BitaTruble
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Joined: 1/12/2006 From: Texas Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: starshineowned Greetings..~smiles~ No more thinks of you as any of those "orientations" in any manner other than you act and pretend to be them when it suits yours or your partners fancy. This type of behavior falls exactly into the switch category and it's there for a reason because it denotes the depth/reasoning for calling oneself either or (as in Dom today sub tomorrow) ..same goes with Top/bottom. These aren't considered a lifestyle, way of life, or choice of life. They are merely fun additions/play sessions/fantasy and kink fullfillment that add to a persons life for spice. If you've any understanding at all of what it is really like to live 24/7 as a Owner or a ownee..then you'll know LA this is not a game and it damn sure is not a choice that comes easy, and would not even begin to put a switch into the same level because to this girl it's just flat out demeaning. Doesn't have a real clue as to wether being a slave is a orientation or some other word out there yet undiscovered but does know that Not living this way as close to possible as what we know past slavery to be..leaves this girl empty, and lifeless. Can't explain it, and not going to try. Can this girl function without being a slave? Can exist yes..this is where being a doormat and robot comes in. People in this girls eyes have that all ass backwards when they are referring to a slave. Not much different to this girl than a guy thats portrayed as a Dominant figurehead around his family or in his work but sneaks off on the weekends to submit to some pro domme as her whipping boy to get off, and relieve stress. This is what see's, and how separates things. Won't apologize for it nor is this girl condemning anyone for living or calling themselves something. If your happy, and feel your being true to yourself..then cudo's. Well Wishes starshine Happy slave of Master Delvin ::bold mine:: Perhaps your particular mode of communication causes others to misread your intent. That is the fault of the writer, not the reader. To me, your words speak your vision quite well and how you view the way others live. Their ways are not your ways, so their way is not the true way. It is less than yours. It is not the same level as yours. They are actors and pretenders. They don't understand. Others play games, you live a serious life. You make the claim that you do not put down switches.. but your entire post reeks of it. Lip service is cheap and easy to give, but doing so in a post which quite clearly belies your tolerance of any but your own chosen path isn't fooling anyone but yourself. You don't have to be tolerant, but why make the claim you are when clearly you are not? Celeste
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"Oh, so it's just like Rock, paper, scissors." He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."
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