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michellerose -> RE: Family? (11/29/2006 6:36:14 AM)
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in our family, it's very obvious that my Dom (my partner's Master) is in charge. i refer to him as Sir. His slave (my partner) refers to him as Master at home, and Sir every other time. yes in front of the kids. saying "Sir" to a male in authority isn't uncommon nor unacceptible, and that's why she uses Sir.
my mother and father are aware that my Dom is more to me than a boyfriend. they know that i follow His commands, and they are also aware that he spanks me on occasion, though i think they believe it is nothing more than sexual foreplay. the kids know that mommy and michelle are their own people, but they do what Daddy says. our sex life (and any punishments we might receive) have nothing to do with our kids, and so our kids are not exposed to that. and they are happy, healthy, very well-adjusted children.
His father is aware of our relationship, and is fine with it. His mother is aware, and is not. *shrug* we don't try to hide our submission, and He doesn't hide His Dominance of us. we just do our thing. we're not like, kneeling at His feet when we come int he door at thanksgiving dinner at grandma's, but we DO stand at His side, ask if He needs things, bring his plate, refill His coffee, and are available to Him always. when he calls our names, we respond, "yes Sir?" and wait for his instructions.
but in all actuality that kind of behaviour is actually not too abnormal for my mothers extremely traditional family structure. (though the family the three of US have is far from "traditional")
i guess, long and short of it, they know, but not all of it. just like i know my sister has sex with her husband, but i don't kow the details. i don't need to. that's them. i know my brother likes to talk to his wife on the phone, and do things that way. i don't know whqat they say. i dnt have to . that's them. so, they all know that my Sir is in charge. and that's all they need to know. the rest is between us.
~michelle
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