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Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/18/2006 10:23:21 PM

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My Sir, that is, the dom I have been training with and hoping for a consideration collar from, has made it pretty clear that he thinks of my younger sister and I together and thinks it's hot. Recently he offered to spend more time with me if I would give him a picture of my sister, which I had previously said no to because it seems unfair to my sister to fuel someone's fantasy with her picture. Of course, I said no. I can't believe he offered that trade. I don't know what to do.

RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/18/2006 10:33:43 PM

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Im sorry dear sounds like you have an imoral "Dom" in my opinion you should think really really hard about this... He wants to involve your sister someone non consenting wants a pic of her from you bribeing you with more time to get it when she didnt say he could have it... I wouldnt want to be your sister.
you could be the best Dom in the world but DONT mess with my family

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/18/2006 10:35:24 PM

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Have you talked to him about your feelings? I'd start there. If you have already, that would be helpful information to have.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/18/2006 10:35:27 PM

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i have had requests that ranged from my sister, to my (adult) daughter. i could not get away from them fast enough... leaving worked for me...

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/18/2006 10:36:41 PM

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Are you per chance training online with this sir?
Sounds like a wanker seeking to fullfil an extremely unoriginal but very common male fantasy... Good for you that you have refused, and maybe you'll even tell him to take a hike for trying to pressure you into this.
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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/18/2006 11:06:59 PM

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Doesn't sound like he deserves the title you give him. Consent is big thing and she isn't consenting. Don't, I repeat, don't give him fuel for his desires. It's only going to make him want to see if he can push things farther.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/18/2006 11:21:50 PM

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Look up Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka sometime. Not saying he is going into a crime direction, but heck, just asking you to supply his fantasy with your non consenting sister sure seems like he lacks a barrier somewhere. The man is bribing you.
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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/18/2006 11:34:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LittleDaisyGirl

My Sir, that is, the dom I have been training with and hoping for a consideration collar from, has made it pretty clear that he thinks of my younger sister and I together and thinks it's hot. Recently he offered to spend more time with me if I would give him a picture of my sister, which I had previously said no to because it seems unfair to my sister to fuel someone's fantasy with her picture. Of course, I said no. I can't believe he offered that trade. I don't know what to do.

He thinks of you and your sister together? It's common for men to fantasize about 2 women touching each other, but we're talking incest here.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/18/2006 11:38:15 PM

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He thinks of you and your sister together? It's common for men to fantasize about 2 women touching each other, but we're talking incest here.

Incest is also a fairly common fantasy (what men have with twins, I will never know) but the issue here is that he's exhibiting signs of trying to make it come true and clearly it's not something the OP is comfortable with and brings in unconsenting parties. It's the difference between reading rape erotica and asking for when your best friend goes to bed and if she really turns her alarm on every night.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/18/2006 11:42:00 PM

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Sounds like you're going to be looking for a new sir.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/19/2006 1:40:50 AM

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We've all heard said "it takes all kinds", ask yourself if you want to ~be~ that kind.
My vote is dump the wanker...............

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/19/2006 2:40:26 AM

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Ditch him. There's tons of other Doms out there with interests probably more closely related to your own.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/19/2006 2:40:32 AM

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This guy is a major creep. Dump him!

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/19/2006 2:40:49 AM

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Trust your gut...I'm not hearing the fun kind of "I don't know what to do.", but quite the opposite. I suggest not trying to rationalize it either. You won't become a better sub/slave or whatever by giving up your non-consenting sister.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/19/2006 3:39:02 AM

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I know you have probably quit reading responses by now, but I hope you will do as the others have suggested.

He sounds like someone taking advantage of you being new, it's more the actions of a dirty old man (or young), than a Dom.

Please walk away now before you get your sister involved. You have the free will to talk to him all you want, but if you give him your sisters pic..you have taken away her right to choose.

It's not a game hun, though he might be playing...online can still be dangerous if enough fuel is given to the fire.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/19/2006 3:41:39 AM

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Sounds like you're going to be looking for a new sir.

That's about what I was thinking.......only worded much nicer.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/19/2006 4:03:33 AM

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Sounds like a guy I met a couple of years ago only he was going to use my friends and unmentionables to start a stable of "working girls". I said no and was assaulted. Perhaps you should take the advice people here are giving you and get away from him as quickly as possible......

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/19/2006 4:23:15 AM

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Time to find a new Dom. This guy is baiting you in the hopes of trying to get you and your sister into bed with him. That's incest, don't fuel his fantasy. Tell him to go to hell.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/19/2006 4:25:52 AM

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I don't know what to do.

That's easy, tell him to go fuck himself.

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RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request - 12/19/2006 5:15:40 AM

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There is nothing that can justify his behavior and his requests, especially if your sister is underage. To me it sounds like he's trying to convince you bit by bit to have sex with both your sister and him, that is not something a loving and respectable dom would ask. Like my mum says don't walk away, run away, I'd leave anyone who asked something like that of me because it's an indication of bad character.

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