DaddySatyr
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Joined: 8/29/2011 From: Pittston, Pennsyltucky Status: offline
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It's a tad difficult to figure out if you're talking about the dynamic or the physical activities. In fact, it seems to me (after several readings) that you might be conflating the two? I'm going to break this down and take it quite literally in an effort to try and help and give advice on what each sentence/question seems to be about: quote:
ORIGINAL: pmsj1644 What do most subs want? This really can't be answered except in very broad terms. "Most subs" (or, submissive people) want to find a person in whom they trust enough to be able to abdicate their will to the will of that dominant. quote:
ORIGINAL: pmsj1644 It's still hard to find, as I'm a Dom, a lady who would act as my sub. Well, I may be putting too fine a point on it, but I don't want ladies to "act as my sub". I want ladies that see qualities in me to which they want to submit or from which they want to learn or grow. quote:
ORIGINAL: pmsj1644 some are afraid, some want to take it step-by-step. Agreed. Where's the happy medium, r do you want the hard approach (as long as you're safe of course) or very soft to start with? Yes, most submissives (if they're smart) don't want to just dive right in. They want to take their time. Happy medium? There is none, for me. If she is "dragging her feet" by my estimation, she's not the right fit for me. I guess for me, it is always "the hard approach". I want what I want, when I want it and anyone that can't keep up can eat my dust. quote:
ORIGINAL: pmsj1644 What is the best way to attract any of you to a Dom? My best advice is don't try to attract a submissive. If you're worried about what you can do to attract a submissive, aren't you kind of changing yourself to suit their wants? NEVER change yourself (that advice goes for submissives, as well). Go about your business, living your life, being the best person you can be and wait until a submissive notices what it is you have to offer. You'll know when someone has taken a shine to you. Michael
< Message edited by DaddySatyr -- 4/29/2017 11:28:47 PM >
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