krikket
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Joined: 11/17/2004 From: Washington, DC Metro Area Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: mons ... and i did something else you all said i told him i would not ever leave him and i did just that. mons It's amazing how often that happens (on both sides of the coin i would imagine), which makes trust even more difficult to offer in the next relationship. So many here have mentioned being ignored, in one way or another, and i readily admit it's my greatest fear and worst punishment, but... i have to wonder why, when a Master/Dom/Top employs this method, is it because he's "controlling" the sub, or maybe sometimes it's just because he doesn't want to deal with his/her partner or the issue at hand. It is really punishment? or a cop out? just my thoughts.. jimini
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"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to bloom." by A. Nin When your heart speaks take good notes.
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