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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 12/21/2006 8:26:16 AM   
LaTigresse


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why is it that younger slender dommes so hard to find?


Oh they are around but its gonnaaaaa cooooooost yaaaaaaaa!!!


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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 12/21/2006 9:03:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: howcaniserveu

why is it that younger slender dommes so hard to find?


Oh they are around but its gonnaaaaa cooooooost yaaaaaaaa!!!

  You can be sooooooooooooooooo eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeevil!!! LOL

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 12/21/2006 9:07:19 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: howcaniserveu

why is it that younger slender dommes so hard to find?


Oh they are around but its gonnaaaaa cooooooost yaaaaaaaa!!!

  You can be sooooooooooooooooo eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeevil!!! LOL


Awwww, thank you very much. I do try.


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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 12/21/2006 11:49:10 AM   
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why is it that younger slender dommes so hard to find?


Why is it that younger slender dommes are so important to find, hmm? :-)

Yeah, it's a rhetorical question but you can still think about it, no?

Lunamor

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 9/29/2007 10:59:40 PM   
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I want a older bbw domme

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 9/30/2007 7:35:40 AM   
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i truly enjoy serving my Black Owner who is also a BBW. i am her puppy and feel very fortunate to be used and owned by her..poochie

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 9/30/2007 2:39:25 PM   
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I am not BBW, but amazonian 5 foot 9 iches in height and curvey and just turned 38.

I will not be in My prime as a Domina until I am least 50 years old, that is when a Domme comes into her own I feel, not 40!

My thoughts anyways

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 9/30/2007 4:49:47 PM   
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i have found that older women capture my attention alot more than Younger ones.  it has been that way since i was a child.  The level of understanding is much deeper and the connection is stronger.  i have no preference in BDSM to a Mistress size as i found i have been attracted to variety of them in the past. 

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/1/2007 2:48:12 PM   
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I'm a pretty innocent 19 year old sub boy, and I'd honestly love nothing more than for one of these holder, or espically older BBW Dommes to come and make me their pet.

But seriously, if any of you are in the area and want a toy...drop me a line.



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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/1/2007 4:23:49 PM   
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I think it's wonderful that so many male subs are attracted to older bbw dommes. I just started a thread in  Ask A Master to find out how many Doms out there prefer older bbw subs and hope there are as many positive responses on that thread as there are on this one.

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/1/2007 4:30:52 PM   
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I actually prefer women with some meat on theyre bones. Tiny, skeletal looking women just kinda scare me, especially when you can see theyre ribs. In my opinion, its much healthier, not to mention more pleasing to the eye, when a woman has actual curves.

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/7/2007 12:14:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Connector

Seems like I'm the only one on this site who has no experience in this game and just wants to try it out. Im not submissive, but a dominant person who has the desire to let go and let a mature woman show him the ropes including controlling ass w/strapon


There's a reason for that.  Dominant women don't appreciate being treated like the drive-through McDommes by rude and demanding people who want instant sex to order. 

So you found a profile for a friendly femdom social group and sent a crude sexual proposition that made it clear you hadn't read the profile.  When it was explained to you that Domme Beach was a local Munch group that met for social chat in public restaurants, and several group members both male and female read new-member email, you got even cruder.  And apparently you're not satisfied with one profile, since you've sent the same boringly explicit sexual requests to my personal profile under a different ID.    Yes, that is grounds for being blocked and ignored by everyone in the group. 

The nastiness in your profile is really pretty funny, in addition to violating TOS, because there is no individual named "Dommebeach".  Domme Beach is a Munch group.  Emails to the profile may be answered by any of several group members.   Most frequently that would be me (Naja), but when I'm too busy to keep up with group activities or when I'm out of town, there are other folks who help out.  I'm sorry that you got so upset you felt you had to throw a tantrum when it was explained to you that you had just propositioned a man, who by the way had a very good giggle over your email. 

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/8/2007 4:18:50 AM   
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the younger frequently are role playing dominant - the older ladies never - they are real and absolutely truthfully  - no risk for the slave and no need for safeword or any "limits". I can say i am your slave it is in your hand to use me. Wonderful.

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/8/2007 10:21:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: silverthorn7

I am one of the "larger and older" Dommes being discussed and would like to add that the D/s world runs on different rules than the vanilla world. At least, we sincerely hope it does. In the vanilla world, most pick their mates, at least initially, based on what they look like - their "beauty" as defined by the one choosing. In our current culture, "beauty" is definied as "thin" first and foremost, with "young" being a close second. In the D/s world, we theoretically choose based on role which is the only quality that ultimately matters. If you are seeking a Domme, it matters not how good the barbie doll looks in fetish wear - what matters is if She can take you where you want to go. Looks are not as important as Domme or sub and finding a Domme is certainly not the same as seeking a girlfriend. Girlfriend (or boyfriend) material is everywhere - an experienced Domme who is actually looking for yet another sub is amazingly rare. There are not that many of us and many of us have had a lot of living before we realized who and what we were.  Size is powerful. It is hard to be a powerful presence when you are half the size of the male you are attempting to dominate.  Age is also a powerful thing. I am in my mid-50's and have become more Dominant with each passing year. .....(text removed for space)

Silverthorn

While I agree with many of the things you say above I highly disagree with what you say above (I highlighted it in pink).
 
 It is easy for me to be a powerful presence for men twice my size and I am petite. I love having a tall and strong man at my feet. It is very sexy for me and the big subs I have played with. Somehow it enhances the experience for us both, my being so much shorter and still able to be a fully dominant woman.
 
Being over 45 is a definite plus. Men are very visual (so are many women and I am one of those), and they desire what they desire as we do, and many of us have no control over what actually pushes our buttons. I have always thought it was grand that so many men love big women and get all hot at the sight/thought of one.
 
I do not have any kink pics up on this site as I want a good realationship with any of my subs, and want to make it clear upfront that I am not a black-clad, booted fantasy look-alike Domme. That way...I hope that more men (and women) will respond to WHO I am, rather than some super hot bdsm pic.
 
Irish

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/8/2007 10:49:50 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: YesMistressIrish

quote:

ORIGINAL: silverthorn7

I am one of the "larger and older" Dommes being discussed and would like to add that the D/s world runs on different rules than the vanilla world. At least, we sincerely hope it does. In the vanilla world, most pick their mates, at least initially, based on what they look like - their "beauty" as defined by the one choosing. In our current culture, "beauty" is definied as "thin" first and foremost, with "young" being a close second. In the D/s world, we theoretically choose based on role which is the only quality that ultimately matters. If you are seeking a Domme, it matters not how good the barbie doll looks in fetish wear - what matters is if She can take you where you want to go. Looks are not as important as Domme or sub and finding a Domme is certainly not the same as seeking a girlfriend. Girlfriend (or boyfriend) material is everywhere - an experienced Domme who is actually looking for yet another sub is amazingly rare. There are not that many of us and many of us have had a lot of living before we realized who and what we were.  Size is powerful. It is hard to be a powerful presence when you are half the size of the male you are attempting to dominate.  Age is also a powerful thing. I am in my mid-50's and have become more Dominant with each passing year. .....(text removed for space)

Silverthorn

While I agree with many of the things you say above I highly disagree with what you say above (I highlighted it in pink).
 
 It is easy for me to be a powerful presence for men twice my size and I am petite. I love having a tall and strong man at my feet. It is very sexy for me and the big subs I have played with. Somehow it enhances the experience for us both, my being so much shorter and still able to be a fully dominant woman.
 
Being over 45 is a definite plus. Men are very visual (so are many women and I am one of those), and they desire what they desire as we do, and many of us have no control over what actually pushes our buttons. I have always thought it was grand that so many men love big women and get all hot at the sight/thought of one.
 
I do not have any kink pics up on this site as I want a good realationship with any of my subs, and want to make it clear upfront that I am not a black-clad, booted fantasy look-alike Domme. That way...I hope that more men (and women) will respond to WHO I am, rather than some super hot bdsm pic.
 
Irish



I'm with Miss Irish on this one. 

Although i see the points made about larger dommes fitting the bill for 'humiliation and domination' because they are such a towering figure over the sub, i love all kinds of dommes, and personally i find it's the ones you least suspect or if you like the ones you wouldn't picture as a domme at any point, that are the ones that do it for me.

For example sometimes i will see a petite lady, or a average size  lady whatever, but if they happpen to be wearing a little something that you notice e.g a nice pair of leather boots on show, or long leather gloves etc your mind automatically can associate them with dominating you (even if it's someone you know) and i find this a great turn on. They probably have no intention of giving off that impression at all, but to you, (if you have an imagination as wild as myne anyway!) they just seem they've got a nasty streak in them and would make perfect dommes in my opinion.

I suppose i prefer less 'large'  dommes, but thats just my opinion.

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/9/2007 9:37:04 PM   
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Well I have to say I think the folks who like larger and older sommes weighted in here and those who do not for the most part avoided posting here...what did they have to gain by posting their preference.  I do think that most men prefer a woman who is not a BBW by that I mean more than a a large butt and big boobs but a woman with a good bit of meat on her bones.  I hear back regualrly from subs that say my size is a deal breaker. *shrugs* This thread and my direct experience are not confruent...just thought I would add that not that it changes anything.

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/10/2007 9:31:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: flag133

the younger frequently are role playing dominant - the older ladies never - they are real and absolutely truthfully  - no risk for the slave and no need for safeword or any "limits". I can say i am your slave it is in your hand to use me. Wonderful.



....good point as i have also noticed a bit more of risk from being overconfident v. expertise level with younger D.s-- older ones do seem to have the wisdom of taking some care and know that sometimes things can go wrong without such...certainly not all or maybe even most but...

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/12/2007 8:54:29 AM   
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I am glad that everyone has someone that 'flips their switch'. And in the end, it's what's inside that counts.
*waves hi to all the BBDommes and their happy subs*
 
Irish

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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/13/2007 6:36:43 AM   
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I love older women and I love larger women, thusly I love older, larger women. 

They're so sexy.


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RE: Older and Larger Dommes - 10/14/2007 4:33:18 PM   
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There are so many wonderful dommes on this site. Many of us, however, prefer the older larger dommes. The younger, petite and cute dommes are wonderful too. Still, the larger older dommes hold a special attraction for many of us.


def agree

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