longwayhome
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ORIGINAL: Dreammdoll Why do many pretend to be submissive and then try to make demands or suggestions? I am so annoyed. Some are needy too and don't have patience. Where are all the subs who know their place? Why are so many Dom/mes self-entitled arseholes who think another human being is a lifestyle accessory? Suggestions? Fuck me. Some people need to get their shit together. A sub should now better than to suggest. I can't think of any self-confident Dom/me who could find a way to deal with suggestions without their brain actually exploding, yes, exploding. I'm surprised you managed to type those words without your spleen escaping from your mouth. Never mind, my lovely, it looks like you're getting the same sort of response most over-generalised trolling statements get round here. Proper answer Leaving aside domineering subs who top from the bottom in all aspects of life and in play, it's all about power exchange and how you make the balance work. Whether you want to guide someone, be their emotional guardian, have the last say on any subject, micro-manage, be in quiet control in a relationship with a complex human being who has their own will but submits it to yours, own an obedient animal or be uber-mistress to a spineless idiot with no personality who dribbles "yes mistress" every time you speak, it's all different and none of it is wrong. But I guess you know all that, princess. There are so many subs out there, I'm sure you can meet the kind of drone who puts up with you eventually. Just don't expect every sub to be an empty vessel, who makes no practical or emotional demands on your royal delicateness.
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