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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 4:28:00 AM   
Spellbinder83


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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Did no one tell you "it's better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt"? In your case, substitute fool for whiny little pissant.

When you've matured enough to realize no one owes you a damned thing, you might also realize that no response to your message is a response. It means "not f*cking interested".

Well that was a fucking useless reply. Why did you even type it?

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 4:45:21 AM   
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This point is a bit complicated so stay with me. I had a health incident on March 29th, and qualify for home health. The person they sent is an extremely submissive Asian girl. She has an intense desire to please and goes above and beyond, offering to do things and anticipating needs. She is married and I do not find her physically attractive, but her need to please is remarkable and I find her submissive soul beautiful. I keep everything respectful because she is married, but sometimes I just close my eyes and enjoy her serving me.


Dude. That's gross. She's not "serving" you - she's doing her damn job. She's paid to help people bathe themselves, cook, clean, whatever. Home health aides are there to help people age in place, live as independently and safely as possible. They help keep people out of nursing homes.

God. Allow her some dignity for Chrissakes. Shes a caretaker, not a kinktaker.

As far as your ad, people aren't cell phone plans. There's more to relationships than just "hey, I like dogs and want to live in a camper and travel cross-country when I retire too! Let's get married!"

Learn to take rejection with grace.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 6:13:35 AM   
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Dude this is the best I can do.

Every year, I get ten thousand messages on this site. I delete at least 9,950 of them. I'm not the EEO.

If you were on the other side of the slash, (aka, a submissive) I wouldn't look twice at you. Your disability wouldn't suit my wants.

I'm not emotionally invested enough in some random dude who comes across my profile, thinking we are made for each other, but he can't even offer enough that the 9,999 other men that I'll encounter in any given month can do. I'm privileged enough that I can have a hundred able-bodied people salivating at my door in a matter of hours.

My advice...

The next time you send a woman you haven't even met an email, skip all of that crap about your home health care worker. Nobody gives a sh^t about her ethnicity or about the job she's being paid to do. What in the hell does the professional that comes to your home have to do with your dating life, anyway? "Oh, this guy just wrote me talking about how dependent he is on others...

The best advice is always to be who you are. Are you smart? Are you funny? Do other people enjoy your company? Are you fun to be around? Do people (non-paid people) want to spend time with you? If you are, do that. Without meaning to, people will be attracted to you.

Best wishes,

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 6:29:51 AM   
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Your over the top anger issues probably made her reject you.

Other people can see your forum posts. And it’s recommended that people steer clear of types like you who are out of control. She looked at your profile andposts and decided you aren’t compatible.

You’re acting like a stalker, over someone you’ve never met. God only knows what you would do if rejected after a couple of dates.

And no, we’re not going to give you the name of other sites. We would feel guilty for inflicting you on someone else.

You may think you’re in control but you aren’t. Unfortunately anger is a common side effect of strokes. Talk to your doctors.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 7:49:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83


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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul


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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83


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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul


Dude, you have issues.

You asked for an opinion. I gave it. I needed no further comment.

If you want to be taken seriously as a dom, you might want to stop acting like a child throwing a tantrum.

You were part of the gang that treated me like shit, and you say I have issues? You treat new people terribly. No wonder it's the same 5 people who post about things. The kink community is renown for being welcoming. You are a fucking fake.

Put up for shut up dude. I challenge you to show where I treated you like shit.

In return, I can post your private messages to me, where you admitted I was being kind and thanked me for it.



Doesn't count. I wrote that when I was trying to be nice and make friends. The only issue I have is being stuck here with you. I wrote that before I knew what a bitch you were.


Like I said, put up or shut up.

I in no way attacked you in that other thread. Others were harsh to you, some of it you deserved some of it not so much. if you remember correctly I told you to ignore certain posters, both privately and in the thread itself.

Every person you write to can see what you've written in both this thread and in the other one, and in any future threads. So here is a little bitchy advice for you:. grow up and learn how to handle yourself amongst adults before you try to dom another human being. Because anyone who can read these posts would run away once they saw what a childish, insecure dumbinant you are.

And no, that is not a typo.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 7:51:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Your over the top anger issues probably made her reject you.

Other people can see your forum posts. And it’s recommended that people steer clear of types like you who are out of control. She looked at your profile andposts and decided you aren’t compatible.

You’re acting like a stalker, over someone you’ve never met. God only knows what you would do if rejected after a couple of dates.

And no, we’re not going to give you the name of other sites. We would feel guilty for inflicting you on someone else.

You may think you’re in control but you aren’t. Unfortunately anger is a common side effect of strokes. Talk to your doctors.

Look, you dont know a damn thing about me except that I had a stroke. Yes, I know others can see my forum posts. I don't care why she rejected me. It was her decision. Already talked to my doctor. He said I'm fine and way ahead of schedule. When people like you misjudge and disrespect me, surprise!, I don't like it. Last time I was new so I just took it. Not taking shit this time. Be nice and pleasant and so will I, even if you tell me what I don't want to hear. Be rude or stupid, and I'll let you know.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 7:59:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul


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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83


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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul


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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83


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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul


Dude, you have issues.

You asked for an opinion. I gave it. I needed no further comment.

If you want to be taken seriously as a dom, you might want to stop acting like a child throwing a tantrum.

You were part of the gang that treated me like shit, and you say I have issues? You treat new people terribly. No wonder it's the same 5 people who post about things. The kink community is renown for being welcoming. You are a fucking fake.

Put up for shut up dude. I challenge you to show where I treated you like shit.

In return, I can post your private messages to me, where you admitted I was being kind and thanked me for it.



Doesn't count. I wrote that when I was trying to be nice and make friends. The only issue I have is being stuck here with you. I wrote that before I knew what a bitch you were.


Like I said, put up or shut up.

I in no way attacked you in that other thread. Others were harsh to you, some of it you deserved some of it not so much. if you remember correctly I told you to ignore certain posters, both privately and in the thread itself.

Every person you write to can see what you've written in both this thread and in the other one, and in any future threads. So here is a little bitchy advice for you:. grow up and learn how to handle yourself amongst adults before you try to dom another human being. Because anyone who can read these posts would run away once they saw what a childish, insecure dumbinant you are.

And no, that is not a typo.


I'll look at the seven pages later. I don't feel like it right now. If I owe you an apology, you will get one. I'll make it public since the insult was public. I called you a B, so not surprised you said dumbinant. I do not know for sure, but am inclined to believe you are right.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 8:17:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

The next time you send a woman you haven't even met an email, skip all of that crap about your home health care worker. Nobody gives a sh^t about her ethnicity or about the job she's being paid to do. What in the hell does the professional that comes to your home have to do with your dating life, anyway? "Oh, this guy just wrote me talking about how dependent he is on others...

The best advice is always to be who you are. Are you smart? Are you funny? Do other people enjoy your company? Are you fun to be around? Do people (non-paid people) want to spend time with you? If you are, do that. Without meaning to, people will be attracted to you.
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I was simply trying to say that I appreciate and am capable of enjoying something that isn't sexual. I don't have much experience so I was trying to relate. I only mentioned her ethnicity so she is easier to picture. Who I am is someone who finds examples in their everyday life.

Yesx5, but when the message box opens, I draw a blank. So I come up with stuff like I posted. And then people get offended.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 8:20:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VelvetPuppet
Learn to take rejection with grace.

I did. Read my reponse to her you illiterate fucking idiot.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 10:12:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83

Why did you stop replying? Did I put the Queens of the message board in their place with the truth? I'm not puttimg up with ignorance anymore. Legit replies get legit responses. You make a stupid reply, you get a response that calls out your stupidity.


An hour and a half that you don't get a reply in the forums and you start going off? Not cool, man. The "legit replies" comment I imagine is directed at me since it's basically in my profile. You dropped no "truth" anywhere, nor pointed out any ignorances other than your own, I promise you. This is all especially weird because you started your post wanting honest answers and for people to eviserate you. I know that was tongue-in-cheek, but it says to me you want brutal honesty at the very least.

Believe it or not I get your frustration. I'm disabled, though not to the extent that you are. I'm not house-bound, which I'm guessing you mainly are. Your situation sounds dreadful; I'd hate to have to have a home healthcare worker. Hell, It kills me that my partner had to do everything around the house because I'm not capable. When he goes on a tear to clean the house, I get anxious and very depressed. I've had 10 years to accept this shit. You've had much less. So I get that. You must be lonely as all get out. But that's no excuse.

That said, hanging so much hope on someone you've never even talked to is not healthy. Going off the way you have here is not healthy. Thinking the anger you spit out here is anything resembling a reasoned response is not healthy. It may sound like an insult when DarkSteven said see a counselor, but it's legit advice. I have fantasy head canons about how perfect a match with someone is, and the perfect life we could live, too. But the normal thing is to keep that to yourself.

There are two problems you've got going on that I can see. The first is depression or mental illness about your injury. It's plain depressing to be disabled or chronically sick. It just is. In a short time you've had to make a lot of adjustments. It sucks to be 37 and deal with health things you shouldn't "have to" for another 40 years. Our society says you are what you do for work, and that fact alone can make us feel worthless and hopeless.

The second you will not like to hear. You may be a generally nice fellow, but you've got Nice Guy™ Syndrome. You consider yourself a nice guy coming in last, do you not? Obviously you think women owe you a response when you write them, and not just that, but to look at your profile. Writing to her that you'll leave her alone when she looks at your profile but doesn't respond is unnecessary -- all you had to do was actually leave her alone to respect her disinterest. That's the kind of behavior that other women see as a warning flag. I suggest you read up about Nice Guys™ and ways to not be one, and not from men who pity themselves like the incels. You likely won't like how women write about Nice Guys™, but accepting that will be a part of breaking the entitlement to women's time and attention that you have.

You need to get yourself together. Because right now you aren't.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 10:16:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83

Looked around and didn't see a better place to post this. So I just decided to post here since I know you guys love me. We match so well but I can't even get this girl to look at my profile. Here's the message text so you guys can tel me what's wrong with it if you want. I know the message isn't perfect, but is it really that bad? C'mon, eviscerate me. I know you guys want to.

"Hello. I don't want to inflate my expectations, but my search may be over. Your profile spoke to me; it is exactly what I am looking for. Take a look at my profile if you think I'm exaggerating.

Sure, I am looking for 24/7 and TPE, but hear me out. All of this must be negotiated first, and while control does excite me, I don't need it all the time.

Have your own life. Be your own person. Sure, once in a while I will put my foot down and tell you to stay home, but keeping you from your friends and family on a long term basis is abusive.

You can even work if you wish but I should make enough for you to stay at home, and that is what I would prefer. But I wont resent you or anything if you work outside the home. Though working from home would be best.

This point is a bit complicated so stay with me. I had a health incident on March 29th, and qualify for home health. The person they sent is an extremely submissive Asian girl. She has an intense desire to please and goes above and beyond, offering to do things and anticipating needs. She is married and I do not find her physically attractive, but her need to please is remarkable and I find her submissive soul beautiful. I keep everything respectful because she is married, but sometimes I just close my eyes and enjoy her serving me.

During your free time, you're mine. Need time for vanilla things? It's yours. My slave was like that. I gave her so much freedom that she probably shouldn't be considered a slave, but that was our arrangement."


You are absolutely right. A very terrible message. To pre-write a message before you have even met someone is about the worst idea you can come up with.

Here is a clue, women DO NOT LIKE canned messages. They want to know that you are interested in them as a person. You message says nothing as to why you are interested in the person. What about their profile attracted you to them? What about their profile interested you? What about their profile makes you think the two of you have something in common to share.

BDSM is no different than courting a vanilla woman. Women want to be courted. So forget pre-written messages and go interact with a real person.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 11:27:46 AM   
Spellbinder83


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ORIGINAL: cloverodella


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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83

Why did you stop replying? Did I put the Queens of the message board in their place with the truth? I'm not puttimg up with ignorance anymore. Legit replies get legit responses. You make a stupid reply, you get a response that calls out your stupidity.


An hour and a half that you don't get a reply in the forums and you start going off? Not cool, man. The "legit replies" comment I imagine is directed at me since it's basically in my profile. You dropped no "truth" anywhere, nor pointed out any ignorances other than your own, I promise you. This is all especially weird because you started your post wanting honest answers and for people to eviserate you. I know that was tongue-in-cheek, but it says to me you want brutal honesty at the very least.

Believe it or not I get your frustration. I'm disabled, though not to the extent that you are. I'm not house-bound, which I'm guessing you mainly are. Your situation sounds dreadful; I'd hate to have to have a home healthcare worker. Hell, It kills me that my partner had to do everything around the house because I'm not capable. When he goes on a tear to clean the house, I get anxious and very depressed. I've had 10 years to accept this shit. You've had much less. So I get that. You must be lonely as all get out. But that's no excuse.

That said, hanging so much hope on someone you've never even talked to is not healthy. Going off the way you have here is not healthy. Thinking the anger you spit out here is anything resembling a reasoned response is not healthy. It may sound like an insult when DarkSteven said see a counselor, but it's legit advice. I have fantasy head canons about how perfect a match with someone is, and the perfect life we could live, too. But the normal thing is to keep that to yourself.

There are two problems you've got going on that I can see. The first is depression or mental illness about your injury. It's plain depressing to be disabled or chronically sick. It just is. In a short time you've had to make a lot of adjustments. It sucks to be 37 and deal with health things you shouldn't "have to" for another 40 years. Our society says you are what you do for work, and that fact alone can make us feel worthless and hopeless.

The second you will not like to hear. You may be a generally nice fellow, but you've got Nice Guy™ Syndrome. You consider yourself a nice guy coming in last, do you not? Obviously you think women owe you a response when you write them, and not just that, but to look at your profile. Writing to her that you'll leave her alone when she looks at your profile but doesn't respond is unnecessary -- all you had to do was actually leave her alone to respect her disinterest. That's the kind of behavior that other women see as a warning flag. I suggest you read up about Nice Guys™ and ways to not be one, and not from men who pity themselves like the incels. You likely won't like how women write about Nice Guys™, but accepting that will be a part of breaking the entitlement to women's time and attention that you have.

You need to get yourself together. Because right now you aren't.

I hate that you are disabled as well. I still have the possibility of recovery. Your situation sounds more permanent. You have my empathy.

Legit replies was not directed at you. If you'll notice, I haven't looked at your profile.

I was only talking about "truth" in the sense that I was providing additional info that I believe proved some people judgemental, like how I knew her ethnicity, things like that. I wasn't refering to "dropping knowledge" or anything like that.

Why couldn't you reply like that the first time? That is exactly what I want to hear. Not the judgemental stuff you spewed the first time. Stuff I don't like to hear, but need to hear.

Eviscerate was not an invitation for judgement. It was just meant to encourage replies. This is ask a Master, not Extreme Humiliation & Degradation.

I did regret the first paragraph after I sent it. That internal dialogue should have stayed internal.

I have pent up anger from my previous post where I was also judged. When the same people did it again, and I knew this board was poorly moderated, I was not about to be a doormat. Some may be falsely accused. They will receive an apology if needed. Public, if necessary.

Yes, I know seeing a counselor is legit advice. I saw one for depression before the stroke. Really, any depression is directly related to maybe not getting my mobility back. That does bother me. My anger says stop judging me and back off. I doubt anyone here likes to be judged. But if I were perfectly fit, being judged would still piss me off.

I think I am a nice guy. Most women do not look at my profile here, most of the time, it does not bother me. I wanted her to look at it because I felt we were a good match. My profile does the best job selling me. Is that nice guy thinking? I'm not sure. It does irritate me when women delete my messages without reading them. I admit I think that is bullshit.

I see your point about simply leaving her alone. I wanted her to see the profile because we match so well. What's an incel?

I want to read up about Nice Guys. What resources do you recommend?

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 11:34:30 AM   
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Yep. This entire thread has been a very graceful rant about being rejected.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 11:51:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VelvetPuppet

Yep. This entire thread has been a very graceful rant about being rejected.

Graceful? Really?

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 11:53:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DocStrange


quote:

ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83

Looked around and didn't see a better place to post this. So I just decided to post here since I know you guys love me. We match so well but I can't even get this girl to look at my profile. Here's the message text so you guys can tel me what's wrong with it if you want. I know the message isn't perfect, but is it really that bad? C'mon, eviscerate me. I know you guys want to.

"Hello. I don't want to inflate my expectations, but my search may be over. Your profile spoke to me; it is exactly what I am looking for. Take a look at my profile if you think I'm exaggerating.

Sure, I am looking for 24/7 and TPE, but hear me out. All of this must be negotiated first, and while control does excite me, I don't need it all the time.

Have your own life. Be your own person. Sure, once in a while I will put my foot down and tell you to stay home, but keeping you from your friends and family on a long term basis is abusive.

You can even work if you wish but I should make enough for you to stay at home, and that is what I would prefer. But I wont resent you or anything if you work outside the home. Though working from home would be best.

This point is a bit complicated so stay with me. I had a health incident on March 29th, and qualify for home health. The person they sent is an extremely submissive Asian girl. She has an intense desire to please and goes above and beyond, offering to do things and anticipating needs. She is married and I do not find her physically attractive, but her need to please is remarkable and I find her submissive soul beautiful. I keep everything respectful because she is married, but sometimes I just close my eyes and enjoy her serving me.

During your free time, you're mine. Need time for vanilla things? It's yours. My slave was like that. I gave her so much freedom that she probably shouldn't be considered a slave, but that was our arrangement."


You are absolutely right. A very terrible message. To pre-write a message before you have even met someone is about the worst idea you can come up with.

Here is a clue, women DO NOT LIKE canned messages. They want to know that you are interested in them as a person. You message says nothing as to why you are interested in the person. What about their profile attracted you to them? What about their profile interested you? What about their profile makes you think the two of you have something in common to share.

BDSM is no different than courting a vanilla woman. Women want to be courted. So forget pre-written messages and go interact with a real person.

It may be a terrible message, but it was not pre-written. You are assuming, but you are new to the thread. Say it again and I will not be polite about it.

What about the profile? The "typical day". The emphasis on oral, watersports and sadism that made me think we were very compatible. Her skill for intellectual discourse. Wanting autonomy. I don't want a mindless slave who is rarely smarter than me. I want to learn from my partner. I want to admire her mind. Her drive to become educated was attractive to me.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 11:56:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VelvetPuppet

Yep. This entire thread has been a very graceful rant about being rejected.

It's been a rant about being judged, LIKE YOU'RE DOING RIGHT NOW. You are so fucking dense.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 12:41:01 PM   
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Eviscerate was not an invitation for judgement. It was just meant to encourage replies. This is ask a Master, not Extreme Humiliation & Degradation.


From yourdictionary.com

eviscerate
To remove the entrails of; disembowel.
To take away a vital or essential part of; weaken, damage, or destroy:

Nest time you might want to choose your words more carefully before soliciting others' opinions.


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It does irritate me when women delete my messages without reading them. I admit I think that is bullshit.


You do know that people can read the first few lines of a message without actually opening the message? That means that when you send a woman a message, she can read the message (or at least enough to know that she isn't interested) and delete it, and it will look like she deleted it without reading it.



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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 12:51:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul
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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83

Eviscerate was not an invitation for judgement. It was just meant to encourage replies. This is ask a Master, not Extreme Humiliation & Degradation.


From yourdictionary.com

eviscerate
To remove the entrails of; disembowel.
To take away a vital or essential part of; weaken, damage, or destroy:

Nest time you might want to choose your words more carefully before soliciting others' opinions.
I dont care what the official definition is, it was a metaphor. Continue to twist my words and you can forget your apology.

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It does irritate me when women delete my messages without reading them. I admit I think that is bullshit.


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You do know that people can read the first few lines of a message without actually opening the message? That means that when you send a woman a message, she can read the message (or at least enough to know that she isn't interested) and delete it, and it will look like she deleted it without reading it.
Mouse over? I use a touchscreen tablet. I did not know that.

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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 1:05:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul
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ORIGINAL: Spellbinder83

Eviscerate was not an invitation for judgement. It was just meant to encourage replies. This is ask a Master, not Extreme Humiliation & Degradation.


From yourdictionary.com

eviscerate
To remove the entrails of; disembowel.
To take away a vital or essential part of; weaken, damage, or destroy:

Nest time you might want to choose your words more carefully before soliciting others' opinions.
I dont care what the official definition is, it was a metaphor. Continue to twist my words and you can forget your apology.

If you can't acknowledge that you were wrong about something, without it being conditional upon later perceived events, then it isn't an apology.

At this point, I could care less. I know what I said, or in this case didn't say, and I stand by it.

Your posts speak for themselves. They should be enlightening to anyone who is considering letting you control them.


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RE: Terrible Message? - 12/24/2017 1:13:28 PM   
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<Waves to the folks from Spectators Only, No Participants.>

How are you folks doing? Are you enjoying the holiday season? I hope you're having fun with the show.

Oh, OP, you must be a little lost right about now. The above means that your thread has been 'spotted' from the people on another site who are laughing at this shite right now.



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