raiken
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar A question for the women. Your meeting your Dom/Domme for the first time. Do you let them tell you what to wear for the meeting? Being told what to wear changes my personal expression. Who ever i meet needs to know who i am FIRST, as a person, before they immediately set to task of making me fit into their mold, and dressing me according to their tastes. i am leary of those who make changes on the first meeting. It makes me question just how interested they are in knowing me, the person. Hec, they may find they like the way i dress and wouldn't want to change a thing. But neither of us would know that if he only saw me dressed according to who he wants me to be or become for him, or as his plaything, whatever. It is different if there is an established trust, and this may turn into something more on the first meet, or if both had agreed on this. i believe that for the first meeting, one should come as they are, to meet as people first. Personal expression through outward adornment is important when getting to know a person. You really have to go by what your gut tells you, and the nature of your connection with the dominant.
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