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RE: Lying. - 11/14/2006 10:20:12 PM

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I wouldn't worry about it, Magikslave. It's possible he's working and hasn't even read the email yet, or hasn't logged in yet or something along those lines. You've done what you and your own Master determined was the right thing to do. That's what really matters. Time to just let it go and move on to the important stuff. :)

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RE: Lying. - 11/14/2006 10:21:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

I wouldn't worry about it, Magikslave. It's possible he's working and hasn't even read the email yet, or hasn't logged in yet or something along those lines. You've done what you and your own Master determined was the right thing to do. That's what really matters. Time to just let it go and move on to the important stuff. :)

Celeste

Your right.. thanks

Thank you too LA

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 2:01:05 AM

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excuse me, when a Master tells a slave to do something, a good slave does it.

This and your subsequent posts that seem to imply that you do not believe you are the one who is responsible for your actions if you are simply obeying, offer an interesting perspective. I would ask you this....if your Master told you to rob a bank and you did it....who would bear the responsibility of serving that prison sentence? If your Master told you to jump off a bridge...which one of you would die?

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 2:35:55 AM

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 3:48:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

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Magik the point is maybe she is ready at 18. I never collared until I was 23 and even now 16+ years later, I still do not have the right to judge what age is appropriate for a collar. Would it be right for me to say, 22 is way too young to collar simply because I was older than that when I collared---or course not and that is the point I am trying to make to you. D/s is very diverse and very unique to each person and relationship and what may not be agreeable to you may totally work for someone else. I can tell you are relatively new to D/s because arrogance was one of my downfalls as a beginner.

I said it was in my opinion.. I personaly do not think anyone can have enough experiance at 18. Real life doesnt even open up to you in this life till then... She has less then half a year under her blet and is collard in MY mind that isnt the wisest move... just my opinion!!

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I have to place a comment on this - I was not in someones collar at 18 years old I will admit, simply because at 18 I had not found anyone that I could give that much of myself too, however I will say that not everyone 18 years old has less than half a year under their belt, I am fully aware that the age you are allowed to be on sites such as this is 18 - and where I am the age for sexual play is 16 however that does not mean that people do not start to grow and develop before this point, I know what I want to say but i do not want to step over lines i am not able to cross on these boards so Mods please remove this if I inadvertadly do. I guess what I am saying is I knew what I was a long time ago, and though I did not go out in the scene due to being under the age of 18 that does not mean I did not learn, It does not mean I didnt read everything I could and try and understand myself the best I could. my interest in this lifestyle started near enough 11 years ago and my practicing near enough 9 years ago (Yes, I waited, due to my age, up to the point I was legal I just learned whatever i could though will admit the internet was far more closed then) so please, age really is only a number.
Just because a girl is 18 doesnt mean shes just popped up going "Right, I'm here now, lets go"
I hope that made sense

Edited for some form of clarity and yes, before it is pounced on, I KNOW my spelling is abysmal

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 4:37:47 AM

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I have always said NO one should settle down till they are old enough to drink after a bad day at work lol

Here in Germany, you are allowed a beer when you reach 16.

On the other hand hardly anyone seems to start work until they are nearly 30.

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 4:43:18 AM

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In regards to doing what a person is told by their Dominants. In a reality, many of us myself included tend to do what we are told by a Dom. I do 'claim' to do anything he asks however there are some things that I would say no way to and he knows that therefore he would not ask---for example I would go bash an old lady over the head and grab her purse just because he told me to---however if he said 'girl we are going to play scat games tonight,' even though that is something I really don't care to do I would. I know of course he would not ask me to do either that's why we get along. As for coming online and asking the population of a message board what sort of punishment I should receive in that situation, if I sincerely had a problem with it, I would more than likely request permission to discuss it and allow him to know why I had a problem with it, but in a case of something like that, if he still requested I do so, regardless of any misgivings I might have with it, I would do as told. I doubt that I would ever be faced with that dilemma but, we need to remember these two are learning and perhaps this wasn't a brilliant idea and perhaps it was not a completely thought out act but, the op is right in her response of doing what she was told. If for example told her to cut off her tongue for lying---ummm that would be crossing the line and I would understand her not obeying. There's a line between obeying and not obeying and for everyone that line is going to be in different places. Posting this thread was more than likely on her the side of the line that she was comfortable doing. Others would probably say 'no way'. It doesn't make anyone more or less submissive. Again please remember they are learning. I remember my beginning and wonder what the hell I was thinking at that point in my life.
Magik you made a comment that speaks volumes regarding what your health teacher taught. Everyone learns grows and changes. And perhaps this thread allowed many to learn and grow and change if so then it's been positive despite all the negativity.

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 10:18:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave
I have always said NO one should settle down till they are old enough to drink after a bad day at work lol

Here in Germany, you are allowed a beer when you reach 16.
On the other hand hardly anyone seems to start work until they are nearly 30.

How did you do that.. I mean a quote that as if I siad that because I wasnt the one that said that!!

Any way LOL

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 11:00:27 AM

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No sorry I don't quite see how I did it either - wasn't intentional

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 11:02:52 AM

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it is all about the quote /quote pairs and where you type and if you leave one off of the pair.

Bill is in the mail.

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 11:06:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: dvart

No sorry I don't quite see how I did it either - wasn't intentional

LOL no problemo!! Personaly I think CM is hounted.

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 11:08:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

it is all about the quote /quote pairs and where you type and if you leave one off of the pair.

Bill is in the mail.

MaterConundrum

LOL thanks

And Id like to see you try and collect on that bill

LOL

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 5:42:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

Well I must say im a bit peturbed at the immeturity shown by them... I felt bad for some of what I said here so after talking with my Master I sent Him (being her Master) a long thought out apology for some of the things I said.. He didnt have the desensy to acknoladge that I had said anything at all.. Now I feel stupid for apologisieng!!!

Magik's slave

I just Got Online From Helping Woman Move, and being out of town. Magik's I do apreciate the Apoligie, it show Me alot In you. and the Respect You spoke with your Master on this Matter, As for Heather, I did tell her to drop it, her mouth leads her to many issues, But As we All Know Were young, and working on it. But We are Happy. Thanks again for thouse that Did try to help

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 5:54:01 PM

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here is my question to all this...
Why is he waiting to punish her?

Do other master's wait until they feel in the mood to punish? Would it not be better to punish once the bad deeed has been discovered?

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 6:16:03 PM

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Why is he waiting to punish her?

I'm not a mind reader, but I can suggest a couple of reasons why a dom might wait:

1. If the dom is angry, he might want to calm down before punishing (especially if corporal punishment is used)
2. If punishment is an infrequent occurance, then it might take a while to think of something appropriate (or devious)
3. Wait just to watch the sub squirm and worry about it, effectively making that part of the punishment

IMO, the actual punishment doesn't have to be immediate; however the dom can't wait to address the issue and tell the sub what was wrong and what it takes to get back on the right track.

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 6:18:48 PM

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Why is he waiting to punish her?

I can not speak for him however sometimes it is often a good idea to wait. I would not want to be punished in anger and I have been told---'girl, I need time to think about this.' I firmly believe that sometimes a punishment needs to be well thought out---consider the misdeed and the most effective way to have that misdeed corrected in a manner that will leave a lasting impression (not meant in a physical way such as branding liar on a girls forehead) an impression that she is not apt to forget anytime soon. In this way she will think before she decides to do this misdeed again and hopeful she will not make that same mistake again.

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 7:23:26 PM

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Do other master's wait until they feel in the mood to punish? Would it not be better to punish once the bad deeed has been discovered?

There are a lot of people out there who are not dominant at all. Yet they have subs. They lose their temper and could end up killing their submissives if they punished right away.
So, for some it is a very good idea to wait until they themselves have calmed down.
That is only one reason why one would wait.

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 8:42:02 PM

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Why is he waiting to punish her?

I'm not a mind reader, but I can suggest a couple of reasons why a dom might wait:

1. If the dom is angry, he might want to calm down before punishing (especially if corporal punishment is used)
2. If punishment is an infrequent occurance, then it might take a while to think of something appropriate (or devious)
3. Wait just to watch the sub squirm and worry about it, effectively making that part of the punishment

IMO, the actual punishment doesn't have to be immediate; however the dom can't wait to address the issue and tell the sub what was wrong and what it takes to get back on the right track.

((grumbles)) My Master is evil and he knows from the moment I have done something wrong exactly how he will handle it but he loves to make me wait a few days because he knows that I hate the waiteing more then the punishmednt and there for the waiting is part of the punishment in fact there have been a few times where he has made me wait a few days only to tell me that the waiting was the punishment and nothing more was to come he likes to see me sweat!!!!

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RE: Lying. - 11/15/2006 8:46:31 PM

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Well I must say im a bit peturbed at the immeturity shown by them... I felt bad for some of what I said here so after talking with my Master I sent Him (being her Master) a long thought out apology for some of the things I said.. He didnt have the desensy to acknoladge that I had said anything at all.. Now I feel stupid for apologisieng!!!

Magik's slave

I just Got Online From Helping Woman Move, and being out of town. Magik's I do apreciate the Apoligie, it show Me alot In you. and the Respect You spoke with your Master on this Matter, As for Heather, I did tell her to drop it, her mouth leads her to many issues, But As we All Know Were young, and working on it. But We are Happy. Thanks again for thouse that Did try to help

OK Sir thank you for acknolading me then sorry if I jumped a little to fast at it!!

I actually not only talk to Master about my behavior in this thread but send him a link so he could see for himself befor we talked about my replies in full...

Oh and just to make it clear Master didnt order me to apologise I did come to that conclution on my own he was simply very happy I had come to that conclution!!!

I wish you both good luck in your learning of not only the life but of eachother

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