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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 11:50:24 AM

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I've worked in children's and young people's services dealing with abused kids, which is probably more than you ever have.

Don't bet the farm.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 11:55:02 AM

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I've worked in children's and young people's services dealing with abused kids, which is probably more than you ever have.

Don't bet the farm.

Hearsay is worthless as verification, but do you have anything to add on that?

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 12:02:11 PM

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Still, I think you both would agree that none of the children any of us has worked with should be taken into consideration when posting on here. Which I think is the point.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 12:05:06 PM

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Completely irrelevant, yes: I just found purple girl's attempt to mount a high horse over that mid flounce questionable.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 12:06:42 PM

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That's it. I'm out.

Anybody trying to justify their actions, stomping their feet about what about the pedophiles??? When the flipping original post was about co-workers in the workplace. Somehow, that became what about the pxxx???

Out of curiosity, how many of you folks really WORK with people under the age of consent?

I'm don't know if I'm being included in this question, but I'll answer it, I did for years. I did as a riding instructor, and that included working with the vulnerable as well. For what it's worth I hold qualifications in social care that allow me to work in a number of fields with children.

I still don't get what the hell any of it has to do with the topic of consent on an adult BDSM site getting around to being able to accuse someone of being a paedophile apologist.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 12:09:49 PM

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Still, I think you both would agree that none of the children any of us has worked with should be taken into consideration when posting on here. Which I think is the point.

It's most certainly my point. I don't understand how the hell anyone's mind on this site goes down the road of kids when we're talking adults on an adult site that has very specific rules on the subject.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 12:10:05 PM

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Without reading through the pages here, I think your word choice of "aggressor" is poor. Otherwise, I get where your coming from.

Despite the rise of political correctness in this age, which has particularly empowered mouthy minorities including feminist nazis, I've still found many women appreciate a man who takes the lead (don't mean the leather kind here...).

Overall, I've found it quite simple to deal with. As a dominant man, I'm not attracted to dominant women. In the vanilla world, substitute "take charge" for dominant.

A big step in the initial right direction is to look more at the woman's eyes than her boobs....

Focus.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 12:12:41 PM

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That's it. I'm out.

Anybody trying to justify their actions, stomping their feet about what about the pedophiles??? When the flipping original post was about co-workers in the workplace. Somehow, that became what about the pxxx???

Out of curiosity, how many of you folks really WORK with people under the age of consent?

I'm don't know if I'm being included in this question, but I'll answer it, I did for years. I did as a riding instructor, and that included working with the vulnerable as well. For what it's worth I hold qualifications in social care that allow me to work in a number of fields with children.

I still don't get what the hell any of it has to do with the topic of consent on an adult BDSM site getting around to being able to accuse someone of being a paedophile apologist.

Needles

I don't think they'll let you work any job that might involve dealing kids in any other context than them being on the far side of a till you're propping up at all unless you've gone through a CBR check and taken a course on dealing with children who might be at risk do they?

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 12:19:03 PM

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Exactly, CRB, First aid, social care, or whatever other qualifications applicable to the job. My son is a part time Scout leader, and he's just gone through his CRB, DMB? (I think that's what it is, but I've no idea what it stands for) and I know that they have to have an up to date warrant. They also have to do first aid, and a boat load of other stuff.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 12:28:06 PM

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I'm not sure, but I think the DMB might have replaced the CRB or something?
Just think: in a couple of years' time, all of this stupid authoritarian Eurocrat nonsense will be done away with, and anybody will be able to work with children, even if they're on the sex offender's register...

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 1:05:34 PM

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Don't even get me started on all that bullshit!

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 1:21:56 PM

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You're picking at bones in a thread you created ON AN ADULT SITE that very specifically states in the rules that at no times is their to be reference to minors. So, for the sake of ANY discussion within the confines of this site then we are ALL only talking about consent amongst ADULTS ONLY.

Quite frankly I pick at anything I want to and it is none of your business what I pick it.

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Get YOUR MIND out of the God damn gutter, and away from those that have no place being mentioned at all on this site. You see, just because we are talking about those that should ONLY be spoken about ON HERE, does not mean that anyone is a paedo apologist. It also doesn't give you the right to call people sticking to THE RULES OF THE SITE any such thing.

Again It is none of your business whether my mind is in the gutter or not so get over it. As for the "THE RULES OF THE SITE", I don't believe there are any "THE RULES OF THE SITE" that say you can't even mention pedophilia, especially if you are speaking out against it, like I am. In fact your attacking about it gives the impression that you are for it.

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Amongst ADULTS yes does mean yes, and no mean fucking no, so get over it, and stop being passive aggressive trying to poke your passive aggressive dick in holes where there aren't any in this ADULT site.

It appears anger is clouding your mind or you would understand that yes don't always mean yes even among ADULTS, if a ADULT person is drunk or on drugs then their YES can't be taken to mean yes. I already pointed this out to you but like I say it seems anger has blinded you.

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Oh, and if for one moment you're seriously going to claim that your mind is more aware of the horrid results of 'what Clover said' than mine, you can fuck off to hell! What it tells me is that you're someone I'd want my kids to stay well away from, because that's where you mind went on a site that is never supposed to be considering minors when talking sex.

I guess you missed it in your speed to damn me to hell for my wanting to stop child abuse, I already did claim I was more aware of the horrid results of 'what Clover said' than she appears to be. As for you, you appear to be so angry that I'm surprised that you can type let alone be aware of what you are reading and typing.

Honestly, I speak out about how something someone has said could lead to child abuse and you condemn me and try to silence me. You need to clam down so you can think more clearly.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 1:35:16 PM

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That's it. I'm out.

Anybody trying to justify their actions, stomping their feet about what about the pedophiles??? When the flipping original post was about co-workers in the workplace. Somehow, that became what about the pxxx???

Out of curiosity, how many of you folks really WORK with people under the age of consent?

What in the world are you talking about? Did you even read the opening post?

Here it is again:

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When I was raised men were to be the aggressor and women were to be passive.

The old “men chase and women choose” concept.

But now it seems that if the “chase” is more than a onetime offer of dinner, it is sexual harassment. (In the work place asking twice can legally be considered sexual harassment)

So I guess my question is; are men to stop being the aggressor, stop chasing and just let women chase and choose?

If you will notice the phrase (In the work place asking twice can legally be considered sexual harassment) is in parentheses which means it is a side point made for clarification and could be left out entirely is and not part of the main talking point.

In fact if I was to get "picky", the phrase "when I was raised" would seem to bring childhood into it

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 1:37:40 PM

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That's it. I'm out.

Anybody trying to justify their actions, stomping their feet about what about the pedophiles??? When the flipping original post was about co-workers in the workplace. Somehow, that became what about the poorpedipholes???

Out of curiosity, how many of you folks really WORK with people under the age of consent?

I've worked in children's and young people's services dealing with abused kids, which is probably more than you ever have.

What is the matter with you? Now it is not just me, now you're starting to just randonly insult people.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 1:40:34 PM

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I've worked in children's and young people's services dealing with abused kids, which is probably more than you ever have.

Don't bet the farm.

Hearsay is worthless as verification, but do you have anything to add on that?

Froggy, you have become worthless, when you actually have a valid comment to add please come back and offer it, till then go do your homework and keep your insults to yourself.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 1:44:20 PM

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Still, I think you both would agree that none of the children any of us has worked with should be taken into consideration when posting on here. Which I think is the point.

You really think that is a good idea? Maybe not as individual cases but when talking about how to stop child abuse shouldn't everything be taken into consideration, even here?

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 1:45:24 PM

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Completely irrelevant, yes: I just found purple girl's attempt to mount a high horse over that mid flounce questionable.

Go away.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 1:48:51 PM

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Still, I think you both would agree that none of the children any of us has worked with should be taken into consideration when posting on here. Which I think is the point.

You really think that is a good idea? Maybe not as individual cases but when talking about how to stop child abuse shouldn't everything be taken into consideration, even here?

Not the topic of this thread.

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 1:49:08 PM

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Still, I think you both would agree that none of the children any of us has worked with should be taken into consideration when posting on here. Which I think is the point.

It's most certainly my point. I don't understand how the hell anyone's mind on this site goes down the road of kids when we're talking adults on an adult site that has very specific rules on the subject.
Needles

Perhaps, because you seem to be so up on the rules, you could point out where they say if you speak out against child abuse, like I have, it is against the those rules?

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RE: Agressive Males? - 12/8/2017 1:57:55 PM

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I'm thinking very clearly thanks, but you are full of crap!

I'm all for the paedophiles?. You're out of your mind, and you certainly lack reading comprehension. No, you blithering idiot, I'm not for the paedophiles at all. My negativity it totally aimed at you for being so passive aggressive towards other people, and then myself, because you can't accept that actually you are at fault here. You're proving that right now with this accusation, which to an actual abuse victim has to be one of the lowest, and weakest things a mind could come up with. It's as pathetic as the bullshit that Respectmen comes out with when he can't debate reasonably either.

You see, the rules of the site may not be against discussing paedophiles, or ranting against them, BUT I NEVER SAID THEY WERE ... did I? No, I said the rules are against discussing MINORS, thus no-one should be thinking of them, just as Clover seemed not to be. Only your twisted mind went there. 'Yes means yes' amongst adults, now remember back when I said this comes with qualifications and boundaries? Please tell me that I don't have to Parrot every single fricking thing I say in every single post just so it sticks in your head??? You see, any normal person knows full well not to take advantage of someone that is drunk, or drugged up off their head so that consent couldn't actually be construed as legal. Again though, I shouldn't have had to qualify that to anyone with any reasonable amount of intelligence. Now as for what is my business, you posted in an open forum, and you are picking and twisting what other people are writing to cause arguments, and then included my own words, thus you made it my business! Can't stand that someone is going to pull you up for your bullshit, tough, so get over it.

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