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Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 4:58:58 PM   
fluffygiggler


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Because I get plenty of messages from those who are 40+, but hardly any messages from those in my age range.

Or if they are in my age range, they treat me like they only want me because I'm a BBW.

I'm not complaining, I'm noticing a trend, and wondering if other bigger ladies like myself are experiencing the same thing.

I know BBWs are considered a "fetish" because of porn sites, and I detest that...but there has to be *some* sane people around my age...?
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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 5:56:43 PM   
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could it be because most boys in your age range here are just in it for the quick sex? Do you find the same trend on Fet?

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 6:13:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta

could it be because most boys in your age range here are just in it for the quick sex? Do you find the same trend on Fet?

True, I guess I'm overlooking that fact.

I don't get too many messages on fet. At munches it's easier for me to make friends around my age...

Why are all of the nice guys only at munches? I'm shy, so it's easier for me to start talking to someone online than it is for me to talk in person...

Nice guys meaning those into bigger women and not, but treats everyone decently...

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 6:17:17 PM   
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i have been here since the beginning of time and not one singular soul has ever mailed me…I will exempt someone from Albany 5 years ago and decree it utter monster and tub of lard

But that was one fluke in 12 years whom among you is real other than me



There is me - anyone with a reality show yourself - none at all can save the breaht sulphur on here or fet scum


Call or show your self

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 6:18:57 PM   
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In general, I think that younger men are more used on to online dating and hook-up culture in general. Guys who are 40+ remember dating before the internet when it involved spending time with some one, asking for their phone number, dating, etc. I was about 30 years old when the iPhone came out. It really did make a difference in how people approached dating and hooking up.

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 6:41:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: fluffygiggler
I don't get too many messages on fet. At munches it's easier for me to make friends around my age...
I'm shy, so it's easier for me to start talking to someone online than it is for me to talk in person...


Might I suggest having some name cards made with the following message and hand them out at munches?

"Hi, I'm shy but I would really like to be friends. It's a lot easier for me to talk to someone online than in person, so if you'd like, please email me at ___ or come find me on fetlife @(username), or better yet, talk to me!"

Modify at will.

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 6:48:35 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta

quote:

ORIGINAL: fluffygiggler
I don't get too many messages on fet. At munches it's easier for me to make friends around my age...
I'm shy, so it's easier for me to start talking to someone online than it is for me to talk in person...


Might I suggest having some name cards made with the following message and hand them out at munches?

"Hi, I'm shy but I would really like to be friends. It's a lot easier for me to talk to someone online than in person, so if you'd like, please email me at ___ or come find me on fetlife @(username), or better yet, talk to me!"

Modify at will.

That...is actually a great idea. Thank you!

I can get as artsy with the cards as I want (to show off my personality) and possibly start a conversation.

It's something so simple that I wouldn't have ever thought of it.

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 6:48:52 PM   
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I am a sad olde man with 3 cats and yet I believe
Ftlife, the site owner and its team of liar’s and forum predators and cheats chose to ban me and all coherent friends..and my twin and I offered to mke heir lis public they refused TOC allow me toid so
Whom amongst you are better save I
Present thyself in the glory of reality


0% is difficult to argue with

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 6:51:04 PM   
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Strange no verified women on here only non verified now fet would ban me from every forum where I questioned their integrity and the millions of stolen picture – most of them are forum moderators or enablers of their existence

Now who will stand beside be and whom will stand above me...all women on here all men too




< Message edited by WickedsDesire -- 9/29/2016 7:04:38 PM >

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 7:31:26 PM   
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They call me the man in the slippers and i do not want a fat monster or a mutt ugly creature of wretch with an abstract hole of utter garbage to wreck with my magnifence. Now you have no reality at alll you are one of the 99.9% on here (or fet say that man says you will gget banned women fake applauded )and your question irrelevant

I am struggling to see real people on here or there
Doe the fault lie with me monster of no reality and enablers and fakegalore

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 8:06:54 PM   
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I always found it difficult to argue with no reality I am one of <0.0e1% who offers it. Counter arguments will be made by the rest in the manner know as fallacy

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 9:12:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

I always found it difficult to argue with no reality I am one of <0.0e1% who offers it. Counter arguments will be made by the rest in the manner know as fallacy


You are right. You are the only reality here. No one else here is real. Everyone is fake. You are all alone here. So maybe you should go on Facebook or Match.com or Christianmingle.com (they are definitely real there). And find what you and your 3 cats are searching for. You've wasted too much of your reality here already.

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 9:20:10 PM   
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Then the fault lies entirely with me and all my kind (perhaps 6 of us on here) why do you care non entity oozing utter wretched poverty

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/29/2016 9:31:31 PM   
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Oh oh oh I forgot fetlife has a few I am hideous monster of monstrous aspect threads and enablers (like all forum owners) and if they injected me with a handsome doze of anthrax and I went daft of the head I would not visit them with my cock handsome of girth but I would pray the pox vists them with fury…… I feel it is for the best

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 9/30/2016 12:44:43 PM   
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Don't think it is just older men because, as an older women, I can tell you there are MANY 40+ men who want young, tight bodied women. I think some of them figure that if you have a "defect" there is a better chance of you lowering your standards.

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 10/1/2016 8:55:15 PM   
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Maybe it's just that older men are just somehwhat less fixated on "traditional" good looks.

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 10/15/2016 7:25:22 AM   
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...that guys wasted right?!

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 10/15/2016 9:05:26 AM   
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Not entirely sure about the age thing in terms of mainly older guys being into bigger women.

When I was in my twenties I had friends who liked a women "with something to hold onto" and they meant big ladies, not just people with a few curves. There are plenty of youngsters living around me who could be described as BBW, many of whom have good-looking boyfriends of all shapes and sizes. Sometimes the guys are big as well. I know some girls prefer that but not always. Someone I know who is larger prefers really skinny guys and she is never without a boyfriend. I also see plenty of fit muscular guys with BBW girlfriends or wives.

The whole fetish thing is a bit chicken and egg. You can search for any flavour of women you want on the net. If a guy is into blond and shaved, small breasts, big and beautiful, muscular - you can find them all. I think it is only prejudice about size that makes BBW a "fetish" where a guy who only likes petite brunettes is just a "normal" guy with a preference.

For me, I don't really get it because I don't really go for a physical type, be that size, race or height. I know the one larger girlfriend I had, who I was with for a couple of years, liked me physically because I am over 6ft with broad shoulders. I'm not a "big" guy though and I was just over 30 and pretty athletic at the time. I tend to find people physically attractive once I get to know them, whatever their body shape. I just have to get to know people.

On that note, the idea of going to munches is great because you can be more confident that a guy gets you and is not just into your body, but if he is really into your body, is that altogether a bad thing if he gets you in other ways as well? I would go for real life meets over the internet any day, but I know the internet works for some.

I think that sometimes younger guys don't want to openly admit that they like larger girls, whereas older guys are less likely to think that way. Maybe some older guys are also better at not objectifying you, or better at making you feel comfortable with their attentions. But I have to say when I look around I also see lots of young guys with BBW partners.

If you were a slim 6ft blond you might not worry so much about a guy finding you really hot, unless it was all he cared about. Maybe some of the younger guys who like your body aren't so bad. That's obviously for you to judge though.

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 10/22/2016 8:07:50 PM   
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Older guys, unless filthy rich, usually can't get the young tight bodied chicks so they go for whomever will have them. A true BBW fetish is rather rare.

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RE: Is it just mainly older guys into bigger women? - 10/22/2016 10:05:42 PM   
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I disagree. BBW is not a rare fetish at all. I know many subs of all shapes and sizes who prefer a large lady and have no interest in the women who are weight/height proportioned.

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