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Why are so many subs useless? - 12/5/2016 11:48:47 PM   
Dreammdoll


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Why do many pretend to be submissive and then try to make demands or suggestions? I am so annoyed. Some are needy too and don't have patience. Where are all the subs who know their place?
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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/5/2016 11:54:19 PM   
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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/6/2016 12:04:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dreammdoll

Why do many pretend to be submissive and then try to make demands or suggestions? I am so annoyed. Some are needy too and don't have patience. Where are all the subs who know their place?

They're with people who aren't useless parasites.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/6/2016 5:47:28 AM   
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Some whine would be lovely Danemora. i am thinking a gallon, 2 would be more lovelier and you get my hand in marriage....do you grow grapes...best we thrash out the finer details now


Dear sock-OP stop stealing other peoples fuking pictures and off to fukity you go less i bill you for wickeds times......

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/6/2016 8:40:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Dreammdoll

Why do many pretend to be submissive and then try to make demands or suggestions? I am so annoyed. Some are needy too and don't have patience. Where are all the subs who know their place?


Why do so many Dominants think that it's about being a bitch/asshole? We're all annoyed. Some are needy too and don't have patience. Where are all the "Dom/mes" that are actually Dominant?

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/6/2016 8:46:27 AM   
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Because there's a contingent in our community that insists if you're a masochist, you MUST be submissive. New people, coming into the life are taught this and they believe it because the person telling them has a piece of paper or has "earned their leathers" or seems like they know what they're talking about.



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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/6/2016 8:52:14 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dreammdoll

Why do many pretend to be submissive and then try to make demands or suggestions? I am so annoyed. Some are needy too and don't have patience. Where are all the subs who know their place?


Here's a crazy idea. Why don't you actually BE dominant by going out and getting a job instead of mooching off people?

Show everyone how in control you really are.


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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/6/2016 9:19:37 AM   
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Why do many pretend to be submissive and then try to make demands or suggestions?

Oh I don't know, maybe because they are human beings and so have wants of their own and also have ideas of their own.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/6/2016 9:34:04 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dreammdoll

Why do many pretend to be submissive and then try to make demands or suggestions? I am so annoyed. Some are needy too and don't have patience. Where are all the subs who know their place?


Why do so many little girls, like yourself, pretend to be Dominants when all they really are is beggar sluts who still haven't figured out that you never get something for nothing in life? I'm so annoyed. Most of you are so needy, and whiny, and don't understand the simple logic of the fact that just because you're asking for money from strangers, that doesn't make them dumb enough to actually give it to you. It doesn't matter how many times, and how many ways you beg for it, you're not going to get enough cash for that new iPhone you want by playing pretend at being a Dominant.
All the actual subs who know their place can see from a mile away that you're not actually a Dominant, and they won't be dumb enough to give you any money -as you've noticed- so it's time for you to stop whining and just leave.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/9/2016 10:43:55 PM   
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If someone makes too many demands, it's unlikely she'll become my sub.

If someone makes suggestions, I'd be foolish not to listen.

Note: until they're in a power dynamic with me, they can act any way they please.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/10/2016 12:06:21 AM   
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What's the matter little girl, do the big bad subs refuse to pay you to be their pretend dominant?
If you actually were a dominant, you'd know no sub owes you the time of day until such time as they decide to enter into a D/s relationship with you. Very few, if any, will be willing to give you their hard earned cash for nothing.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/10/2016 5:30:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dreammdoll

Why do many pretend to be submissive and then try to make demands or suggestions? I am so annoyed. Some are needy too and don't have patience. Where are all the subs who know their place?


Why are so many Dom/mes self-entitled arseholes who think another human being is a lifestyle accessory?

Suggestions? Fuck me. Some people need to get their shit together. A sub should now better than to suggest. I can't think of any self-confident Dom/me who could find a way to deal with suggestions without their brain actually exploding, yes, exploding. I'm surprised you managed to type those words without your spleen escaping from your mouth.

Never mind, my lovely, it looks like you're getting the same sort of response most over-generalised trolling statements get round here.

Proper answer

Leaving aside domineering subs who top from the bottom in all aspects of life and in play, it's all about power exchange and how you make the balance work. Whether you want to guide someone, be their emotional guardian, have the last say on any subject, micro-manage, be in quiet control in a relationship with a complex human being who has their own will but submits it to yours, own an obedient animal or be uber-mistress to a spineless idiot with no personality who dribbles "yes mistress" every time you speak, it's all different and none of it is wrong.

But I guess you know all that, princess.

There are so many subs out there, I'm sure you can meet the kind of drone who puts up with you eventually. Just don't expect every sub to be an empty vessel, who makes no practical or emotional demands on your royal delicateness.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/10/2016 8:45:23 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

If someone makes too many demands, it's unlikely she'll become my sub.

If someone makes suggestions, I'd be foolish not to listen.

Note: until they're in a power dynamic with me, they can act any way they please.


Exactly. DarkSteven hit the nail on the proverbial head.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/10/2016 1:38:16 PM   
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Maybe it's because the Dominant is clueless.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/10/2016 2:34:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SnarkDom


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

If someone makes too many demands, it's unlikely she'll become my sub.

If someone makes suggestions, I'd be foolish not to listen.

Note: until they're in a power dynamic with me, they can act any way they please.


Exactly. DarkSteven hit the nail on the proverbial head.


Seconded. He tends to do that a lot in this forum.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/11/2016 1:39:01 AM   
RogueCell


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I usually agree with DS, however in this case I don't. Well maybe I do, but it all depends what he views as demands. One person's demands are another person's hard limits...

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/11/2016 11:48:08 PM   
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Where does she say she doesnt have a job? People on this site are such judgemental assholes. Before u come for me I own my business but still expect nothing but the best from my sub.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/12/2016 12:01:01 AM   
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Wow what a judgemental Bitch you are! How about trying to give some actual real advice. And pass on something substantial to the younger generation. The only real thing you said was there's no such thing as something for nothing. She must first cultivate a real relationship with a sub first. Quit being a old mean Bitch! And I'm off goodbye.

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 12/13/2016 4:39:52 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dreammdoll

Why do many pretend to be submissive and then try to make demands or suggestions? I am so annoyed. Some are needy too and don't have patience. Where are all the subs who know their place?




So, that worked out well for ya,....

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RE: Why are so many subs useless? - 1/4/2017 4:53:29 PM   
Robert52London


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"Their place" is where they choose. In tru submission this is the submissive who chooses the Dom since she/he submits her/his free will and freedom to a Dom/Master. Take dogs for example. Dogs know when person with strong personality enters the stage. Visit a dog shelter and you will quickly learn.
As for demands - probabtly you do not deliver so they demand. Demanding in case of slave is a last line of defence before ending the relationship. It is good to know how to read signs.
Is it true you do it for money as some people suggest?
If yes - word of advice. It is a simple trade. They buy a service. Everytome money comes on table it is a transaction. Even if it looks odd ir is always is a transation so if you complain - then it means your clientele may expect something more. Practice makes perfect.

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