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Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/8/2018 6:36:01 PM

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Interested to see what women think about initial contacts-and how there was immediate loss of respect from messages.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 6:37:36 AM

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There are probably just as many annoying things for us about kink males, as there are for men about kink females.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 6:59:36 AM

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Okay..I am post menopause and pre-morning coffee. I don’t think I am getting the question.

Are you asking for people to come in here and complain? specifically about men?

Aren’t guys having enough truble already?

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 7:04:08 AM

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What I'll say is probably stuff you've heard a hundred times before.

Top of the list has to be that it's obvious the person hasn't read my profile to begin with. For example, my profile says I have absolutely no interest in online BDSM, so when people message saying they want to "serve" on skype or they are from another country and they are propositioning me, I have to wonder about their intelligence level.

Anything about their kink or their penis that wouldn't be appropriate in the first fifteen minutes of conversation if it were being done face to face. I just consider that a lack of social skills.

Obvious wanker crap. That's any fantasist BS that anybody chooses to send. Why people think that a person who doesn't know them cares about their fantasies is beyond me.

My personal pet peeve is use of the word "clitty" by male submissives wanting to be feminized. It sounds completely moronic to me in ways that I can't even articulate.

ETA - I forgot one. Anybody doing that 'pathetic, lowly worm' stereotype from porn. Seriously, telling someone how worthless a person is really isn't a way to attract anyone.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 8:01:57 AM

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Yes male subs are some of the worst pests. They would probably hit on knot holes in fences if they had collarme profiles. So it always makes one feel so SPECIAL when one contacts you.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 8:47:04 AM

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Naked picture of any kind. Men younger or not local. Since I only roleplay a slave there is no way I will move just to have a kink partner. Mentioning he is well hung. That one was from a younger man who isn't local. Any mention of sex because there will be none. Younger men who must think I am desperate because of my age. Men who think they are gods gift to women.

Edited to add I have deleted most of my profile. Kept the not meeting so the age range local only etc is not there. When I had it filled out I had not meeting and all mail will be deleted unread. As women know it didn't stop some men from writing. Even those that viewed my profile before they wrote. Again and again read and wrote.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 8:49:16 AM

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Yes male subs are some of the worst pests. They would probably hit on knot holes in fences if they had collarme profiles. So it always makes one feel so SPECIAL when one contacts you.

Oh, it runs along the lines of roles, I'm sure. I've seen some real pieces of work from supposed male D-types as well. I'm sure it's not just males, either.

If you're ever up for a bit of a laugh about what people do send, there's a group over on the other site called Return to Sender, which is basically a bunch of examples of dumb things people get in mail. It's similar to the thread on this site, but people put up emails they get from here, Fet, and OKCupid, so it's a wider net.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 8:53:55 AM

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uh huh.

The "wannaslave" who finds herself in need to support and relocation-again. For like,the sixth time this year (It never works out!) Comes complete with Herpes.

Or mr master who read a Gor book,so now he's "all that." And the usual hen pecked cheats, hoping they can tear off a piece.

Definitely a source of ideas for humor tales.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 10:38:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Okay..I am post menopause and pre-morning coffee. I don’t think I am getting the question.

Are you asking for people to come in here and complain? specifically about men?

Aren’t guys having enough truble already?

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I think he’s looking to hone his own messages using our input for more successful results.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 10:47:33 AM

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Are the whole "do me sub" and "topping from the bottom" things considered one behaviour or two separate ones?

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 10:48:42 AM

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Two separate.

One has to put up with it.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 11:00:43 AM

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Thanks.
If I was bi curious, most of the crap I do would put me right off, to be fair.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 2:52:56 PM

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Interested to see what women think about initial contacts-and how there was immediate loss of respect from messages.

They keep fucking up and thinking I give even a tenth of a shit about there arousal or aesthetic opinion.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 9:40:49 PM

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Present yourself like a slut, get treated like a slut. Show some depth and get some thoughtful responses. Show neither expect for somebody to try and make an effort at figuring it out. Be aloof and get blown off or ignored. Some of this stuff is not hard to figure out.

Always going to have crazy responses in the inbox, that's a guarantee.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 9:47:25 PM

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FR
the ones that believe blowjobs are kinky

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/9/2018 11:08:30 PM

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The submissive men who keep asking me to dominate them, despite being a submissive myself. Humiliating people is not in my nature, but I feel nothing for them except utter contempt. I have no idea how the Domme's can stand them. I understand fully why women would want a tribute before even dealing with those men at all.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/10/2018 5:33:06 AM

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The pitiful male subs who are looking for a 'dominate' to take complete control of their life. If I'd wanted to do that, I'd have had padawans. No thanks! They will gladly 'pleasure' you for hours. Ewww! Usually offering nothing else. The minute they're informed there will be no sex, they're gone in a flash.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/10/2018 2:30:44 PM

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The pitiful male subs who are looking for a 'dominate' to take complete control of their life. If I'd wanted to do that, I'd have had padawans. No thanks! They will gladly 'pleasure' you for hours. Ewww! Usually offering nothing else. The minute they're informed there will be no sex, they're gone in a flash.

I hate logging in here when the first pics you see are of some lame dickhead, and his precious penis.

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/10/2018 2:47:25 PM

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The pitiful male subs who are looking for a 'dominate' to take complete control of their life. If I'd wanted to do that, I'd have had padawans. No thanks! They will gladly 'pleasure' you for hours. Ewww! Usually offering nothing else. The minute they're informed there will be no sex, they're gone in a flash.

I hate logging in here when the first pics you see are of some lame dickhead, and his precious penis.

the worst ones are the gaping assholes.
sometimes sans shit, but even so
ugh

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RE: Most annoying behaviors of kink males. - 1/10/2018 4:02:34 PM

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And yes,most of the same men think vanilla sex is kinky.

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