LadyPact
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Let's clear the air on something upfront. It's probably in really poor taste to write a thread about people being rude for deleting email unread when you're going to do the 'I'm so submissive, you are a Dominant type person, so let me slobber the submissiveness over you' stuff. It's tacky. I don't appreciate it and most other women don't, either. Please knock that off. If that kind of thing is in the first few lines of an email to whomever you are writing, one of the possibilities is that they are using the hover feature to scan the first part of the message, seeing that kind of thing, and deleting it as unread. (Most women roll their eyes at any man who tries the 'look at how much of a sub I am' routine.)
Another thing you are making a mistake about is thinking this online submission thing is just such a wonderful offer because it's you and you are such a great guy. I hate to burst your bubble, but it's not. Any woman on this site is going to get thousands of such emails in any given year and pretty much, it's seen as the equivalent of spam. What you're offering is something the majority of women don't want and that's exactly why it's being treated in the same way as you do in your personal email (yahoo, gmail, aol, whatever you use) when you get emails to enlarge your penis, offers to change your long distance carrier, online coupons, or anything else that you delete unread. The reason you think it's different is because it's you writing the email, rather than the companies that send you crap that you don't want, and you are putting your opinion of what it's worth higher than the recipient. The key to this is, it's really the recipient's opinion that matters.
One of the exact reasons that the pay for (online) play has become so prevalent on this site is because thousands upon thousands of men want to submit online and very few women want to indulge them without being financially compensated. If that weren't the case and women were actually interested in it, the market would not exist.
Of the very small percentage of woman who are interested in online domination without financial compensation, they have masses of men to choose from and they are going to do so based on their own criteria. That can be age, location, physical attractiveness, relationship potential, availability, and pretty much all the other factors of why women choose one man over another in the dating world anywhere else. Before you even go there, yes, location does matter because most women are going to want to move to real time sooner or later. Real time is almost always going to appeal more to the majority of women because most women are relationship oriented, even those who are willing to start the relationship online. And, let's face it. Kink is just plain more fun in person.
In your position, I think it might be to your best advantage to accept that a good number of the emails that you will send will be deleted unread. It's no different than you deleting emails that you receive when somebody is trying to sell you something that you're not buying.
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Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread
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