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RE: Your Dom's Name - 11/5/2006 10:59:34 PM

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Let me get this straight.

You've been a member for nearly two years now, and have never said a thing.

And you use your very first post to make the unprompted announcement that you want to be collared? As opposed to ... like every other sub male??? Grab a number.

You know, adults were talking in here before you interrupted.

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ORIGINAL: fisheyewood

wants to be collared

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 11/5/2006 11:02:51 PM

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I call my houseboy "hun" or "honeybun" or "cutiepie", and he in turn calls me whatever takes his fancy. He and I are more vanilla than not. The rest of my boys call me "my Lady", or in the case of one bratboy, "LadySeraphinaMa'am", all in one breath.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 11/5/2006 11:15:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Let me get this straight.

You've been a member for nearly two years now, and have never said a thing.

And you use your very first post to make the unprompted announcement that you want to be collared? As opposed to ... like every other sub male??? Grab a number.

You know, adults were talking in here before you interrupted.

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ORIGINAL: fisheyewood

wants to be collared

OMG. I almost peed my pants!

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 9:15:24 AM

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It would depend on who the master was, depending of where we were and situation. At home always sir unless out of role.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 9:19:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: LeatherStud

It would depend on who the master was, depending of where we were and situation. At home always sir unless out of role.

Out of role? There goes the concept of "true" and "natural" right out the window.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 9:36:45 AM

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rarely do i use Daddy's real name however if He calls me and i'm out in public, i proudly say "Daddy" into my moblile. it's funny to see the bewildered stares i get on the train/bus from the vanillas. Even if we were to go out in public, i'll still call Him "Daddy"

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 10:13:44 AM

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I hadn't really thought about it on a grand scale, but using His given name has always made me uncomfortable. It might have something to do with His having the same name as my father... I dunno. Then again, the most common thing I call Him is 'Daddy', so who knows what fucked up freudian things are happening there! 'Daddy' works at home, with spawnlings present because it's what they call Him, and out, too, because said spawnlings are usually with us.

In order of appearance:

1. Daddy
2. Hon
3. Honey Bear
4. Sir
5. Master (usually reserved for as a 'grounding' effect when a verbal reminder is in order)
6. A myriad of other endearments

A friend of mine has taken to calling Him 'Rooster'. I can't remember where it came from now, but I tell Him it's because He's 'The Cock of the Walk'.

Edited to add: I asked if I could call Him 'woogie', but for some reason He said no. Go figure. Woogie. Loved that one!

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 12:24:41 PM

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i have never in a year and a half, called him by name. i think of him by name occasionally, and even that feels weird.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 12:44:55 PM

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Whatever works at the time. I like being able to read each other knowing when using something more formal like Sir is desired and when it doesn't matter. Sometimes I get a little too casual and that is corrected appropriately when it happens. It's almost always appropriate to answer a command with a Yes Sir/No Sir. But if he's about to get hit by a car, "WATCH OUT, SIR!" is just not what's going to naturally come out of my mouth.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 1:19:34 PM

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I never have. Shortly after W/we started regular communication, I just started calling Him Master without Him actually telling me to. For some reason, I felt a need and compulsion to start referring to Him as Master. It's been this way since, and haven't been told different, before and after being claimd as His.
I would feel very uncomfortable and don't think I could get used to calling Master, Master Dave. To me, He is Master plain and simple.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 1:51:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: junecleaver

Whatever works at the time. I like being able to read each other knowing when using something more formal like Sir is desired and when it doesn't matter. Sometimes I get a little too casual and that is corrected appropriately when it happens. It's almost always appropriate to answer a command with a Yes Sir/No Sir. But if he's about to get hit by a car, "WATCH OUT, SIR!" is just not what's going to naturally come out of my mouth.

Funny, but for me, "Watch out, Sir!" is exactly what would come out of my mouth. I think of Him as Sir primarily and have to take a beat to introduce Him or refer to Him by name. I try to avoid having to use any title or name in public, but this weekend He has told me to call Him "Baby" when we are out with vanilla friends. This will be a challenge for me, but I will adapt.

I have slipped many times and called Him "Sir" in front of friends and unmentionables. I find people only see and hear what they want to.

On occasion, I have called Him Daddy, but only in context- it is not the usual appellation.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 2:04:22 PM

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I refer to my husband/Dom by his given name at all times. I have not found a "pet" name that fits him properly (and after 3 years I don't think I ever will) and for me, Master/Sir/M'Lord etc are all odd and uncomfortable. He feels the same way about the titles.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 2:43:28 PM

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I have a Dom; for me, his name is Sir.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 8:41:17 PM

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When I'm addressing Him it's usually Daddy or Honey. If I am talking about Him to lifestylers it's Michael or Master usually... Daddy if they are a close friend.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 8:58:24 PM

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I use His given name, or Master, sometimes both. We were friends for many years before He became my Master, though, so I am quite comfortable using his given name. I called a previous master Sir, by his given name and also by a silly nickname everyone uses for him. I'm comfortable with it all. Really, it depends on social situations and the master's preferences.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 9:05:07 PM

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If I am mad at him I call him by his first, middle and last name. On a daily basis I call him Daddy. When I am in trouble or he is just not having my oh so adorable spunkiness, he makes me call him Sir. If I am in deep do do, it is required I refer to him as Master. But I also call him my lovebug too :)

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 9:55:33 PM

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I can refer to Master by His given name, but when I speak to Him, it is always Sir or Master. And yes, I've slipped and called Him Master in public, but I've been able to 'cover' it by giggling.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 10:00:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared

When you are talking to Him/Her, do you ever refer to them by their name? Does that just FEEL wrong to you, or are you comfy with it?

i have never called my Master by anything other than "Master" and "Sir", except when introducing Him to "civilians" (not in our small circle of BDSM-types). i do feel weird when using His given name, even when it is appropriate to do so. It just is hard for me to say His actual name and i always call Him "Sir" when i am speaking to Him, no matter where we are or who else is there. i just don't use "Master" around others.. Maybe, if i had known Him prior to becoming His slave and had called Him by His given name previously, it might not feel wrong to me, but that wasn't the case. He has just always been Master to me.

Also, Master renamed me joy from my given name, which still is hard for me to say, even though it is my middle name. i just went by my first name for so many years that i still use it 98% of the time, except when speaking with my Master. But, when anyone else asks me my name, i almost never say "joy" and when i hear my Master refer to me as "joy" to other people, it sounds a little weird to me.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/23/2007 11:12:21 PM

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For me personally when first approached by Master all our exchanges were online he called me by my given name. I used his given name or Hun then even during our first meeting.
He decided on our second meeting when it was agreed I was to be instructed/trained to give me a name asking if I minded,which of course I did not.
He told me at a future meeting he was going to decide if I was to call Him Sir or Master. When we meet that time He said I was to call Him Master as he felt there was something within me that may have a problem using Sir. How well he he had been able to look into my soul and sense that long buried memory which even I had forgotten regarding the title of Sir.
At the end of that meeting as he was pleased with my progress and He decided that the first name wasn't quite right so choose this name for me.

I never use his personal name unless speaking about him with people outside of the scene for which I have His permission to do so. There are times when on the phone I forget and still call him Hun but realise my error and then revert back to Master.

There are certain people I know from the 'swinging scene' which is where Master found me who know I have a Dom and in training. Master has allowed me to refer to him by this term as many would have difficulty understanding any other term.

There are times when He contacts me by phone and due to me being with vanilla friends am not able to use Master. He understands this however I feel awkward not calling him Master.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 1/24/2007 1:39:32 AM

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I call Sir alot of names. Honey, Baby, Sweetie, Asshole, Fucker, his name and of course Sir. I never call him Master as he doesn't believe he is one. Among lifestylers, it's always Sir, I would never want anyone to think I was disrespecting him by any of the other names I use. I'm allowed the more graphic ones when we are playing around which is often. Of course there are names just as graphic if not more so for me. So it works.

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