Rush30
Posts: 40
Joined: 8/26/2016 Status: offline
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It's been interesting to see everyone's reactions to my post. Ive seen who likes to be informed and educate themselves, versus the ones who make knee jerk reactions to something they don't fully understand. It's ALWAYS been about your comfort level with my status. If your not comfortable with it, that's fine, but don't show your ignorance by making assumptions about how I contracted HSV. So many have assumed I've been careless and irresponsible. My wife told me she had HSV, and YES, I caught it from her! BUT.... What you failed to realize, that it took 10 YEARS OF UNPROTECTED SEX AND NO ANTI VIRALS before i caught it. That's about the same odds ( 16-20%) of having random unprotected sex with a stranger just ONE TIME! With condom use AND anti virals the odds are 0.5%. Also, no where on my profile did I ever mention I was looking to have toys used on me, only looking for self satisfaction, only looking to get off, or looking to have casual sex. You should actually read the entire profile. I want to be safe as well, I want to know someone before I have any sexual contact. But again you assumed. Do you really think I want to give anyone HSV? NO! Do you think I want to catch anything more? NO! But if we are going to be sexual with whoever, don't you think there's I certain risk associated with your choices? I'm looking for an equal in self exploration with someone who wants the same thing. My kink isn't your kink should be the motto here. We are all looking for something, and everyone wants to be safe. But some live under the false sense of what they are doing is 100% safe. If you think any different you are only fooling yourself. Some are under the impression that everyone you come in contact with is 100% honest with you. If you think men are lying in their profiles, do you think they are being honest with you in person?
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