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RE: not obeying a mistress - 9/1/2006 1:35:31 AM

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when you say no one slaps you that s fine, i would not expect they would but what im saying is if a sub had a hard limit no face slapping, ie he did not want you to face slap him at all no matter what would you respect this and not cross this hard limit or make the sub unhappy by slapping him

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 9/1/2006 6:24:13 AM

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Well that's cause im fun and adventurist !!

Nah you just want to be punished. According to me a real sub/ slave does not want to disobey or question. Besides I feel the best punishment is a 'door walk' being walked to the door, having the domme open the door for you and feeling the door slam your butt when it shuts.

but that is only my 2 cents

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 9/1/2006 4:32:11 PM

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I'd have to agree about giving out punishment, should you decide to not obey your mistress. So yeah I'd punish you for refusing an order, as long as it doesn't interfer with health issues.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 9/4/2006 3:34:28 PM

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Mistress must be obeyed at all times

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 9/4/2006 8:17:21 PM

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Nah..... I don't think they're that harsh...... I've found that once you make a lady mad at ya, the best way back into her heart is to take her shopping - Check their profiles, most all of them love to go shopping...and are experts at it.

Hmmm....I detest shopping. Going into a mall is just pure torture for me. If you want to win my heart, don't take me anywhere close to a mall or shopping center.

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Well that's cause im fun and adventurist !!

I don't know about that, but I know one thing, if I found out or suspected that you were willfully disobeying me just to test me, your fun and adventure would be over. Do I think your Mistress would be harsh on you if you disobeyed? Only if she thought you wouldn't enjoy it <s> You being new has nothing to do with it. Your total lack of respect towards your Domina has everything to do with it, in my opinion.

Yup what she said. Play to me NEVER includes woo hoo I'm going to be naughty so I get spanked. I make it clear up front that I only reward positive behavior with attention. I have ways of making someone WISH that I'd just dismissed them for intentionally disobeying. There's one way...MINE only highway option does not include me again ever.
But hey thanks for telling all the Dommes that are worth having up front that you're a peckerwood willing to waste our time.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 9/4/2006 11:12:38 PM

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UtopianRanger = I like your simplistic response. It's cute, direct, light and oh so true!

Personally, I don't like bratty subs, they are not true subs in my eyes. I like real subs, not bottom toppers.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 9/5/2006 4:09:11 AM

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i'm not a Mistress but i feel the need to answer this one. i am a slave.

bottom line for me is this....if you don't want to obey, you don't want to be her submissive. move along. don't waste your time or hers. submission comes from your heart. it is a choice. if you don't want to obey, she is not the Mistress for you. you will know when it happens. you will want to obey her. you will need to. you will want to please her with all of your heart. you will crave her approval and her happiness. the simple words "good boy/girl" will be music to your ears and make your soul soar.

if you don't want to obey, be gone.

M's m

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 9/5/2006 4:30:50 AM

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I think Hercuckslave has made as perfect an answer as could be found. Well said!! That goes for any slave truly seeking to please a Master or Mistress.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 9/5/2006 3:24:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: tiger182

So I am a new submissive

and I don't want to obey her rules (just for a few seconds)

Knowing that I am new Im guessing she would not be as hard on me right?!

She might just dismiss you, it wouldn't be hard at all....

Nah..... I don't think they're that harsh...... I've found that once you make a lady mad at ya, the best way back into her heart is to take her shopping - Check their profiles, most all of them love to go shopping...and are experts at it.

- R

Good so you take her shopping if you get the chance and then she dismisses you...lol...wouldn't that be a surprise to you. I would rather shop for myself by myself than to deal with insolence out of a sub new or not, he'd not be able to cross that bridge more than once with me.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 9/6/2006 5:14:29 AM

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I would think she would beat you harder because you are new. I feel that she wants you to understand not to push her limits from the start. I would always want to obey my Mistress. Until I have to know her, I guess I would be a little afraid of her. There can always be fun times together but disobeying her is not one of them.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/1/2006 7:29:27 AM

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Why don't you try it, then get back to us

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/1/2006 9:51:35 AM

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Being resistant at the outset of a newly established relationship is a surefire way to get dismissed from MY service.

Resistance to obedience indicates insincerity, or worse, a 'bad boy' who will push buttons to get what he wants: namely, punishment.

I can't stand 'bad boys'. Waste of time and energy.

If you're a painslut and crave a good whipping, be man enough to state your case and beg for a whipping.

Painsluts, I adore.

Resistant bad boys never see Me again.

Yes, some of Us ARE that harsh.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/28/2006 12:12:00 PM

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I truly believe that if a sub crosses limits that I have every right to,but know this,they only do it once,then they find them selves begging to have the chance to be right again. I think nothing of sending a sub to his car in a nitie with lipstick on and clothes in hand,nothing else! But then I'm not one for a whole lot of talk about limits anyway,I set them according to the situation.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/28/2006 1:06:54 PM

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Yes, I think hercuckslave has summed it up. Well said.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/28/2006 1:59:42 PM

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Well that's cause im fun and adventurist !!

No.. You'd be considered stupid by my standards. I'd be putting you on "ignore" in RT. Cutesy doesn't fly. You attitude shows a real lack of comprehension about the D/s dynamic.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/28/2006 6:16:14 PM

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Oh, I love shopping; especially for books, jewelry, boots, and toys. But I'd still dump your butt.

No time or inclination for BS, insubordination is NOT humor.

Mistress RENA

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/28/2006 7:25:32 PM

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Hmmm....I detest shopping. Going into a mall is just pure torture for me. If you want to win my heart, don't take me anywhere close to a mall or shopping center.

Go figure, i finally meet a Mistress who feel as i do about shopping, and she's in a different state.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/28/2006 7:39:58 PM

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You set your submissive's limits for them?

i've never heard that one before...interesting.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/28/2006 8:55:08 PM

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I find it humorous that all you so called dominant women cower at the mention of someone testing you versus immediately bowing down...a truly dominant person would easily take charge and handle the situation...time for a reality check big talkers!

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 10/28/2006 9:06:37 PM

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There is only one way EVER..I will submit.

Total TRUST.

Period.

If I believe for one second that someone is just using me or trying to do me in...

I'm out.

Been there done that.

< Message edited by sissifytoserve -- 10/28/2006 9:08:15 PM >

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