MissBabydoll
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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn lol LAM ... Have no issues with it ... I'm a clit girl, quick draw mcgraw, and like Tammyjo find orgasm helps to ease cramps and the like during menstruation...after a shower, followed by a sensual massage, him going down seems a natural conclusion. A lesbian friend of mine use to follow me around the house begging to be allowed to get down and dirty between my legs when I was menstruating around her lol ... damn woman! some days I had to beat her off with a stick! I'm bi and I sub to a Woman but dominate males, so I experience both sides of this one. My Mistress is not crazy about the mess, but loves getting orgasms during Her period (after the first day, when she generally has no desire for it), so I serve Her orally but mostly with a tampon in. I'm fine with that, and am also fine with it the other way. With My malesubs, I don't require it, but for some of them it's a good soft limit to push. I love getting licked when I'm menstruating! I just make sure not to be wearing anything that will stain... As to whether oral sex during menstruation constitutes "blood play," I don't think so, any more than eating a placenta (which some hippie couples do, I hear) would violate a vegetarian ethic, because no animal is killed in order to produce it. Menses are not just blood but the lining of the womb grown to support the development of a foetus. No blood vessel is ruptured to produce menses unlike with knife or needle play. There is the issue of HIV, which would be transmissable via menses because the virus is throughout the bloodstream, and so that's a factor--ditto Heps B and C. (Question: since female ejaculate is made in the bladder and is basically diluted urine mixed with estrogens, does getting squirted on when performing oral service constitute a golden shower? [giggles]) Memo to imtempting: menses are not "dirty," dude. They are actually very clean when they come out, since they are the contituents of the lining of the uterus, which has to be clean because We Women make babies inside it. It's actually full of antibodies. If you are squigged personally by the thought of getting moonjuice on your face, well, fine. But don't make such a silly fuss. You remind Me of the scene in Ace Ventura, Pet detective when Ace finds out he has smooched a tranny and he showers over and over and scrubs his lips with a brillo pad, etc. But you'll be happy to know that your phobia is widespread in patriarchies everywhere from Africa to Israel to India--lots of cultures have sent Us off to the menstrual hut, the red tent, or wherever because we're "unclean" when We have our monthly flow. I suspect that this taboo has two possible origins (any anthropologists in da house?). One would be that a period represents a non-pregnancy, that is, a month when a womanslave is not doing her duty to mankind (sic) by bearing more babies, and therefore reflects badly on hubbydaddy. Another would be that intercourse during menstruation is "unproductive," and sex in patriarchies is officially for reproduction--just ask any fundie, whether Christian/Catholic, Islamist, or Orthodox Jewish. (Of course, since men want to get up in there to thump their loads, patriarchy also breeds prostitution--and the more productivist and masculinist the culture is, the more whores there will be in it, a point nicely made by Margaret Atwood in her wonderful novel The Handmaid's Tale---but equally shown by the several square miles of red light district in Victorian London that made it so much fun for Jack the Ripper, another Brit who hated the insides of Women so much he had to take them out and drape them over the furniture. But even more profoundly, menstruation represents the essentially Female in a form that does not involve passing on the genes of hubbydaddy. No wonder dom males dislike it so much! On the topic of the sacred significance and cultural importance of menstruation, I highly recommend the work of the feminist poet-scholar Judy Grahn, and also the book The Wise Wound by Penelope Shuttleworth and Peter Redgrove, two wonderful English poets. Wet red kisses to all you squggy boys! Mmmwah!
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