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ownedandcollared -> Your Dom's Name (9/24/2006 10:46:16 PM)
When you are talking to Him/Her, do you ever refer to them by their name? Does that just FEEL wrong to you, or are you comfy with it?

diamonddreamlove -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/24/2006 11:03:12 PM)
I call Him by His name whenever we are in public. When in private He is sweety or Sir and even honey. But at a public play He is always Sir.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/24/2006 11:05:33 PM)
He is Master. I never call him by name.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/24/2006 11:11:17 PM)
Answering for him since he doesnt post... Angel refers to me by my first name most of the time, with permission. When we are in private, its usualy Maam and when we play its Maam or Goddess. Maam slips out in public on occasion, but being southern, he plays it off well enough that no one has raised an eyebrow yet. DV owner of LoverForDomme

Rayne58 -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/24/2006 11:16:25 PM)
When we're playing, it's Master. At home, it's sweetheart, or my love. In public I use His name. Any one of those feels perfectly right to me! [:D]

perverseangelic -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/24/2006 11:47:12 PM)
Lovey, Woogie, Baby, Honey, Monkey, Boyfriend, among a bunch of other things. His first name sometime. I think I could count on both hands the times I've called him "Master." Sir happens with a little more frequency, but not much. Titles just aren't our thing. ~shrug~

Owned1 -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/24/2006 11:50:59 PM)
In vanilla public it is his name, in private it is Sir, and if I really want something it is ~ oh soo sweetly~ MasterLordDomKingofmyWorld........[;)] Owned

Littlepita -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 4:21:13 AM)
I call him Sir or Daddy. Occassionally I call him by his name in public and I refer to him as my boyfriend in public.

gypsylee -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 4:45:24 AM)
i call mine "Narky Muthafukkah". He calls me "boobookittyfuck". it doesn't go down all that well sometimes... i dunno.. Doms, they're sooo touchy! [sm=boohoo.gif]

Arastella -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 4:52:04 AM)
I refer to Her as Mistress Solerno, or just Ma'am. So both works, but if I say her name I do not say it without a proper title in front of it.

deltadawn -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 5:01:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared When you are talking to Him/Her, do you ever refer to them by their name? Does that just FEEL wrong to you, or are you comfy with it? i call him by his name most of the time. There are unmentionables here and a host of business associates around frequently. i am very comfortable using it. When he has that look of authority in his face, it is always Sir. When we are in our own private spot he is Master. No matter which name i call him, which title i use, he is always the one in charge. dawn

amor -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 5:18:53 AM)
In public, it's Will...in private, it's Master, or hon, or bugaloo bear -laughs-

yaqeta -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 5:44:49 AM)
I rarely say my Master's name, and I don't think I ever have in his presence. When I speak to him, its always Sir - in public, I murmur it quietly, lol. When I refer to him in conversation with people who know about his role I call him Master. To those who don't, his name, but it always feels very awkward for me to say it so I don't talk about him much, lol.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 6:26:23 AM)
We do whatever works. We have pet names for eachother and we use our own names. I also call him "Captain" far more often than "Master" because it's what works for us. As long as you're following the protocol they set, it doesn't matter. I can say I've known a few stubborn subs who got annoyed when their dom did NOT want them to call them sir or master all the time.

OhReallyNow -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 6:40:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared When you are talking to Him/Her, do you ever refer to them by their name? Does that just FEEL wrong to you, or are you comfy with it? *this slave always refers to her owner as Master*

thisishis -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 7:22:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared When you are talking to Him/Her, do you ever refer to them by their name? Does that just FEEL wrong to you, or are you comfy with it? When He and i had first met it was with the intent to determine whether we would be a 'good match' as Owner and slave. For that reason, i was not comfortable with calling Him by name, yet was not immediately certain that He should be called Master. Referring to Him as Master is reserved for His ears only. When i speak 'of Him' when speaking with others, i use His given name. He is more than just 'His given name' to me, and is worthy of a more respectful and distinctive title, and one which is reserved for Him only. His given name is far too common a title, coming from me. Calling Him by His given name, when speaking with Him, feels unnatural and forced and anything but comfortable for me. i figured out quickly enough, a few methods for addressing Him and calling upon His attention when i needed to speak with Him (without calling Him by either). There was one time when He was in another room and i needed His attention immediately and could not join Him in that room. i called out to Him by His given name. That was all He needed to hear in order to understand that something of an 'emergency type level' was happening. Just yesterday, Master and i were at a function which required Him to have His back to me during most of the event. We were in the middle of a very large and extremely noisy group of people. There was something which i needed to bring to His attention. As it was not an emergency, i didn't feel that it would be appropriate to call Him by His given name. So i took a deep breath and screamed out a very loud, "HELLOOOOOOO?!!!!!??!". Worked wonders. i was successful in alerting Him without giving the impression of 'possible emergency' status.

juliaoceania -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 7:54:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared When you are talking to Him/Her, do you ever refer to them by their name? Does that just FEEL wrong to you, or are you comfy with it? Increasingly I call him Daddy. I do it so much that I have told my son and my mother that is the term of endearment I use for him. They looked at me like I was somewhat odd, but what the hell..Im not hurting anyone. My family is pretty relaxed about such things. I can call him by his given name, but I usually don't. It does not feel "wrong", but it is a bit like calling a parent by their first name, just a little uncomfortable. It is why I am glad I do not call him "master" I would screw up and call him that in the wrong place.. that would be no good...lol. "Daddy" is pretty innocuous, and people do not even glance our way when I call him that.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 8:11:25 AM)
Having someone outside of work and biofamily call me by my given name rather than Fire is simply odd for me. Sometimes, I understand that it's easier to use a more common name than Fire, but when they use it in a conversation in way that denotes they are trying to be serious/emotionally intimate, it takes me back. It's almost as if they are saying that Fire is a personna and not really me. But, that's my stuff. I can either deal with it or express my desire to be called Fire. I'm in the process of changing my given name, but I chose to not use Fire...so, it must not bug me enough for me to insist. As for my slaves, I prefer Ma'am at all times. However, I know that there really are instances when that's not appropriate. It bothers me, but I deal with it. Master Fire

windy135 -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 8:18:48 AM)
I call him by his name. I know when he is looking for me to address him by another name so then I will call him Sir.

ownedandcollared -> RE: Your Dom's Name (9/25/2006 8:20:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: perverseangelic Lovey, Woogie, Baby, Honey, Monkey, Boyfriend, among a bunch of other things. His first name sometime. I think I could count on both hands the times I've called him "Master." Sir happens with a little more frequency, but not much. Titles just aren't our thing. ~shrug~ You call Your Master "Monkey"?

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