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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/1/2006 12:45:50 PM

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Hmm it seems my post didn;t go through the other day so here I go typing it up again.

I'm allowed to call my Lady by her name Kat because she thinks most titles look nice typed but just sound silly in everyday conversation. Sometimes when she tells me to do something I will reply with a yes Ma'am but that's pretty standard for me anyway. I wouldn't call he Ma'am any other time because She feels it makes our age difference stand out more (She's 11 years my senior)
And oh my yes we do have nickname's She is very much a badger and She has a good bit of freckles so I call Her my 'rare freckled badger' and I'm her 'whatever my hair colour is at the time' crested canine. Yes pretty ridiculous so sue U/us. for the most part on forums and online I refer to my Domme as my Lady. I knew her before we started dating and I became her pet so there is that dynamic as well. Oh and of course She most often refers to me as pet.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/1/2006 1:44:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
Increasingly I call him Daddy. I do it so much that I have told my son and my mother that is the term of endearment I use for him. They looked at me like I was somewhat odd, but what the hell..Im not hurting anyone. My family is pretty relaxed about such things.

I can call him by his given name, but I usually don't. It does not feel "wrong", but it is a bit like calling a parent by their first name, just a little uncomfortable. It is why I am glad I do not call him "master" I would screw up and call him that in the wrong place.. that would be no good...lol. "Daddy" is pretty innocuous, and people do not even glance our way when I call him that.

Actually, in Hispanic cultures, especially where machismo is prevalent, husbands and wives frequently refer to each other a Daddy and little mommy. *she giggles* i've known so many older, hispanic couples where the wife will call her husband Papi, and he will call her mamacista (sp?). So yeah, i think it's acceptable and cute in public...a lot depends on how you say it...if it's comfortable and second nature, people usually don't take it in a bad way...only when they can detect something odd or embarassed in it.

To the OP, i almost always call my Miss exactly that...Miss. In public, i might speak it low, but we're so attuned, that we can talk with body language. She doesn't have to hear it, to know that i'm calling Her name.

We also have a daughter, and there was jealousy over who got to be mommy for a while, so we both have names with our little one. i'm kittymommy, and She's Miss Dragonmommy. So, if we ever have problems, i can veil it away with that explanation...but you know, we've never had problems. If i ever do speak just Her name, it's always with extreme respect. ^^

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/1/2006 2:32:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

He is Master. I never call him by name.

same here, He is Master in every sense of the word, private and public

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/8/2006 9:07:41 AM

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Publicly: sometimes I call Him by His name, sometimes I just call Him Daddy, or for fun... Big Daddy

Privately: Daddy, Master, Sir

Among lifestylers: Daddy

Among nilla friends: His given name, or sometimes Big Daddy (most of them laugh when I say that because they think it is because He is a wall of a man - tall, solid...)

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/8/2006 9:32:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared

When you are talking to Him/Her, do you ever refer to them by their name? Does that just FEEL wrong to you, or are you comfy with it?

Hmm, I know what he would like for me to call him, but I am still fighting it in myself. So, usually I use his first name.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/8/2006 9:40:49 AM

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I will call my Dom by his name a lot of the time, Initially I was not allowed to call him Sir, basically because it is something that came so naturally to me and he wanted to see if i could go against it so to speak (ione of the hardest things I've had to learn fast, just felt so...so damn unnatural) Slipped up a fair few times.
Now I am allowed to call Him Sir or call him by his name so I tend to use whats appropriate for the time/place/occasion.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/8/2006 11:23:42 AM

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i refer to my Master as Master, iv never called him by his first name the thought had never occured to me, lately since i spent so long away from him iv started to call him babe but i often correct myself before he says wether he apporves or not

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 3:01:58 AM

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This slave has found that when addressing a MASTER in person it's always either MASTER or SIR - if HE chooses to let slave add HIS name to that, slave should feel honored to be granted the privilege of saying its MASTER's name.

As you have noticed, when referring to HIM while typing slave always uses all caps as a sign of respect. This slave has done that for years, first because it was told to by a few that it talked to online but then just automatically did so when talking with any MASTER or for that matter when referring to HIM in a journal.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 5:18:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared

When you are talking to Him/Her, do you ever refer to them by their name? Does that just FEEL wrong to you, or are you comfy with it?

i am never to refer to Him by name...i'm sure He'd choke me senseless if i ever did. regardless of where we are or who we are around, He is Daddy/Dad, or occasionally Master. even when others may ask me His name, i say only the first initial, or i just say, "He'll tell you"...saves the complications.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 5:35:07 AM

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What would you do if HE gave you permission to use HIS name after HIS itle of respect or in certain situations?

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 6:53:32 AM

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in public this girl refers to Him as Sir, in private and around people in the "know" it is Master. on occassion, to this girl's mother, she will call Him by name, just because it bothers mom to hear her daughter call Him Master all the time, but mom is the only one this girl will use His given name with and she never does it when He is there, at those times she will call Him Sir or Master.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 7:05:23 AM

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You did good on the spelling thing, close. But for my two cents' worth from my study of Spanish, its "mami" for little mama, and "mamicita" for well..a sexy woman. I like it too, I think's its ragingly sexy.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 7:29:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: slave4MASTER71

What would you do if HE gave you permission to use HIS name after HIS itle of respect or in certain situations?

if He simply gave me permission to use His name, i probably still would never use it, just because it would be so unnatural and wrong-sounding. however if He ordered me to use His name, that would be a different story...obviously i'd have to do it.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 5:12:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared

When you are talking to Him/Her, do you ever refer to them by their name? Does that just FEEL wrong to you, or are you comfy with it?

"Beula", but if I'm feeling overly affectionate..."One who knows where my pot is hidden".

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 6:56:01 PM

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I call Him by his given name. It is very comfortable for both of us. I know when calling Him Sir is the appropriate form of address, and if I happen to miss one of those times, I quickly realize it by the tone of His voice. We also have endearments for each other.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 9:16:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: krys

I refer to him by what is most appropriate at the time. Master, his name or, when Im really lucky, "Oh god, oh God, Oh God!!!!" I am comfortable with all of them.

*giggles*

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 9:22:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: slave4MASTER71

This slave has found that when addressing a MASTER in person it's always either MASTER or SIR - if HE chooses to let slave add HIS name to that, slave should feel honored to be granted the privilege of saying its MASTER's name.

As you have noticed, when referring to HIM while typing slave always uses all caps as a sign of respect. This slave has done that for years, first because it was told to by a few that it talked to online but then just automatically did so when talking with any MASTER or for that matter when referring to HIM in a journal.

See... I never even call a master "master" until they've actually done something that earns my respect. Mostly because I feel calling someone "master" implies I will obey them and I will only obey *my* dominant. I'm also under orders (or as close as orders get in my relationship *chuckles*) to not add caps to any varition of dominant or master because my dominant feels that's a deification and that dominants are not God and therefore have no need for capital letters to assert their dominance. I tried explaining that it was a like a title and he argued that submissive and slave are titles and if one has capital letters the other should too.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/10/2006 11:10:44 PM

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It still feels odd to say His name... i have avoided it for so long that sometimes when introducing Him, i stammer in my struggle to remember His given name. When speaking to Him in public i try to avoid vanilla pet names such as "Honey", or "Dear".... but i have no problem greeting Him with "Hello Wonderful Man".... perhaps because this seems more honoring for me...? Master likes that i avoid His given name and is quick to take over introductions so i do not have to speak it. Let others call Him by His name. i love being the one who calls Him Master.
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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/27/2006 6:31:12 PM

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My girl calls me by my christian name, or endearments that come naturally i.e. baby or honey etc. She calls me Sir or Master on occasion but these are equally natural for the time and place and what we are doing. Sometimes I will encourage her to use Sir to emphasise her submission or if she has been recalcitrant but generally im not overly fussed with titles. As for what I call her.....well, it depends on the moment but generally its endearments, her name or 'slavegirl' which I know pleases her greatly.

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RE: Your Dom's Name - 10/27/2006 9:27:33 PM

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With my present Domme, I refer to her as Mistress, nigh universally. Only deviation from this is when there is some reason that appearing to be in that sort of relationship would be negative, in which case, if a name must be used, I use her name.

With other people I've served in past, it's usually been a combination, depending upon circumstances.

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