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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/28/2006 9:09:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: Connector

I find it humorous that all you so called dominant women cower at the mention of someone testing you versus immediately bowing down...a truly dominant person would easily take charge and handle the situation...time for a reality check big talkers!

Gee, another rape troll waving his little ego around from behind the pathetic duck blind of his safe little keyboard.

Imagine the shock.

Yeah, if the male doms on this board had to put up with this level of shite, either in person or in private, most of them wouldn't last a minute. And funny how the moderators are never around when these sickening little vermin show up to blather their rapespeak about "putting us in our place" and our "so-called dominance".

A whole lot of tiny little cocks and narrow little minds on this forum to be sure. And not a lot of authority exercised to keep them in their place, either. Small wonder they run amok like they own the joint.

Funny, though, how I never seem to hear this kind of bullshit at public events for the BDSM community. Gee, seems that even the wuff tuff boydoms get a whole lot less cocky when they're facing a real woman with a real whip in her hand. I wonder why.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/28/2006 9:13:56 PM

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I don't care what you have in your hand.

If you are intentionally using me or trying to destroy my life...I will show you the door.

Any self respecting sub shouldn't tolerate abuse.

That isn't "topping from the bottom"or "disobeying"...its protecting yourself from
overly sadistic people who really don't give a crap about you...but want to abuse or use you.

True submission should only come after total trust and deserved admiration and mutual understanding
of your prefered relationship archetype.

Too many people give away their own empowerment away without thinking it out first.

Being too eager can get you into trouble.

(This was my case in the past)

I would say you shouldn't submit to the whip unless you feel that both of you
will connect further on another level as a result of it.

< Message edited by sissifytoserve -- 10/28/2006 10:02:25 PM >

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/30/2006 11:41:58 PM

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I don't understand the point of pushing a dominant to punish you and then hoping that she isn't too harsh.

You're new, right? Look up topping from the bottom. Being bratty is not endearing to all dominants.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/31/2006 1:27:21 AM

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funny that coming from someone who likes to faceslap, you hope your sub wont push you to punish him yet you like face slapping seems a contradiction in terms dont you think

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/31/2006 4:14:32 AM

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face slapping doesn't have to be punishment.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/31/2006 5:21:17 AM

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i wish the person whom i directed the statement at would respond, no disrespect to the person who replied, they have a free right to say what they want when they want, but it would be much nicer if Lady Ounce actually responded to my statement and I got her thoughts on the matter, now rant over

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/31/2006 3:17:47 PM

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Missyrane has already said it for me but I don't see that as a punishment. Liking the sound of flesh on flesh, knowing a painslut's limits and enjoying to see the mark left by my hand does not have to be a punishment.

Also, there is a difference between having my hand forced to punish the bratty and correcting a submissive in a way that they'll remember.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/31/2006 3:18:53 PM

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Some of us have a life, children, jobs and business that keeps us from being on forum 24/7 but see, I am learning why I adore this forum. You truly do see a sub's true colours through this, don't you?

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 1:14:54 AM

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well excuse me i have a life outside this too you know

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 3:34:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: urjules

i personally think you mistresses, are a joke ..a nice sicillian slaps will put u in place...and smarten u upp

Some advice. Never start a fight with a woman - you cannot win. If you beat her, you get arrested and society shames you. If she beats you, you look a complete dickhead and society shames you.

E

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 3:37:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger

Nah..... I don't think they're that harsh...... I've found that once you make a lady mad at ya, the best way back into her heart is to take her shopping - Check their profiles, most all of them love to go shopping...and are experts at it.

- R

Hmmm. Could do with some clothes and stuff but dont want to pay for it. Any male subs with a credit card or two out there who'd like to be fun and adventurist?

E

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 4:02:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Morrigel

quote:

ORIGINAL: Connector

I find it humorous that all you so called dominant women cower at the mention of someone testing you versus immediately bowing down...a truly dominant person would easily take charge and handle the situation...time for a reality check big talkers!

Gee, another rape troll waving his little ego around from behind the pathetic duck blind of his safe little keyboard.

Imagine the shock.

Yeah, if the male doms on this board had to put up with this level of shite, either in person or in private, most of them wouldn't last a minute. And funny how the moderators are never around when these sickening little vermin show up to blather their rapespeak about "putting us in our place" and our "so-called dominance".

A whole lot of tiny little cocks and narrow little minds on this forum to be sure. And not a lot of authority exercised to keep them in their place, either. Small wonder they run amok like they own the joint.

Funny, though, how I never seem to hear this kind of bullshit at public events for the BDSM community. Gee, seems that even the wuff tuff boydoms get a whole lot less cocky when they're facing a real woman with a real whip in her hand. I wonder why.

--M

The easiest way to deal with them is to ignore them. Is that not the worst punishment?

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 4:57:49 AM

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I personally feel that if my sub doesn't follow my rules or plays games I feel that he's disrespecting Me. I don't like that bullcrap and personally if your doing it and it's a game to you, your really not ready for that kind of relationship but then again, it's up to Her to lace it to you from the get go.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 5:14:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

quote:

ORIGINAL: urjules

i personally think you mistresses, are a joke ..a nice sicillian slaps will put u in place...and smarten u upp

Some advice. Never start a fight with a woman - you cannot win. If you beat her, you get arrested and society shames you. If she beats you, you look a complete dickhead and society shames you.

E

Good one, Lady Ellen. I would like to add to that sicillian slap comment, you get DOUBLE on what you dish out. So come on, slap Me, make sure I'm down good cuz you'll be choking on your teeth, then looking like a dickhead while society shames you....hahahaha.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 5:40:57 AM

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whats all this shite about dominants threatening submissives and submissives threatening dominants excuse my french but is this not supposed to be a friendly group not a fucking we are going to beat the crap out of you idle threats group if you dare to take us on, wouldnt the dominants not be better off just saying if you assault me the police will be on your door step by meeting violence with violence your just stooping to the low life subs, and they are a minority who wish to engage dominants in a violent manner it just smacks of immaturity to me

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 5:53:28 AM

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But if the sub is new both to D/s and in the relationship, shouldn't there be a learning curve? I think it's common for someone who has only dreamed of a D/s relationship to find it more challenging than expected in real life. And certainly testing the D to be sure they will enforce their rules is part of that. On the flip side the D should be aware that the s having spent forty odd years doing things one way, will have difficulty breaking old habits and doing something in a different way.

I don't think that immediate dismissal is the answer, nor is expecting trained slave behavior right out of the box. Honest communication is preferred. "Why didn't you do x?" "I didn't know if you meant it, I wanted to see if you would notice and pay attention".

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 6:13:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

whats all this shite about dominants threatening submissives and submissives threatening dominants excuse my french but is this not supposed to be a friendly group not a fucking we are going to beat the crap out of you idle threats group if you dare to take us on, wouldnt the dominants not be better off just saying if you assault me the police will be on your door step by meeting violence with violence your just stooping to the low life subs, and they are a minority who wish to engage dominants in a violent manner it just smacks of immaturity to me

What ever in the world are you talking about?
Hi, can we have our hijacked thread back please?

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 6:42:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

whats all this shite about dominants threatening submissives and submissives threatening dominants excuse my french but is this not supposed to be a friendly group not a fucking we are going to beat the crap out of you idle threats group if you dare to take us on, wouldnt the dominants not be better off just saying if you assault me the police will be on your door step by meeting violence with violence your just stooping to the low life subs, and they are a minority who wish to engage dominants in a violent manner it just smacks of immaturity to me

Comments about "Sicilian slaps" or something, being of value to the ladies here, and consequent replies concerning the undesirability of such behaviour in terms of the response it would receive.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 6:50:44 AM

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I would rather not excuse you. I don't see a reason to. You have shown not even the common curtesy that one human being should show another. It's an open forum and any are welcome to respond to the posts of another as missyrane did. I did respond when I came on but don't remember one moment of demanding that you respond to me this moment as you did.

Even in text, tone of voice may be portrayed and yours isn't showing us anything but a bratty attitude.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 11/1/2006 8:52:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

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ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger

Nah..... I don't think they're that harsh...... I've found that once you make a lady mad at ya, the best way back into her heart is to take her shopping - Check their profiles, most all of them love to go shopping...and are experts at it.

- R

Hmmm. Could do with some clothes and stuff but dont want to pay for it. Any male subs with a credit card or two out there who'd like to be fun and adventurist?

E

Nah Lady E..... you got it all wrong. The key to a good woman is one who likes to shop, is thrifty, and spends her own money ; }

- R

< Message edited by UtopianRanger -- 11/1/2006 8:53:16 AM >

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