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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Lady Hathor, what i am saying is that while there is nothing wrong with older and larger women, i dont think looks are what most submissives are worried about. When i talk of chemisry, i talk of that "Spark" between two people. If i meant "Lust" i would have said, not that lust is a bad thing on the odd occassion.

i hope this clarifies and sorry for any confusion.

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Anyhow im 54 and rounded myself....

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ORIGINAL: playboy777

If and when I do decide to switch or bottom, I prefer not to do it with a woman that looks like an over cooked ball park hotdog. 

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ORIGINAL: playboy777

If and when I do decide to switch or bottom, I prefer not to do it with a woman that looks like an over cooked ball park hotdog. 

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ORIGINAL: YesMistressIrish

"The curve is more powerful than the sword."  ~M. West

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ORIGINAL: MistressKris26

I'm a BBW Domme, just not older. It's nice to know that to some it doesn't matter what we look like, and to others they prefer us that way. I would agree that in the end it's the personality behind any body that makes the difference. Yet, everyone has their own "turn on's" Like long hair, great feet, apple bottom.... you get the point. For some that turn on is either larger or older or sometimes both. But thanks to giving one "larger" Domme hope of finding a great submissive!

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

It would be nice to find someone like the posters who want someone larger - but like others, too many times we get "oh ... you're BBW" and then they vanish.  And it's not like we hide it at all ... I mean, you can tell from my pic here that I'm not a 'stick figure', and Holly's nice and curvy too (shown in the pics on the personals side).  It seems like every time we find someone, they turn flakey on us, or stupid, or stubborn, or some combination of brainless/witless/gutless ... On this site and others we have the same problem. 

And of course, judging from the posts on this thread, it seems to be only the much older subs and much younger subs who like BBW - with the exception of the ones already taken *grumble*   For our preferences, we want someone within a few years of us ... so where are all the single guys about your age out there who feel like you do, RP?

LOL....that is the $64,000 question.  If I knew of any subbies who lust after dominant BBWs, I'd be happy to point them in your direction, Ma'am.  I know some subbies are embarrassed or, for lack of better terms, ashamed to admit a preference for BBWs simply because they are too afraid of what the public's perception may be.  It's the stereotypical "if you're not thin, you're not desirable" view and it's a sad one, if you ask me.  I don't care what anyone thinks.  I believe BBWs are sexy and beautiful.