NControlofU
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You didn't say what sort of M/s relationship you have with him. There are as many different types of personal dynamics in M/s relationships as there are Masters and slaves. Much depends on how long you have been his slave, whether you are 24/7 or part time, real life or cyber, live-in or out, whether you are his only slave or if there are others in his life, or other partners, for that matter, such as a wife or girlfriend. There just isn't enough background information to go on. Only you and he knows what your relationship is and isn't. It might just be that you are thinking that you have one type of relationship and he is thinking it is something else, entirely. You might have one set of expectations from it and he might have all together different ones. Since he says that everything is "fine", I would have to guess that his expectations are being met and that, if you aren't getting your expectations met, that you have different ones. About the only thing to do is to either, 1) talk with him honestly about what you want/need out of this relationship and what it is that is frustrating you or, 2) live with it the way it is and accept him for who he is and how he chooses to be a Master to you. You might find out that your expectations and his are not on the same page and that he isn't interested in changing his to meet yours. That is something that you will have to accept and live with or else you might have to find another Master who will give you what you are wanting and needing. David
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