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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/30/2006 5:33:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: tiger182

So I am a new submissive

and I don't want to obey her rules (just for a few seconds)

Knowing that I am new Im guessing she would not be as hard on me right?!

I wouldn't count on it. Personally, if someone is new and starts acting up, I am more likely to just get rid of him, as I don't have a very big emotional investment in him yet. I wouldn't have had a chance to learn of his endearing traits and would probably figure he wasn't worth My time.

I know of other Mistresses who are actually more strict with new submissives, as they are laying the groundwork and want to get the rules clearly established right off the bat. On the other hand, I know of other Dommes who are more understanding of someone new and will cut them a little slack.

Without knowing Her, I couldn't really say for sure, but if you value the relationship, I would vote in favor of obeying Her. If it were Me, a newbie would most likely be out the door with willfully disobedient behavior.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/30/2006 6:00:45 PM

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what if the twat was just hungry and attention seeking hehehe. sorry lame joke.

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Been said already, but I personally don't enjoy brats or SAM's either, for that matter. If you think your time is better spent eluding, avoiding or ignoring what I am trying to teach you and train you for, I'd question *Myself* why I have you in My service, and dismiss accordingly.

If you are intrigued with the possibilities of 'what if' in terms of manipulating the punishment, physical or otherwise, that you secretly desire, I'd grant your wish in a similar manner and offer you My best punishment for an attention-seeking, manipulative twit: dismissal.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/30/2006 7:52:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

what if the twat was just hungry and attention seeking hehehe. sorry lame joke.
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ORIGINAL: MistressTheaZ

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Been said already, but I personally don't enjoy brats or SAM's either, for that matter. If you think your time is better spent eluding, avoiding or ignoring what I am trying to teach you and train you for, I'd question *Myself* why I have you in My service, and dismiss accordingly.

If you are intrigued with the possibilities of 'what if' in terms of manipulating the punishment, physical or otherwise, that you secretly desire, I'd grant your wish in a similar manner and offer you My best punishment for an attention-seeking, manipulative twit: dismissal.

~Thea

Twat or twit, no matter. Dismissed!

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/30/2006 7:56:05 PM

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those of us that aren't owned can get away with alot...LOL

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 6:06:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

those of us that aren't owned can get away with alot...LOL

How's that working for you?

I find the best course of action if one wants to be owned is behave as if one was - i.e. showing the Dommes out there what you can be like if they bring you into their lives, what benefit you might be.

If on the other hand, you play up and misbehave because hey why not....then why would that attract positive attention?

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 6:08:22 AM

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mostly because...it's fun...maybe...LOL

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 11:10:11 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tiger182

So I am a new submissive

and I don't want to obey her rules (just for a few seconds)

Knowing that I am new Im guessing she would not be as hard on me right?!

wrong.........it would be.......bye bye

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 11:12:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: urjules

i personally think you mistresses, are a joke ..a nice sicillian slaps will put u in place...and smarten u upp

For some reason this brings to mind a famous movie quote "make my day"

must be the mood I am in

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 11:31:26 AM

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I'm sorry did you say you were sub? Seems your missing the whole point of being sub. If I had any Domme tendancies and you were mine I would give you a beating to remember and you wouldnt sit for a week but hey I'm a bitch

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 11:38:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: urjules

i personally think you mistresses, are a joke ..a nice sicillian slaps will put u in place...and smarten u upp

lol ok this is a submissive yes yes

but erm..LOL
and next question..what on EARTH makes you say this?

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 12:41:18 PM

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Urjules,

Then what the hell are you doing in this lifestyle and wanting to be a sub too? Do you think that only men can be dominants? Or are you really a masochist to the bone and want a good spanking????

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 12:45:13 PM

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Sorry honey no one slaps me if they do they get a punch in the mouth and a kick in the balls.

I have no problem hurting someone to protect myself so you might want to think about that before you raise your hand to a woman, she might just put you in your place...in a heap on the ground.

Have a nice day!

~Lashra

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 12:51:51 PM

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And when I say playful for example I mean taking my crop and running across the room and then handing it to me when I hold my hand out..playful yet obedient. With the right timing it keeps things in my view fun, BUT if your disobeying rules she's laid out thats a totally different matter.

You have to obey the rules and thats all there is to it or you will end up looking for a new Domme. No one wants a disobedient brat that they have to correct over and over like a small child.

My sub is playful and so am I, but when it comes down to it he obeys or he KNOWS there will be consquences and he doesn't want to go there. Some Domme's do not like playfulness they are all seriousness and that is a personality trait that you will have to decide if you can deal with or not.

~Lashra

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 1:00:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: urjules

i personally think you mistresses, are a joke ..a nice sicillian slaps will put u in place...and smarten u upp

What do YOU submit to..your own hand?

(I can tell they are just beating down the door for your submission.)

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 1:11:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: tiger182

Well that's cause im fun and adventurist !!

that's just a brat and they are a dime a dozen looking for punishment so they Top from the bottom... so I would say BYE and dismiss you...

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 1:15:14 PM

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I generally establish with a new dom whether they are into willing submission or "take down" type scenes. I enjoy both but I wouldn't try resistance unless I knew my partner liked to play that way.

I disagree with the people here saying there's no place at all for willful disobedience. It has its place, either with two people who enjoy that kind of play OR in a long term relationship where you have some established attachment to draw on. With my Dom over time, sometimes I forget my place and lose my sense of subiness. I can remind HIM to remind ME who is boss by acting up a bit. But I already know he is okay with that, and knows what message I am trying to send when I do that.

In my experience, women tops are less likely to have a sense of humor around this. Ditto new tops. Ditto new RELATIONSHIPS. So maybe drop it for a while?

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 2:51:32 PM

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With an attitude like that you have displayed here, you wouldn't last a day with me, if you even managed to make it that far. Sounds like you're more of a game player than a submissive: "Oh, gee, I think I'll be submissive this week." Yick.

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ORIGINAL: tiger182

Well that's cause im fun and adventurist !!

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 2:53:47 PM

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Yes, really. Funny thing, one of the fringe benefits of discovering that I was Dominant was finding out that my Inner Child was actually an Inner Rottweiler <evil laugh>

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quote:

ORIGINAL: urjules

i personally think you mistresses, are a joke ..a nice sicillian slaps will put u in place...and smarten u upp

For some reason this brings to mind a famous movie quote "make my day"

must be the mood I am in

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 3:15:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: urjules

i personally think you mistresses, are a joke ..a nice sicillian slaps will put u in place...and smarten u upp

lol ok this is a submissive yes yes but erm..LOL
and next question..what on EARTH makes you say this?

Ignore it....it will go away eventually when it finds that it gets no validation here.

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RE: not obeying a mistress - 8/31/2006 4:15:46 PM

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yipyip..and I thought I was bad

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