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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:04:49 AM

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But I have much more respect for a lady who answers me with "Stupid maggot!" then with "deleted unread".

Because that feeds your kink.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:06:25 AM

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Hey Dizzy... I think you converted him into your private fan club.

Inorite?

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:06:39 AM

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So, what basically every dominant lady is saying here is that "deleting unread" is actually not bad manners, because it comes from reluctance to exert effort to read/sieve through the messages in face of hundreds upon hundreds of them. Bad manners, actually, is feeling offended by your messages being "deleted unread" and the lack of understanding of the hardships them dominant women have to endure with us submissive men :) Don't hit me too hard, I'm just trying to find logic here.

I am curious though.... please enlighten me Ladies.... what kind of initial statements in a message make you click READ instead of DELETE UNREAD?

You are not local to me so there is nothing you could write that I would be interested in reading. If you want me to give you the opening line to a work of art.. that is not going to happen.

I certainly can impress myself with a one-liner because I know what would capture 'me' but that wouldn't work for other people so telling you is fruitless, pointless and futile.

You'll just have to rely on being yourself as you generally are and letting that work itself into a relationship with someone who wants 'you'.. not the mask you've presented to them.

I am assuming that you are not a capture and release sorta person and you actually want to keep the other for the long run. If it's capture and release.. then mask away!

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:09:23 AM

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As you keep ignoring things I have said, which means you are not capable of intellectual honesty, or insight into anything but your own problems.

With the false incriminations you made, you are really not the right person to talk about honesty and insight.

I hope this is not too intellectual for you.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:11:25 AM

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More insults and disrespect.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:20:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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But I have much more respect for a lady who answers me with "Stupid maggot!" then with "deleted unread".

Because that feeds your kink.

Almost right, my dear. Not because, but moreover. And it only feeds my kink if the lady enjoys it.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:22:25 AM

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More insults and disrespect.

Yes, I adapt to what seems to be norma here.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:29:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

Yes, I adapt to what seems to be norma here.

So, do you want to be a shade of gray?

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:35:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

Not at all, dear lady. I have no problem at all with rejection, just with the way how it is done.

That is called having a problem with rejection.

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But I have much more respect for a lady who answers me with "Stupid maggot!" then with "deleted unread".

This isn't about having respect-it's about having your needs met. Her responding to you with "stupid maggot" is what you expect as a response due to the stereotype of a dominant woman that you formed in your mind and when she chooses to delete/unread your message instead (which is reality for a majority of Dommes), you have an issue with it because she didn't live up to what you wanted, which is, to have your kink met through her response.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:35:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

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As you keep ignoring things I have said, which means you are not capable of intellectual honesty, or insight into anything but your own problems.

With the false incriminations you made, you are really not the right person to talk about honesty and insight.

I hope this is not too intellectual for you.

LOL and that is why you are moaning at women.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:40:10 AM

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Nevermind

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:40:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

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Yes, I adapt to what seems to be norma here.

So, do you want to be a shade of gray?

No, as there are really not many shades of gray here.

Bashing a wimp with several women together until I am on my knees seems to be the game here.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:47:40 AM

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Bashing a wimp with several women together until I am on my knees seems to be the game here.

Not giving you the answers you're shopping for is not the same as bashing.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:51:17 AM

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Bashing a wimp with several women together until I am on my knees seems to be the game here.

So you did start this thread to get your kink fix, presumably.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 11:59:55 AM

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I seemed to fit all the requirements

To you, but apparently not to her.
See, that's the thing, you are writing a dominant person, one who sets their own rules for who they interact with.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 12:02:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

Bashing a wimp with several women together until I am on my knees seems to be the game here.

So you did start this thread to get your kink fix, presumably.

Not really. With so many women together against me, I'm rather nervous and scared.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 12:06:40 PM

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I seemed to fit all the requirements

To you, but apparently not to her.

I may indeed have interpreted the requirements in another way than she meant them.

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See, that's the thing, you are writing a dominant person, one who sets their own rules for who they interact with.

I fully agree with you. Nonetheless, thank you for reminding me.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 12:44:01 PM

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There are clearly still respectful dominants here who are not lazy. Today I received the following message:

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We thank you for the message but unfortunately despite your intresting profile we are looking for a sub in the age cap of 40 we are sorry but we wish you the best of luck

Much more polite and agreeable than a blunt "deleted unread".

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 12:44:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

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ORIGINAL: HoneyBears

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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

Bashing a wimp with several women together until I am on my knees seems to be the game here.

So you did start this thread to get your kink fix, presumably.

Not really. With so many women together against me, I'm rather nervous and scared.

Nervous and scared of words on a computer screen written by people who likely arent even on the same continent as you? Seriously?!? Perhaps its time to turn off the computer and return to reality for a bit. I think you give random strangers way too much fucking power over you. From the random dommes who delete your messages as unread hurting yout feelings to this irrational fear of forum posters you repeatedly remind everyone you have, the internet just might not be for you.

Sack up, OP

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 12:45:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

There are clearly still respectful dominants here who are not lazy. Today I received the following message:

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We thank you for the message but unfortunately despite your intresting profile we are looking for a sub in the age cap of 40 we are sorry but we wish you the best of luck

Much more polite and agreeable than a blunt "deleted unread".

I suppose, if you're looking at this like applying for a job.

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