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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:07:45 AM

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And as usual, you are projecting your unique perspective onto everyone.

Many disagree with your PoV on sexual matters.

As for 'nirvana' as you call it, I know many that can't get there with just physical sex.
Many (if not most) women need both parts.

That fact that you don't, and also hold the view that everything is ass-backwards in your mind compared to normality, just shows that you don't fit the average person.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:09:09 AM

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The coloured bretheren call each other "[n-word removed by admin]" all the time round here.
And some street girls I know are quite happy to be called a slut.
The words aren't always derogatory.

But it is derogatory majority of the time.
To say this isn't derogatory is being dishonest. And in my specific post that you mentioned, it is super obvious the man was being derogatory.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:10:29 AM

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you don't fit the average person.

Here we are all into kink, that is ALREADY not an average person. And you are condemning individuality ? Wow!

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:13:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1
The coloured bretheren call each other "[n-word removed by admin]" all the time round here.
And some street girls I know are quite happy to be called a slut.
The words aren't always derogatory.

But it is derogatory majority of the time.
To say this isn't derogatory is being dishonest. And in my specific post that you mentioned, it is super obvious the man was being derogatory.

I didn't say it wasn't derogatory.
I just said it isn't always derogatory.
And it isn't treated that way with many people.

In your other post, the man used the correct term.
You might not like it, but it was accurate according to the meaning of the word.
The fact you took umbrage at it just shows your lack of understanding of English.

I think your isolated world is skewing your world view.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:14:20 AM

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The coloured bretheren call each other "[n-word removed by admin]" all the time round here.
And some street girls I know are quite happy to be called a slut.
The words aren't always derogatory.

But it is derogatory majority of the time.
To say this isn't derogatory is being dishonest. And in my specific post that you mentioned, it is super obvious the man was being derogatory.

I didn't say it wasn't derogatory.
I just said it isn't always derogatory.
And it isn't treated that way with many people.

In your other post, the man used the correct term.
You might not like it, but it was accurate according to the meaning of the word.
The fact you took umbrage at it just shows your lack of understanding of English.

I think your isolated world is skewing your world view.

In another words, it is okay to tell every African descent person he is a [n-word removed by admin], because it is an accurate term? Okay, your logic. Please walk the talk and start referring to all your African descent friends as [n-word removed by admin], if you even have any.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:16:08 AM

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you don't fit the average person.

Here we are all into kink, that is ALREADY not an average person. And you are condemning individuality ? Wow!

No, I'm not.
Everyone is individual - kink or 'nilla.

If the vast majority think one particular way and you are the opposite, that is what makes you 'not average'.
That isn't killing individualism at all.

Again, your lack of English understanding is showing.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:18:11 AM

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No, I'm not.
Everyone is individual - kink or 'nilla.

If the vast majority think one particular way and you are the opposite, that is what makes you 'not average'.
That isn't killing individualism at all.

Again, your lack of English understanding is showing.

I am not accusing you of killing individualism. I am accusing you of condemning individualism. Which is NOT killing. Individualism cannot be killed by verbal condemnation.

You are the one with English comprehension problems.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:19:00 AM

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In another words, it is okay to tell every African descent person he is a [n-word removed by admin], because it is an accurate term? Okay, your logic. Please walk the talk and start referring to all your African descent friends as [n-word removed by admin], if you even have any.

I didn't say that - but you are implying it.

I said it wasn't true for many people - not ALL people.

I have many [n-word removed by admin] friends.
And yes, we call them [n-word removed by admin] the same as they call us whities.
Or our Sikh friends as 'towel heads' or 'rag heads'.
We don't treat it as an insult.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:20:33 AM

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In another words, it is okay to tell every African descent person he is a [n-word removed by admin], because it is an accurate term? Okay, your logic. Please walk the talk and start referring to all your African descent friends as [n-word removed by admin], if you even have any.

I didn't say that - but you are implying it.
I said it wasn't true for many people - not ALL people.
I have many [n-word removed by admin] friends.
And yes, we call them [n-word removed by admin] the same as they call us whities.
Or our Sikh friends as 'towel heads' or 'rag heads'.
We don't treat it as an insult.

I'd love to hear what your sikh friends and african descent friends think of you calling them that. I have many Sikh friends. No African descent friends as they pretty much don't exist in my country. I wouldn't know where to meet one. But I would never disrespect any of them calling them any of those words you use on them.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:20:36 AM

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It's the Pile on Greta Show, starring FD!!! Guest star Bondage "I can't find a REAL lesbian" Erone.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:20:52 AM

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Re-read your post#23 -
Here we are all into kink, that is ALREADY not an average person. And you are condemning individuality ? Wow!

Condemning/killing amounts to the same thing on a text-based medium.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:22:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

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ORIGINAL: Greta75
In another words, it is okay to tell every African descent person he is a [n-word removed by admin], because it is an accurate term? Okay, your logic. Please walk the talk and start referring to all your African descent friends as [n-word removed by admin], if you even have any.

I didn't say that - but you are implying it.
I said it wasn't true for many people - not ALL people.
I have many [n-word removed by admin] friends.
And yes, we call them [n-word removed by admin] the same as they call us whities.
Or our Sikh friends as 'towel heads' or 'rag heads'.
We don't treat it as an insult.

I'd love to hear what your sikh friends and african descent friends think of you calling them that.

Read my post!!

We treat it as jovial banter - NOT an insult.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:23:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

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ORIGINAL: Greta75
In another words, it is okay to tell every African descent person he is a [n-word removed by admin], because it is an accurate term? Okay, your logic. Please walk the talk and start referring to all your African descent friends as [n-word removed by admin], if you even have any.

I didn't say that - but you are implying it.

I said it wasn't true for many people - not ALL people.

I have many [n-word removed by admin] friends.
And yes, we call them [n-word removed by admin] the same as they call us whities.
Or our Sikh friends as 'towel heads' or 'rag heads'.
We don't treat it as an insult.

I seriously doubt this. Like 100% doubt this.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:28:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

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ORIGINAL: Greta75
In another words, it is okay to tell every African descent person he is a [n-word removed by admin], because it is an accurate term? Okay, your logic. Please walk the talk and start referring to all your African descent friends as [n-word removed by admin], if you even have any.

I didn't say that - but you are implying it.

I said it wasn't true for many people - not ALL people.

I have many [n-word removed by admin] friends.
And yes, we call them [n-word removed by admin] the same as they call us whities.
Or our Sikh friends as 'towel heads' or 'rag heads'.
We don't treat it as an insult.

I seriously doubt this. Like 100% doubt this.

Come and live here then.
We aren't as pious or PC as most Americans.

Yes, we have bible-bashers, but not to the same degree or number as in the US.
Most are told to sling their hooks when they knock at the door.

A lot of us don't hold words to mean things in a derogatory sense.
A lot has to do with the tone of voice - not just the use of the word.
Tone is almost impossible on a written medium without changing the context.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:29:17 AM

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But it is derogatory majority of the time.
To say this isn't derogatory is being dishonest. And in my specific post that you mentioned, it is super obvious the man was being derogatory.

Of course it is, Greta...and it is obvious from the use of the word slut, the person who used that term meant it as a pejorative.

You are not wrong here.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 5:31:19 AM

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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/uk/2002/jan/20/race.world?client=ms-android-att-us

No, pretty much universally offensive. You are lying when you say it's any different in the UK.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 6:14:38 AM

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Nods freedomdwarf1 A lot of us don't hold words to mean things in a derogatory sense.
A lot has to do with the tone of voice - not just the use of the word.
Tone is almost impossible on a written medium without changing the context
We also use them to make points, highlight hypocrisy, futility, arrogance, racism's,stupidity,idiocy, fallacies,thievery etc its along list.

As for the origins of man - addressed that multiple times elsewhere - over looking the fact there is no black or white. Therefore anyone actually using those two words is actually a racist and should be birched.

Anyhow Op was - ah yes his usual stuff - backed up with another of his accounts..two of three replies in.

If it had said there are far more money vortexes,men pretending they are women, scams than actual women on here fair enough - actually there are more men pretending to be women that actual women on here. But that is not reflection of women...but it begs the question why women dont join this place..resultin in that skew - and the men joining thinking they have got to pay for it. nonsense breeds more nonsense - ive discussed that elsewhere, sock breed more sock, mad stereotype breeds more mad stereotypes, men pretending they are women breed more men pretending they are women and on the cycle goes. Only the genuine; single or not single, looking or not looking, suffer.

I thought, to whom it concerns, you were humping anything that moved - or utilised the term "casual" in a thread & blog from couple days ago and now you decree an outrage at the thought of someone kissing you on the lips...oh, and for that other fuking idiot to be a lesbian you have to be a women

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 6:22:59 AM

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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/uk/2002/jan/20/race.world?client=ms-android-att-us

No, pretty much universally offensive. You are lying when you say it's any different in the UK.

There are much better sources including links to actually case law which disprove FD's bs claim..but ..you are not wrong. I did not know that folks in the UK could actually be charged with a violation of the law for it. Thought that was just here. It is often an add on charge to bring hate/race into a case to elevate the penalty phase provding greater consequences to the same action or used as a plea chip. Seems similar in the UK.

Greta has great sex with a limited, select group of men. Well..good on her! That does not make her a slut and after being told that is unacceptable to her, continued use of the term in relation to her is, to me, cyber bully defined.

Sluts spread indiscriminately. Greta does not do that..she is discerning. Greta has many obvious flaws but even if she were a slut, that would not be one of them.

FD..you are a cyber bully. I don't mean that as a pejorative..just as a fact.Hope you own that term as much as you want Greta to own slut..whether it is true or not.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 6:23:48 AM

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I thought, to whom it concerns, you were humping anything that moved - or utilised the term "casual" in a thread & blog from couple days ago and now you decree an outrage at the thought of someone kissing you on the lips...oh, and for that other fuking idiot to be a lesbian you have to be a women

I am not outrage when a man kiss me on the lips. But if he wants to do that. He is simply not getting laid with me. I don't enjoy kissing. I tell every man upfront about that, and if he cannot respect that, then there are plenty of women who enjoys kissing. The world is their oyster! For me, I am very focus on only interacting sexually with men who fits me. It is casual as I don't require commitment. Casual simply means no commitment.
But it does not mean anything goes. Any type of sex, committed or non-committed still needs a certain level of compatibility to be good. If it's no good, why bother having sex at all? Have sex only if it is good!

I tell every woman that. Have sex only if you enjoy it. If you think you are gonna be suffering it, please don't ever agree to have sex with that person. Unless suffering makes you happy. BDSM comes in, suffering can be a good thing.

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RE: Don't Women Want The Same Things As Men? - 10/28/2016 6:41:08 AM

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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/uk/2002/jan/20/race.world?client=ms-android-att-us

No, pretty much universally offensive. You are lying when you say it's any different in the UK.

Not universal. And not exclusive either.

First entry from Google search -

quote:

1.
a woman who has many casual sexual partners.
synonyms: promiscuous woman; prostitute, whore;
slattern;
euphemistic: model, escort, masseuse;
poule;
informal: floozie, bike, pro;
informal: scrubber, slag, slapper;
informal: tramp, hooker, hustler, roundheel, chippy, skank, puta, hoochie;
black Englishho;
dated: tart, scarlet woman, loose woman, hussy, woman of ill repute, streetwalker, trollop;
archaicharlot, strumpet, wanton, drab, doxy, trull, sloven
2.
dated
a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

So you also think that "model, escort, masseuse;" is derogatory too??
Because that's also part of the meaning.

Wiki: Slut is a term for a woman or girl who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous
Agreed, it is often used in a derogatory sense, but not exclusively "universally" as you claim.

Cambridge Dictionary: Slut (n)"slang disapproving a woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any emotional involvement"
Disapproving, yes, but not offensive.

And that was just the first 3 entries from my search.
It's also not peculiarly British either.

If she wants to take it as offensive, that's on her.
But I didn't see it as that.
I have also shown that it is not universally offensive.

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