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G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 4:26:27 PM

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ok slight blush here...

i have NEVER climaxed through penetration!! In fact i think i was born without a G-Spot.....

has anyone else experienced this and then managed to "get over" it? Any positions or toys i should try???

ta muchly in advance
snarf
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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 4:41:18 PM

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I have a g-spot, but still can't cum with just intercourse. I have to have clitorial stimulation and so do most of the friends I have. You aren't not normal, but I can see how it's frustrating sometimes.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 4:41:54 PM

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Honestly, it depends on your anatomy and your head space. Try doggie style, head down, ass as high as you can raise it.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 4:45:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: SlaveAkasha

I have a g-spot, but still can't cum with just intercourse. I have to have clitorial stimulation and so do most of the friends I have. You aren't not normal, but I can see how it's frustrating sometimes.

Kasha

Ah thank jeepers for that - i thought that was the case - i mean many chicks needing clit stim too.... but my last master was adamant that MOST girlies climax through penetration - i did suggest that maybe that's what they told him and perhaps faked it....

Ooh that flogging hurt......hehe

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 4:46:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Honestly, it depends on your anatomy and your head space. Try doggie style, head down, ass as high as you can raise it.

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ORIGINAL: ADomlesssub

Any positions or toys i should try???

mmmmmmm fave position - but sadly not a climax goer for moi.....

interesting thought about the head space though....

snarf
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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 4:50:45 PM

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Well i have never tried it but heard from my friend if you lay in the bed on your back if he pulls your ass off the bed and holds you legs and then try penetration he may just hit your G spot. I guess it is worth a try.

Matt's littleone

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 5:01:09 PM

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G-spot is tuff to find on some women and like all women....you're all different as to what gets you off? I've had some women who respond well to a finger massaging the G-spot and some don't? I don't think a cock can really get to the G-spot? I'm not a woman but I think it takes a finger or a curved vibrator to actually reach the spot? What I've also found is that it's hard for me to find the G spot sometimes? It really helps with the woman helping with verbal directions. Try and show your mate where it is on you and hopefully that'll help you both....?????

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 5:07:52 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ADomlesssub
ok slight blush here...

i have NEVER climaxed through penetration!! In fact i think i was born without a G-Spot.....

has anyone else experienced this and then managed to "get over" it? Any positions or toys i should try???

ta muchly in advance
snarf
xxx

Most women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm.

Most women also have a g-spot area- sometimes it feels good, sometimes it doesn't feel much of anything.

I love g-spot stimulation, but no amount of it has ever gotten me close to orgasm. I need a secure environment, and steady repetitive friction on my clitoris for that.

However, you should still try everything you want to try- never know where it will take you. Just don't try it in the hopes of orgasming- try in the hopes of trying and enjoying new things.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 5:12:06 PM

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just read that science has now proven the G- spot is not the same on all women. Some women have little to no receptors in that area while others have a plethera.
Favorite fuck trick that does it everytime for me.... While riding on top, gently tip your hips forward on the way up, slipping the cock out but still pressed against the pussy and ride the shaft back down so the head hits the clit, you can bounce back and forth between actually having him inside and rubbing the clit and as I said works everytime..... I do mean everytime.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 5:14:35 PM

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just read that science has now proven the G- spot is not the same on all women. Some women have little to no receptors in that area while others have a plethera.
Favorite fuck trick that does it everytime for me.... While riding on top, gently tip your hips forward on the way up, slipping the cock out but still pressed against the pussy and ride the shaft back down so the head hits the clit, you can bounce back and forth between actually having him inside and rubbing the clit and as I said works everytime..... I do mean everytime.

to be honest it is not that much of an issue for me - i was just worried that perhaps i was a break from the norm - which of course i am - just not in that way,,,, haha

bring on the clitoral stimulation!!!
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Yay
snarf
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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 5:18:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ADomlesssub
ok slight blush here...

i have NEVER climaxed through penetration!! In fact i think i was born without a G-Spot.....

has anyone else experienced this and then managed to "get over" it? Any positions or toys i should try???

As others have said, that is not uncommon. But if you want a great toy that tinkers with G-Spot and clit simultaneously, I highly recommend the Rabbit Habit (of Friends fame and also featured on Oprah):

http://trustedpleasures.com/cart.php?type=prod&prod=16479&channel=google&word=rabbithabit

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 5:31:03 PM

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you are not alone, there are a lot of women out there with that issue...and lots of authors of books writing books for them

some books tackle it from a psychological perspective, healing past trauma, doing deep relaxation , being comfortable with intimacy ect...

but my favorite is a woman who wrote "the super sexual orgasm book" ......Barbra Keesling is her name.

anyway her thing is that, she was a sex therapist and found a huge majority of the women she sees could not climax vaginally. Her research has led her to understand that the uterus in these women hang slightly over the cervix...she has discovered there is a huge pool of nerve endings she calls the cul-de-sac that are not accessed because the uterus is blocking the acess.

in her book she teaches countless women to tone the uterus, through a very elaborate series of kagles, and to have the mind altering, earth dripping orgasms.

and i am one of them.

to date i have had a 2 hour orgasm on 3 occasions...and sure folks out there might think that is as likely as Santa clause getting laid by the tooth fairy... but it is true...and i attribute it to her book.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 5:31:08 PM

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I don't think a cock can really get to the G-spot?

A cock can find the G-spot. It has to have just the right curve to it and to be honest I have only met one man that can hit it everytime.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 5:56:47 PM

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but my favorite is a woman who wrote "the super sexual orgasm book" ......Barbra Keesling is her name.

anyway her thing is that, she was a sex therapist and found a huge majority of the women she sees could not climax vaginally. Her research has led her to understand that the uterus in these women hang slightly over the cervix...she has discovered there is a huge pool of nerve endings she calls the cul-de-sac that are not accessed because the uterus is blocking the acess.

in her book she teaches countless women to tone the uterus, through a very elaborate series of kagles, and to have the mind altering, earth dripping orgasms.

and i am one of them.

to date i have had a 2 hour orgasm on 3 occasions...and sure folks out there might think that is as likely as Santa clause getting laid by the tooth fairy... but it is true...and i attribute it to her book.

Ooh i will look her up....

oh and by the way - i SAW santa and the tooth fairy getting it on...... hehe....

a jealous snarf
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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 5:58:06 PM

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I don't think a cock can really get to the G-spot?

A cock can find the G-spot. It has to have just the right curve to it and to be honest I have only met one man that can hit it everytime.

Ooh may i borrow him please? just for an ickle while.... hehe.....

snarf
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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 6:05:42 PM

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I've found that the G-spot is difficult to find at first or after a quicky but after hours of intercourse I've always found it easliy and much swollen. It's then that direct stimulation works best. Twice the women I was with ejaculated for the first time in thiers lives and needless to say were surprised. I've come to the opinion however unscientific that this special little spot is one that needs lots of time and attention to best enjoy it.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 6:20:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: SlaveAkasha

I have a g-spot, but still can't cum with just intercourse. I have to have clitorial stimulation and so do most of the friends I have. You aren't not normal, but I can see how it's frustrating sometimes.

Kasha

Same for me.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 6:30:04 PM

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Ooh may i borrow him please? just for an ickle while.... hehe.....

snarf
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I dont think Master would take kindly to me loaning him out. * smiles * but..... I am sure if you ever visit the states he would allow me to arrange something * sweet innocent smiles*

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 6:35:25 PM

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I have the same problem. Sex feels good, but I've only had a full orgasm with one guy (the end of his cock hooked to the side). Even more strange, I can't make myself orgasm with my fingers for some reason. Rubbing against something is the only thing that seems to work. You're definitely not alone.

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RE: G-Spotless.... - 12/20/2006 6:42:36 PM

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In my experience, this could be caused by any number of things: bad sexual technique from either partner, a lack of arousal during foreplay, or perhaps you simply don't get off during penetration. I didn't experience regular orgasms from sex until a year or two after becoming sexually active. It was fun but it wasn't "all that".

I suggest trying more foreplay and all different types of positions and rhythms.

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