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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/21/2017 8:59:35 PM

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Hard to do when nobody else don't give a crap about me

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/21/2017 9:07:22 PM

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Hard to do when nobody else don't give a crap about me

See that's the thing. Once you love yourself you don't really need anyone else. You need to look into the mirror for a long time and tell yourself that you love you. Because if you don't, nothing else really matters. If you're mad at yourself, tell yourself that. But remember that the you inside of you needs you to love it more than anything.

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/21/2017 9:36:41 PM

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Had the cops remove the loaded revolvers from the house in order to remove temptation

That's good, but it still doesn't answer my question.

What do you hope to achieve by coming here and starting this all up again?

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/22/2017 1:57:24 PM

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Isn't this the same conversation that this poster had several months ago?
As I recall, the poster got the same advice then.

People care about people in the abstract. Do I care about people dying in the Sudan from starvation? Yes. Am I going to do anything about it? No. Because I don't know them, I live half a world away from them, and what good could I do? There is the generic giving to the Red Cross, but me personally, there isn't anything to do.

Same with the poster. If a sparrow falls, it matters to the world - in the abstract. In reality, unless you are my family, loved one or friends, it doesn't really matter to me if you live or die. The most I can do is offer advice - all ready did, months ago, and hope it is taken. If it isn't, then there is nothing else to do.

I'm sorry your wife died, I'm sorry you are depressed, I'm sorry no-one loves you - including yourself - though I think you must a bit because you haven't killed yourself - I'm sorry no-one wants you for a submissive - but there is nothing to be done about any of that. By me or anyone else on collarchat.
And really, looking for pity on line is a dangerous thing, because people in the anonymity of the internet have precious little pity to share.

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/22/2017 2:07:09 PM

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Isn't this the same conversation that this poster had several months ago?
As I recall, the poster got the same advice then.

People care about people in the abstract. Do I care about people dying in the Sudan from starvation? Yes. Am I going to do anything about it? No. Because I don't know them, I live half a world away from them, and what good could I do? There is the generic giving to the Red Cross, but me personally, there isn't anything to do.

Same with the poster. If a sparrow falls, it matters to the world - in the abstract. In reality, unless you are my family, loved one or friends, it doesn't really matter to me if you live or die. The most I can do is offer advice - all ready did, months ago, and hope it is taken. If it isn't, then there is nothing else to do.

I'm sorry your wife died, I'm sorry you are depressed, I'm sorry no-one loves you - including yourself - though I think you must a bit because you haven't killed yourself - I'm sorry no-one wants you for a submissive - but there is nothing to be done about any of that. By me or anyone else on collarchat.
And really, looking for pity on line is a dangerous thing, because people in the anonymity of the internet have precious little pity to share.

Pity is never good for anyone anyways. Empathy perhaps, but not pity.

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/22/2017 5:21:34 PM

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To the OP:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
Call them.

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/27/2017 7:15:40 PM

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Had the cops remove the loaded revolvers from the house in order to remove temptation

That's good, but it still doesn't answer my question.

What do you hope to achieve by coming here and starting this all up again?

I did not come back to these forums so that you can stalk me and fuck with me. I have, however, returned with a "fuck you" attitude. So, guess what? "Fuck You and your stalking. I no longer give a fuck what you think and, before I block you for the last time, go fuck yourself and find someone who will cry and run away because I'm not running from you again. And, while you're at it...KISS MY FUCKING ASS.Reguardless our past and how I feel about myself. I'M BETTER THAN YOU AND AM SO IVERAND ABOVE YOU THAT YOU WILL NOT TEAR ME DOWN EVER AGAIN. SO TO RECAPP, FUCK YOU, KISS MY ASS I'M BETTER THAN YOU. GET OVER IT, BITCH,!!!

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/27/2017 7:34:30 PM

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How is asking you a serious question stalking you?

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/27/2017 8:13:10 PM

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During my battles with the Noonday Demon, this thought from pioneering psychologist Alfred Adler sometimes helps me get out of the murky depths of my own head: "You can be healed if every day you begin the first thing in the morning to consider how you can bring a real joy to someone else. If you can stick to this for two weeks you will no longer need therapy."

That's simple, probably even simplistic, and I know all too well how intractable depression can be. Still, anything that nudges me out of the hell of self-pity is a plus!

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/27/2017 8:34:37 PM

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You need a homeopathic remedy known as Aurum in high dosage, usually 1M. This works wonders for suicidial thoughts. I've taken it many times and it makes me move forward. Research it.

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/28/2017 2:43:22 AM

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Where can I get it? Do I ask the doctor?

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/28/2017 2:56:22 AM

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Last Tuesday I drove 35 miles disoriented and confused to St Francis hospital's ER putting my life at risk due to confusion and disorientation, seeking medical attention, only to be handcuffed and transported to a mental hospital. Spent a week there. I don't remember much of this past week. They kept me dopped up, dazed and confused, until they realized there mistake. I feel so violated.

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/28/2017 3:28:46 AM

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Nobody here will give my the time of fucking day. Yes they will and some just have with good advice – says a man with three cats, and illness (which I talk about from time to time on here, everywhere), who never leaves the house - for about a decade now.

Here – websites are difficult to explain-but as your profile states you are looking for eg a lesbian then you have to understand 9/10 or even 99/100 “lesbians” are infact married guys fuking about hoping some “women” will send em some titty pictures or talk sultry hot lebo
talk to them. We all hate those profiles but there is no team here that can moderate them.

You can of course join fetlife which has more women” “people” and more groups tailored to your immediate needs. You can also have a look at datingkinky.com which is still a fledging site for now.

The core regulars on here are fine. Find a forum you like here, or elsewhere, and participate - its interaction which even a mad old hobo like me needs

I liked angelikaJ suggestion

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/28/2017 4:16:12 AM

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Go to this website. Www.classicalmedicine.net. This doctor is a homeopathic doctor and takes care of your physical as well as mental health. He is located in the Tampa area but it doesn't matter, he will do skype with you.

It may have to come out of pocket but it's absolutely worth it to get yourself back to stability.

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/28/2017 10:44:41 AM

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Last Tuesday I drove 35 miles disoriented and confused to St Francis hospital's ER putting my life at risk due to confusion and disorientation, seeking medical attention, only to be handcuffed and transported to a mental hospital. Spent a week there. I don't remember much of this past week. They kept me dopped up, dazed and confused, until they realized there mistake. I feel so violated.

What was their mistake? Since your recent return, you have repeatedly expressed suicidal ideation. Did you make similar statements while in the ER?

Every time someone here has tried to help, you had a steady stream of "reasons" why their suggestions were no good. You repeatedly make statements like "nobody on here gives a fuck if I live or die (most opt for my death)", "you would all my pleased as punch if I died". If you really think that's the case, even with your history here, why are people still trying to help?

If you really wanted to be dead, you would be dead, so again, what are you hoping to accomplish here?

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/28/2017 11:54:28 AM

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I will give that a try

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/28/2017 11:57:25 AM

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Oh, and someremind stef I have the bitch block and have no use for her.i see she keeps trying to say something, but being block means exactly that. I've stop listening to her hours ago.

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/28/2017 1:51:37 PM

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I guess asking hard questions questions you can't answer makes me a bitch? I can live with that.

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/28/2017 7:35:08 PM

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Why don't you check yourself into an ER? And tell them this. They will help you.

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RE: Suicide Prevention - 3/28/2017 8:32:26 PM

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Why don't you check yourself into an ER? And tell them this. They will help you.

Went to ER, ended up being cuffed and shipped to a loony bin in under 20 minutes. Would rather die at home than being treated like a nut case and kept dopped up for five days in an unsafe environment where psycho actions attract other patients suddenly and without warning while the staff pretty much ignored it all. Even staff members told us that, if we wanted safety, we shouldn't have gone to The Bradley Center.

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