quote:The letter itself negates you as potential relationship material. The only thing you left out is how this stranger you wrote will make a good Stepford wife, shitting your babies out into the waiting arms of your cocksucking married Asian nurse.
You said you were "trying to be nice and make friends." You even seem sincere, a nice guy trying to interact within our forum framework and rules because you asked if "it within the rules to link one [profile]" in an attempt to explain the creepy context of your letter being written "to her profile." Those two things are why I am giving you a reply.
.......... Sincerely dude, to most readers, that letter just looks like some genuine stalker shit. You haven't met her or even talked to her once and you're already telling her "sure", we don't match but I will change you. TPE isn't for everyone and is a major point of mismatch conflict if you don't mesh. In your letter you didn't say one thing about why you liked her as a person. You only focused on your kink, your "expectations" and some bizarre stuff about a married Asian girl's service where you "just close my eyes and enjoy her serving me."
70 words telling them your expectations
122 words telling them what the relationship rule will be
97 words describing your weird married Asian nurse sex fantasy
You counted my words? Well now I know why you keep a creepy van handy.
In your replies, we have learned nothing specific about why you liked her.
This is long, so maybe you were typing when I did answer this question.
It is as if she doesn't matter, which is also the tone of your letter. She... the target of your letter, was inconsequential to your fantasy desires. Your letter is all about the kink, a fantasy... not the person you are perusing.
That is fair. The letter's tone can be perceived that way.
Whether you realize it or not, saying "... they sent an extremely submissive Asian girl. She has an intense desire to please and goes above and beyond, offering to do things" sounds sexual. And if this Asian wife isn't sucking your cock, it sounds like you fantasize about it.
That is judgemental as hell and not true. We are friends and I go out of my way to keep things platonic. She is excellent at her job and I don't want them to send one that isn't dependable. Calls for respecting her are laughable. You don't want to respect her. You just want to make me look bad. And in all this you make her an object in some fantasy. Every one of you who has suggested such a thing is despicable.
Sending a letter to someone you never met, telling them how your "search may be over"
Regret that part. Covered it already.
wank fantasy about your married Asian nurse
Over the line.
I'm pretty sure she knows nothing of BDSM but if she did you would owe her an apology. You gonna whore her out too? Fuck you are nasty.
After you get a tempered response explaining your letter was creepy (it truly is).
YOU ARE CREEPY. Look at all the different fantasies you came up with from a letter.
quote: I sent the PM BEFORE she made the post. I didn't send her another. So maybe this entire paragraph is WRONG?
You try to sway the the their opinion offering to PM a link to a profile. They ask you not to PM them. "no need to link it or send it in a personal message. I don't engage in discussions off the forums with people I don't know." 10 minutes later you ignored their request request and forced your message upon them anyway. Anyone else starting to see pattern here? Wow... can you set off anymore creepy stalker dude red flags?
Dude, the tantrum you threw in your replies, your insistence of imposing your fantasy on another, your lack of respect by imposing an unwanted PM on a forum member, the flounce, all make it seems like you have serious issues. This is apparent to all off us reading this. You are delusional if you think you "have control." Your actions show you have lost the struggle with your out of control emotions. Seriously, if you ever want to develop a relationship, you need to be relationship worthy. That means some inner growth is needed on your part.
From mistreatment, was relating (and I don't fantasize about her), Is an unprompted PM really so disrespectful? If it offends so much just delete it) I got one today and wasn't offended in the slightest; take the stick out of your ass, at least you taught me something useful - that flounce is a word.I am in control but that doesn't fit your narrative. So I'm "out-of-control". Use your cam and call me. I welcome you to call it if you think its a bluff. That goes for ANYONE. Not bluffing. Make a throwaway account. And you can PM me for contact info. Since permission for a silly PM is a big deal. I might be composing a message or in a call so be patient. I have kik, skype, google hangouts, telegram, and FB messenger. If I dont get a call, all of you saying I'm out of control have to leave the thread.
When you are emotionally strong enough to recognize that you have flaws and you're willing to grow, compensate and make changes in yourself, then you will be on the path to becoming relationship ready. But the emotional mess you are in now is so apparent, even the Internet can see it in what little you have written here.
If I accepted the opinion of people here, I'd never be deemed "ready" for a relationship. There would always be something wrong with me.
Yup... that was free advice telling someone else how to live. My bad indeed. Your life is the result of your choices. Hope you make good ones. Best wishes.
Your free "advice" is laughable and rings hollow. Half of it is made up sex fantasies you've tried to blame me for. At least the images were