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RE: Who taught You about Bdsm? - 9/8/2006 3:47:45 AM

zero69u2

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I joined the Army at 17 and It was always a fantasy to dominant a (SSG) who had been giving me orders all day. I'd been sweating all day hanging camoflage and digging foxholes and playing war games in the field. Had fantasys i did'nt act on..with SSG but did get into some playful kink games with another PFC. I think that's where the Drill Instructor fantasys and Interrogation fantasys came from. was always into sex games but not really a SM'er. More into Bondage, Control and RolePlay.

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RE: Who taught You about Bdsm? - 9/8/2006 3:55:13 AM

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When i was in my early 20's, we had a service here called Telepersonals (I believe it has now migrated into lavalife). On there, i found someone to go club hopping with. Well.. what i didn't realize was that He enjoyed clubs like the Lizard Lounge (where the fet parties were). He ended up being my first Sir.. and i discovered my need for Dominance, with Him.

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RE: Who taught You about Bdsm? - 9/8/2006 4:58:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: knees2you

Ok just sitting wondering,
Who taught You about Bdsm,
and when did You fully embrace it?

I was raised by a man who by nature was very dominate. I relized very young what he saw the "pecking" order to be. Once I started dating I relized that I got bored with weak men and when I started exploring my bi-sexuality I relized that I was very dominate over other women. Although at the time I didn't put a label on it.

It wasn't until I was set up on a blind date with a man years later. After going out a few times, he and I began a discussion about my "nature" that was the first time I was exposed to the labels of the lifestyle and soon after I was exposed to what I consider the formalities of the lifestyle.

Being submissive towards a strong man or dominate to a strong woman isn't a lifestyle to me, for me it was always simply who and how I was. He simply showed me a world that was built around the needs, wants, and desires of someone like myself. The more I became involved in lifestyle groups and D/s relationships the more my life seemed to fit, the more I explored my sexuality and what turned me on and off, the more I felt at peace within myself and within the relationships I involve myself in.

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RE: Who taught You about Bdsm? - 9/8/2006 6:28:44 AM

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I was in college and went with a roomate to a munch. I had no idea what it was. I met a dominant there that mentored me and eventually after a year became my Master.

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