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LadyPact -> RE: Deleted unread (5/7/2016 8:42:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst
It happens that one of my sent messages gets the status "deleted unread".
As one can read the first part of a message without selecting it, by just moving their mouse pointer to the message, I suppose these people delete messages unread based on some content of the first part of a message that doesn't please them. In my case, it is probably my age (63 years old), which I mention most of the time at the beginning of a message when presenting myself.
On the one hand, I admire women who realize that, by causing my message to get a status of "deleted unread", they very well know how to hurt my feelings.
On the other hand, I feel it is a sad reaction. I prefer people who at least read my message. And I prefer even more the rare people who answer with "No, thank you".
How far has the lack of elementary respect for each other come, when people just delete a message unread? Is this the BDSM world, into which mutual respect is supposed to be evident?
I am one of the women who deletes 95% of the messages as deleted unread.
My policy on email doesn't have anything to do with you. In the grand scheme of things, I think you should realize it doesn't have anything to do with your feelings. This is not the EEO or any kind of charity. People don't owe you anything just because you decided to bang out of few key strokes. If you believe they do, I would put you to the task of answering all of the junk mail that arrives to you via post for the next year. All of those grocery coupons, insurance offers, and sales circulars wrote to you, too, right? When you write back to all of them for a year, I'll answer your email.
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