bred for the benefit of your Master. The hair will be sheared from your body like a sheep. You will be branded with my mark. The inside of your lip will be tattooed. You are an ameba, a mannequin, human only in looks. You are simply a blow up fuck doll. You are a sperm bank where men deposit their seed without feeling or emotion. This is how you will be trained and how you will live. ... Continues for several more paragraphs of the same... Seriously... you expect me to take time out of my day to send rejection letters to that??? (And granted, that's not even from one of the guys who sent back abuse in response to the rejection, he just ignored it instead...)
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