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RE: No Strings Housework - 12/10/2006 4:05:33 PM

MistressDoMe

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I agree, No Strings Housework, should mean
no strings housework.

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RE: No Strings Housework - 12/12/2006 7:02:36 AM

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When I started this conversation I did not think through the entire idea I had in my head. I would have to know this person, the person would have to be local as I would want an ongoing relationship with this person, I would not be willing to engage in sexual play of any kind, if the person wants to dress for the occassion that would be their perogative, trust and respect between the two of us would be absolutely essential, If I am at home and not busy I might supervise, but would expect the person to be a self starter. I would indeed inspect afterwards and make any changes that may be needed.
I have probably left a number of things out of this post also. If I think of anything at a later date I will add to it.

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RE: No Strings Housework - 12/12/2006 8:26:59 AM

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i agree that "no strings housework" is exactly as You describe here. If play ensued afterwards surely that is then a "string"?? Ours is not to question why the sub would want to do it for nothing, he/she is obviously getting something out of it or else they would say no.

Would i do it? hell yeah for the right Woman of course i would, a sub is supposed to make life easier for his Mistress isnt he??

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RE: No Strings Housework - 12/13/2006 5:55:17 AM

patrick007

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I pride myself on offering a Lady no strings housework.

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RE: No Strings Housework - 12/13/2006 8:16:11 AM

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So many of you nice sub/slaves doing housework, but none living close to me....sigh.

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RE: No Strings Housework - 12/15/2006 11:49:03 PM

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I think part of the problem lies in that the three words "no strings housework" simply is not descriptive enough and it's pretty easy for people on both sides to read different things into it. It all boils down to proper communication.

"No strings" implies no sex, no dom play and no dress up or extra effort on the part of the Mistress.

It also implies that the Mistress, to some extent, *be* a Mistress. Otherwise the sub would just provide domestic services to a random stranger. Often that means simply being there and having some level of verbal interaction rather than leaving an assignment note and disappearing for the day.

For me, housework and CFNM go hand in hand, as I strongly enjoy the humiliation dynamic of being uncovered and vulnerable in the presence of a dominant female, even if there is no actual play involved. Also, it's a passive form of chastity play as I know full well that sexual release is absolutely out of the question and always will be.

Is that no strings attached? Maybe not, but it may depend on your definition of a "string".

I might desire some level of normal friendship with the Mistress I am serving. No one on either end is a BDSM robot. At the end of the day we are all just regular people. But I do not look at housework as gateway to other activities. Male subs who push at that aspect give all of us service subs a bad name and that makes me sad.

My profile isn't complete and my pic has apparently not been approved yet, but I have the "No Strings Housework" box checked off and now I'm conflicted on whether or not to uncheck it!

of course, this is just my second post, my opinion may be worth every cent you paid for it

edit: I unchecked it when I noticed the simply "Housework" was a choice...

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RE: No Strings Housework - 2/3/2008 6:24:42 PM

nudesubbie

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I love to see my wife do the house work naked. She is a cleaner by trade & I am hoping to find her a single gentalman who would like to employ her once a week or so to clean for him while naked.

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